Best friends Virgo+Scorpio

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Arwen29 on Sunday, November 6, 2011 and has 36 replies.
As a scorp, i would say my Virgo friend would be one of my closest and deepest friendships ... I find we are very similar - analytical, can xray each other for bull***, appreciate kindness, both have cynical humour, can spend time in silence or in passionate debate, value truth, have similar temperaments.
On first impression, i think we felt intimidated by each other, & it took a LOT of time to get to know the virgo! As i scorp, ive learnt to be more patient, and calm with my emotions/reactions, and i think the virgo has become a little more comfortable with expressing himself/emotional displays.
Do you think they make a good pair in friendship and love?
I use to try to get this one Scorpio chick to be mine, it's in the air as of now..but I do have a close friend that is a Scorpio. I agree V and S are similar, I share the fact that we are misunderstood people. There are a whole lot of traits that we both share, I guess it does make sense that we were both the same sign way back when.
me and my scorpio bff always talk about things that only we notice. we're both observant and like studying people and things around us. we have many inside jokes and have similar sense of humor and sarcasm smile we both love each other..but we never say it. thats all.
@amrutha92 "we both love each .. but we never say it"
Exactly!! Its just a lot of long meaningful looks Winking
My best friend of like 21 years now is a Scorp.
We have similar personalities--very sarcastic, and boy can we tell dirty jokes, lol.
I love him to death, but find that the more I'm around him the more I want to kick him in the sides Tongue
We are so in tune with each other though, it's awesome.
Then again, I have a Scorp rising, that may help?
Scorpios are cool with me because we can relate without saying too much, it's a mutual respect..I like their style and vice versa they dig our style also. Maybe V and S should stick together since we are the same basically..just a thought.

no comment lol.
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lol Legendaryvirgo, you have to tell us whats on your mind now Tongue
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

no comment lol.

I second that lol
Posted by virgoking
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

no comment lol.

I second that lol
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lmao.
lol! typical smile
Posted by Arwen29
@amrutha92 "we both love each other.. but we never say it"
Exactly!! Its just a lot of long meaningful looks Winking


I know right?! I know she feels it quite deeply. No words need to be spoken. And i'm sure i'd kill it by stuttering awkwardly .
Hows everyone's virgo & scorpio relationships in life going these days?
Someone in the Scorpio forum shared this and what better place to share:
"A legend has it, that when Libra came down from the heavens, ???he?? split up the two. Virgo took half of the traits and Scorpio took the other half. Virgo is the virgin, the light, purity, and etc. Scorpio is the most sexual, the darkest, spawn of ???Lord of the Underworld,?? and etc. Virgo has a grounded aspect, whereas Scorpio has an emotional aspect."

Speaks volumes Winking
My best friend is a Scorpio. She's an amazing lady and I'm lucky to have her in my life. I can go to her for literally anything, and she can do the same for me. Best friendship I've ever had.
Posted by LetltB
Someone in the Scorpio forum shared this and what better place to share:
"A legend has it, that when Libra came down from the heavens, ???he?? split up the two. Virgo took half of the traits and Scorpio took the other half. Virgo is the virgin, the light, purity, and etc. Scorpio is the most sexual, the darkest, spawn of ???Lord of the Underworld,?? and etc. Virgo has a grounded aspect, whereas Scorpio has an emotional aspect."

Speaks volumes Winking



I did not know this...it explains a lot.
thanks for sharing that let it be smile
Scorpio and Virgo, generally speaking are very similar creatures...
The processes, thinking, ideals etc. may be very similar but the way each would take upon actions and their own way to reach conclusions are very different.
One coin, two sides.
Its truly a calm harmonious friendship. If the guy is Scorpio, he loves to protect the Virgo girl. He is very respectful too & not forceful like other signs
Found this @ http://minihoroscope.com/love-horoscope/love-sign-compatibility/virgo-compatibility/virgo-men-and-scorpio-women-compatibility.html

