Attention All Virgo's!!!!!
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by sweethearts_1969 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 and has 16 replies.
What do you ultimately want from a relationship? Explain what the person would be like to make you happy?
Ok, Thanks....Could you also respond the Stare Post too!!!!!!
Strings:
Thanks, that's what I want too, so why is it so different for the males.
dyrstr8z:
I did send you a couple of PM's but I know they are probably full. He grew up poor and so did I but I have worked very hard to buy my own house and I did and he is still living with friends. (I don't know if that makes a difference to him or not) He always acts like he doesn't deserve better. I do think he needs to grow up a little and realize that not everyone is out to get him or hurt him but I don't think he is there yet. The more positive I am the more pestimistic he is and he puts himself down. I don't know of anyone who would be a mediator and I don't think he would be willing either. I know by reading these post, watching how he acts when I see him (which has been rare since I have been somewhat staying away from where I usually go) I have been staying home and working on my yard or going to a festival, etc.... I think if I could actually get him home alone and talk to him privately that maybe I could get some answers but I'm not the type of person that just shows up at someone's house unless I call first and I deleted his number off my cell phone so I wouldn't be able to call him and I don't know his number by heart.
Do they ever come over and start talking to the female after they do know that you are interested or will he just hide in his shell and watch from afar?
Thanks, that's what I want too, so why is it so different for the males.
dyrstr8z:
I did send you a couple of PM's but I know they are probably full. He grew up poor and so did I but I have worked very hard to buy my own house and I did and he is still living with friends. (I don't know if that makes a difference to him or not) He always acts like he doesn't deserve better. I do think he needs to grow up a little and realize that not everyone is out to get him or hurt him but I don't think he is there yet. The more positive I am the more pestimistic he is and he puts himself down. I don't know of anyone who would be a mediator and I don't think he would be willing either. I know by reading these post, watching how he acts when I see him (which has been rare since I have been somewhat staying away from where I usually go) I have been staying home and working on my yard or going to a festival, etc.... I think if I could actually get him home alone and talk to him privately that maybe I could get some answers but I'm not the type of person that just shows up at someone's house unless I call first and I deleted his number off my cell phone so I wouldn't be able to call him and I don't know his number by heart.
Do they ever come over and start talking to the female after they do know that you are interested or will he just hide in his shell and watch from afar?
Thanks dyrstr8z, that does help. He told me he has only had two serious relationships in his life one he was married to for 7 years and one he was with for over two years. The one he was married too I think really broke his heart and the second one that he dated a fews years later she got pregnant but she told him that she couldn't have kids and he stuck around for a while with her but he left after it being too much for him even though he wants to be close to his child and he does have a hard time dealing with it and I met him a few months after he finally left here and maybe that was too soon for him to get involved with anyone and he did anyways and then backed off. I just started going back to the same place we both hang out but I only go once a week now to the one place and the other place he doesn't really go to anymore from what someone told me.
Could you ask your Virgo friend why and what finally made him realize he was good enough?
Bye the way, how is your Scorpio women doing? Anymore household projects need to be done? =-)
Could you ask your Virgo friend why and what finally made him realize he was good enough?
Bye the way, how is your Scorpio women doing? Anymore household projects need to be done? =-)
dyrstr8z: This was the full stare question, please tell me what you think.
The Stare? If you get the stare from them after a couple of months and it last at least 5 seconds but felt way longer, does that mean anything? There was already a beginning stage and other stages and now it has been two months and the stare came and I felt weak at my knees. It was overpowering. My Virguy has me hooked and I can't get over these feelings for him and then he watches me and then the stare we had with each other is way too much for me. I want him and I felt he wanted me but I don't know what happened in the first place to stop us from going forward so is there anything to that or not?
You're too cool!! Thanks for some insight. I think you have helped a lot of people try to understand what is going on with the Virgo males. I noticed that you always say the the Mature Virgo Male, can you tell us anything about the less mature ones or the somewhat harden ones?
I, myself have not opened up to someone in so long until this Virguy and I think that is why I am so confused right now. Usually, I can move on somewhat quickly but for some reason I am completely hooked and I am having trouble doing so. I was even asked out three times in one night by three different guys and I turned them all down (stupid, I know) but I am realizing I'm not ready to go out with anyone right now.
Oh, that is so great for you about you and Deb. I hope the Scorpio women on here can give you some more insight on your relationship and I hope that all these questions that we all have about Virgo males will help you understand what drives us nuts.
