Bad haircut!

Next time you get your hair cut, make sure you tell the lady or guy...what "a little shorter" means...so they don't leave you with barely nothing in the head!

I had this fun hair- style in my head that some ladies used to like to play with...and now it's completely gone...uh not so sure how this is going to work with the ram ladies I've been seeing anymore...it looks like a terrible combination between joe triviani and malcolm's younger brother :o

So to all my virgo buddies out there...what do you do when you get a really bad haircut...or am I being too picky just because I can feel my skull on the sides but not on the top? I just look at it and makes me want to jump from a cliff!! 🙂

...this may help me with my 'single' purposes for real...lol

tommy...

your are right...being more specific helps...instead of venturing into the no-no-land!

everyone thinks having a short haird is easy...and that we don't care how much shorter it gets...whatever...lies lies lies

i care! dang it!

so i'll try the counts you shared next time...basically...i need to go buy more basecall hats and wear them backguards for a bit...

I'd have to see a pic of it to comment 😉

and yeah, this topic proves that virgos yap about the most insignificant things lol

🙂

am I being too picky
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No not at all!!
Don't you know, YOUR bad haircut is the MOST IMPORTANT issue on the earth apart from how many people are dying on earth due to hunger etc.?

Thinking about your haircut is a sign of selfawareness of a grown up "mature" person!

"not so sure how this is going to work with the ram ladies I've been seeing"


Easy, especially with a Ram .. either play into her sympathy and say how embarrassing it is, look what he did to my hair, and tell her that you have to hide your head in her arms (they sympathize with embarrassment).
Or, they also have a great sense of humor, so you could make yourself a joke out of it, come up with something cleverly funny about how you look .. she'll laugh and then feel the need to protect you because of your goofy haircut.

Also, and probably most importantly .. don't forget to notice her hair .. or, she might just laugh at you instead of with you.

reiniba,

you would laugh laugh laugh...so maybe if one day you get really sad i will do you the favor, what about that 🙂 hope things are going well with the virguy...and btw you too, aquas, do care about insignificant things...like random stuff, and you know it!

carprigirlwithvirgo,

i never said that my haircut is the most important matter in this world, haha, i just needed to vent somewhere...is not like you were posting anything about world hunger and poverty here right? if so i'd have been glad to discuss all about that with you...

yesterday i just struggled with my hair-cut, that's all. don't you ever have days like that? look around the boards, everyone in this forum makes posts about ALL sort of stufff...this is for sure NOT the most relevant, but hey, it may give room for someone to relate/not-relate/or laugh...which is okay and a good thing...

i don't think worrying about a haircut has to do with a level of seriousness of maturity...i think it has to do with a basic normal human feeling of despair when things don't go the way you expected...that's all...if you never had any of those, mad prompts to you, but i do and have no problem saying that or showing that human side of me, even as a virgo...i can go all deep and intellectual, but i can be random and very human too.

so take this as post as you may...and if you want to talk about more serious stuff, bring it on, i'll be all about it 🙂

P-angel,

"Easy, especially with a Ram .. either play into her sympathy and say how embarrassing it is, look what he did to my hair, and tell her that you have to hide your head in her arms (they sympathize with embarrassment).
Or, they also have a great sense of humor, so you could make yourself a joke out of it, come up with something cleverly funny about how you look .. she'll laugh and then feel the need to protect you because of your goofy haircut"

I think I'll try both 😉 She thinks I'm really funny for some reason, so I'll have to use that in my favor now! Good advice P-angel, thank you!

"Also, and probably most importantly .. don't forget to notice her hair .. or, she might just laugh at you instead of with you"

Haha, good point, she has beautiful blonde curly hair, so I'll make sure she knows that once again!

🙂

I'll keep ya posted.

You're welcome .. and next time, do what girls do when they use a different hair stylist .. show a picture, they have tons of books laying around for you to choose a style .

Good Luck with your date 🙂

reiniba,

you would laugh laugh laugh...so maybe if one day you get really sad i will do you the favor, what about that hope things are going well with the virguy...and btw you too, aquas, do care about insignificant things...like random stuff, and you know it!

all the time. but at least I only complain to the ones closest to me! lol : ) Since I assume they'd be the ones to help me out. lol

I doubt I'll be sad anytime soon but hey, thanks! lol I don't like getting sad about anything, I always strive for wisdom and understanding, analyzing the heck out of everything til I understand that the cause of my problems was due to lack of knowledge! : )

"basically...i need to go buy more basecall hats and wear them backguards for a bit..."

hey, you can always buy a wig ..'ala britney! 😉 But seriously, many Arians seem to have a tough time at the hair salon, as well; rulers of the head and face. Seems to always be, just a lil too much off!

Reiniba,

"all the time. but at least I only complain to the ones closest to me! lol"

Oh, that is so true! I think it's easier for me to open up with total strangers (well not totally, but you know) that my friends here in my 3-D world...I don't why. I can tell a random lady in the airplane about my fears and stuff...knowing I may never see her again...one time I actually ended up praying with two people who were sitting next to me, one of the ladies was crying and the guy who was siting next to me was so depressed because he had lost his job...I was 18 and at the time I was traveling as a translator in a mission trip to build houses after a huracan....and so their stories touched my heart I was like "can I pray for you?"...so surely enough we all closed our eyes and prayed...um, I don't know that I could always do that so shamelessly with all my friends, ha...maybe is because the expecations are different?

and..

