I am a Taurus women and I have been talking to a Virgo man for some time now. I like him a lot and I know he definitely likes me. We are taking things slow and figuring each other out before we jump into a relationship.
Long story short, we talk almost all day which has been really getting to me, because I need some space. I am scared to ask for a couple of days to myself because I feel like he will take it the wrong way...
What would be the best way to let a Virgo know and also how do Virgos feel about a person asking for space? I don't want to hurt or lose him but I feel suffocated with the clingy side of him I have to breathe. (Also my moon sign is Scorpio and his is Aries)
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
I am a Virgo sun/ Aries moon.
I'd have no trouble with it at all. Tell him straight up.
It's just that if you already take things slow...taking space from that ...does not bode well. I mean we understand people get overwhelmed but if you're already distant, you will need to be reassuring about this or he will feel he is wasting his time.
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Jan 20, 2016Comments: 40 · Posts: 211 · Topics: 3
I asked a Virgo man for a space once because of finals and things being too intense and he got offended? but when I was back he was cold at first but then back to normal so... don't worry too much about it, they will understand?
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Jul 03, 2017Comments: 2 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 42
Wish I could meet a Virgo with some Aries in him ? Cause getting them to chase is ridiculous. Be careful what you wish for cause when they dissapear you'll be wanting time again.
Just tell him you have some work to catch up on for a couple of days and you'll text him when you're free only because it's gonna take up some time and you don't want him texting and you don't respond for him to think you're ignoring him. Then when you're ready for it full on again just let him know that you're free again? Maybe that'll help.