I, myself have not opened up to someone in so long until this Virguy and I think that is why I am so confused right now. Usually, I can move on somewhat quickly but for some reason I am completely hooked and I am having trouble doing so. I was even asked out three times in one night by three different guys and I turned them all down (stupid, I know) but I am realizing I'm not ready to go out with anyone right now.
Oh, that is so great for you about you and Deb. I hope the Scorpio women on here can give you some more insight on your relationship and I hope that all these questions that we all have about Virgo males will help you understand what drives us nuts.
Strings: LOL........I know, I probably should ask someone else but he said he knows some other Virgo males and maybe he has insight on some of it from them. It was worth a shot...
I think I'm starting to realize I'm not really interested in a relationship. Does that make me something of a Hardened Virgo? I am also really curious what he means when he says "Mature Virgo." The terms seem too "loaded;" I don't know if I should read it. Besides, tt seems impossible for me to read a list of "symptoms" and not compare myself to them.
Oh, I'd also like to see an "Entertainment Value Only" disclaimer or two (That was a joke. I'm not being snarky. Ok, maybe I am, but no harm meant).
Oh, I'd also like to see an "Entertainment Value Only" disclaimer or two (That was a joke. I'm not being snarky. Ok, maybe I am, but no harm meant).
Is there any other Virgo's that have opinions on this subject? Just trying to get a variety of information.
iNtelleGent, hOod aNd iN control oF his sHit!
hi, its my first time on here i enjoy reading your posts, the question 'what do you want from a relationship' from my point of veiw as a virgo, i want to feel loved someone who will listen to me and show an interest in me, but i also what do do the same for my partner, i would like them to feel loved, have fun together and alot of sex. xx
We are dreamers. Not to the extent of Pisces, and we may need them so they open up that powerful facility, that we are stereotypically not using. They open a reigon of the mind, or they give us a haven to share it. So I want someone I can share a Deep relationship with, and a mature conversation with, that entails life, and everything. I want to grow and explore together, and hold each other, and watch the sunset on a beach in comfort, and love, as the tides roll in, and out. I want a haven where I can share certain feelings, and a degree of honesty, I have within. A person who shares my Humanitarian visions, and concerns, and my desire to rise, and abstract. I wish to share my heart in the way that leaves a person in heartache when they are apart... A REAL LOVE...
A Virgo admitting to being a dreamer? Very interesting...
Yes, I admit it catfish36. My aim to to breakdown barriers not create them; you aren't learning anything new about a Virgo if they don't open up, and My asendant is Capricorn, so I have lots of earth in me; I AM NOT AFRAID TO BE VULNERABLE BECUASE LIFE HAS A WAY OF PUTTING US IN THESE VULNERABLE SPOTS....PEOPLE NEED TO GET USED TO IT. I am a REAL virgo, whom is ok with expressing myself; and what's with in; I am looking for a person to do that with; I am honest internally, and not afraid of it...show me this person, and life can be beautiful.
I must be a new type of Virgo, and I am getting a lot of sharp opinions from others, but I cling vehelmontly to them; I KNOW WHO I ASPIRE TO BE, AND WHO I AM. I wish more of us could admit this...but I guess this would become a sewin' circle, and i'm ok with being alone in my personal beliefs...screw 'em I'll be the first, the last, the ONLY if need be. "I Analyze" is weak, "I Envision" should be what virgo is about; if people continue to look at her in the way they do, and we show them this outwardly; how will they ever know who we are? our aspirations? our dreams & motivations?. as I said before; I WILL BE THE FIRST, THE LAST, OR THE ONLY IF NEED BE; I AM PREPARED TO DEFEND/FIGHT FOR MY BELIEFS. I am glad that you find me interesting catfish36!!
I am not any less virgo becuase I have gotten over my shyness; that I STATE IS A PERSONALITY QUIRK, NOT A TRAIT; A TRAIT IS SOMETHING THAT ALLOW A PERSON TO GIVE, AND EXPRESS;NOT HIDE!!. I felt that it is, (and always felt it impractical)to be shy, but if others are ok with it, I'm not here to rock their boats...just believe in your vision as a Virgo; as I do, and life will change around you...we earth signs in my oppinion go far beyond simple materialism; we are of the sensations, and sense is goverened in reality; so in a sense even if the supernatural can be sensed, are we not worth to be considered something more than just materialistic, or REALITY-BASED? and STUCK IN REALITY? I think as an earth sign, my job is to enlighten, and bring wisdom to the world, all the while having a sense of direction, and understanding of the concrete, and with this virgoan idealism...is my aim not acheivable????
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