"I don't like getting sad about anything, I always strive for wisdom and understanding, analyzing the heck out of everything til I understand that the cause of my problems was due to lack of knowledge!"

I agree with the first words...but my question is, is the cause of all the problems the lack of knowledge though? I think not, because I think even after knowing people can fail and create problems...I think 'lack of knowledge' is one element...but the nature of all of us, as human beings (always wanting to take things under our control) is a huge element of problems too, don't you think? Plus I think knowledge comes and goes, wisdom sticks around for a while...

capgirlinlustwithleo,

"Rather than a funky crop I ended up with about an inch and a half of hair all over"

Haha, i'm so sorry, sadly this remind me of my current hair style , maybe they had the same idea in mind? 😉

I'm glad that you understand and that you learned something from it, I know I did and I'm seriously getting over it...I know hair grows back...so I can laugh when I look at my head now...the lady messed up the sides so much, it has this vanilla-ice lines almost...made 'not on purpose'...I can feel them right now...they feel like messed roads in a crazy town 😛

Quo vadis,

"Oh I'm sure it's not that bad...Take off the hat and lets have a look....That's it.....YEEEEEEEEKS....MOTHER OF GOD....WHAT DID THEY DO TO YOUR HAIR....Oh I would sue...I'd get a lawyer and sue the sons of -"

Haha, yeah, thanks! I feel better now 🙂 Read my previous lines to capgirlwithlustinleo so you can laugh even more! So your username sounds cool, is that Latin? I think I know what it means...let me think....hmmm....

Mystic_fish,

"hey, you can always buy a wig ..'ala britney!"

🙂

Yeah, maybe I should call her to rent the wig for a little while, do you haver her number?

I agree with the first words...but my question is, is the cause of all the problems the lack of knowledge though? I think not, because I think even after knowing people can fail and create problems...I think 'lack of knowledge' is one element...but the nature of all of us, as human beings (always wanting to take things under our control) is a huge element of problems too, don't you think? Plus I think knowledge comes and goes, wisdom sticks around for a while...

yeah, I know what you're saying. It is wisdom, but wisdom comes from knowledge, understanding and time. I know that people can fail and create problems, hence, if I did not know that I'd end up naive. Hence, no matter what a human says, you gotta remember the keyword is human, nothing is ever set in stone. And that is common knowledge to me concluded from experience and logic. So anyway, go figure..

But you gotta remember I'm Aqua, "I know"..

You are Virgo- You analyze...and continue to..: ) while I just know...because I analyze and come to the conclusion that I must always analyze because even then after I analyze, I could never come to a finite conclusion. And I "know" that ^_~

and this is just my dumb infinite conclusion from some astrology thing

reiniba,

"I just know...because I analyze and come to the conclusion that I must always analyze because even then after I analyze, I could never come to a finite conclusion. And I "know" that"

hmmm, but how do you know that? don't you have finite conclusions about ceratin things in life though?

i think my analysis goes on and on in some instances but in some others i just know too...and believe it or not i have reached a point of conclusion in some areas...so the analysis does have a purpose and ending sometimes 🙂

but is the ending finite or infinite? o_O...lol my brain X_X

let's just throw in the Jesus-factor!! lol that'll solve all our problems

"but is the ending finite or infinite? o_O...lol my brain X_X

let's just throw in the Jesus-factor!! lol that'll solve all our problems"

haha, yeah, see clear example, the ending can be BOTH finite and infite...

my conclusion about believing in God is finite...but His nature...infite! 🙂

i think i *know* as i understand better, but also sometimes... i know...just because...

not everything in this life is proven to be mathematical and scientific...and whoever is saying that is contradicting himself/herself 😛

well

I have capricorn in mercury and venus and they're both in the 9th house, so naturally, I philosophize the heck out of everything I do and say 🙂

at least I make God proud, right 😉

ROTFLMAO!!

I agree. I hate my new hair-cut too. It's razored cut/layed w/ an edge-up, It even SOUNDS like hot homosexual chaos. LOL, but my hair is growing back..thank God🙂

A-4 gemini...yeah but I bet your Kym still loves you with or without!!!...:-) doesn't she A4:-)

Ax

Darn straight!!...I could really sense love by this statement when I first got it


"Everytime I see you, you just look dumber & dumber..*laughs* Thanks for making my day, hun. I love you."

capgirlinlustwithleo,

yeah i don't know...haha, we just went with the flow...but it's been a fun conversation this far 🙂

reiniba,

God is proud of you no matter how phylosophical you get at times or not, lol, but he clearly made you special my friend!

a4_gemini,

see...you understand my frustration...haha...good to know!

the ladies don't seem to mind it now 😛 which is great...and i'm glad your girl over there isn't minding that at all either. good stuff...we must be lucky lucky!!

alana,

how is your hair doing today?

vll