"There??s one advice for a woman born of Scorpio sign who fell in love with a man of Virgo sign: go and love this man, because he needs you and it is only you who can help him. This man has a problem. And always. And during his whole life has problems. He cannot help himself with it. Woman born under the sign of Scorpio has a special power and influence on this man and it is only her who can disburden him from his several problems. Surely not from all, but these several have also big weight in life of this man. The compatibility of Virgo ??? Scorpio is excellent. This man knows that she??s that woman who will love him, respect him and protect him. The partner match between Virgo and Scorpio is literally given by heaven. These two people are connected with higher power, they??re like one soul. The relationship between Virgo and Scorpio mostly develop very calmly. A Scorpio woman appreciates that her partner is intelligent and literate. But sometimes she??s irritated by his absolute logic. Man of Virgo sign explains everything logically and practically. He doesn??t believe in unearthly things. This man needs a patient and tolerant woman next to him. In spite of his skepticism and logic, this woman can bring on the surface his romantic and poetic side. These two people can talk hours about birds, butterflies or flowers without a single cloudy thought from the Virgo??s side. The love-making of this couple needs some time while it gets its beauty and they will be synchronized. Woman of Scorpio sign is mostly that partner who has no problem to show her love and tenderness. Passion and fantasy will come from her in this relationship. The Virgo man is closed and cannot show his sympathy and tenderness. Somebody must show him it. But if Virgo and Scorpio are patient and work on this problem, they will reach the mutual pleasure and joy from sex. A small problem in this relationship may cause the silence of Scorpio woman. A Virgo man must know everything and wants answer on everything. But it cannot always be reached by figures or read them from books. Sometimes it is enough if we listen and feel into the mood of the other person. The answer may be sometimes in our heart, not in our mind. These two people are connected by sincerity, integrity and by the thirst for knowledge. They are not just lovers, but also friends. "
continued...
"They will mutually protect each other against the surrounded world and when they have problems, they will discuss it. It??s quite sure that a Virgo man and a Scorpio woman will must learn how to live together and get on with each other, but the Universe will help them, so it would be silly to not try it together."

Aw
the male scorpios seem aloof most of the time, the female very emotional, passionate, do not easily give up on relations.
Posted by CluelessCancer
How does one get back on a Virgo females good graces after you doubted her when she called your man as if she was attempting to get at him?
I did tell her that I was extremely insecure about my relationship, that I was very emotional, and that I know she wasn't attempting to do anything with him, but that I found her actions to be very weird.
Anyways she has "cooled" towards me lately.



i would feel offended and hurt but would not compromise my friendship with her because of that, especially if i knew where she was coming from. but even if it never came up, i would always remember the pain and hurt. over time friends do things to hurt each other, but you know they are going to be your lifelong friends, they are extended family, who you love or hate, they are part of your world. but this is only with close friends, with casual friends, i will slowly drift away and gradually disappear. with close friends also i drift away, but connect once in a while (b'day, anniversaries etc.)
but i also see why you would be upset. i would be jealous, possessive, insecure over my man, if i felt my friend was flirting with him. i was once in love with someone who i actually met thro' a common friend, and then whenever i saw them talking i would feel insecure, though she was his friend first. girls always need constant validation in relationships, thats just how we are.
agreed with everything said
hows everyone's opinions on the virgo + scorpio connection these days?
Hello, I'm new here.
it's way too guarded on both side. I could never enchant a scorpio girl even though I wanted some at various points.
Posted by Arwen29
As a scorp, i would say my Virgo friend would be one of my closest and deepest friendships ... I find we are very similar - analytical, can xray each other for bull***, appreciate kindness, both have cynical humour, can spend time in silence or in passionate debate, value truth, have similar temperaments.
On first impression, i think we felt intimidated by each other, & it took a LOT of time to get to know the virgo! As i scorp, ive learnt to be more patient, and calm with my emotions/reactions, and i think the virgo has become a little more comfortable with expressing himself/emotional displays.
Do you think they make a good pair in friendship and love?



I would have to agree with all of this when I think about my ex Virgo. One of my better relationships. Easy to talk to (and I don't open up very easily, if at all), easy to be around, very giving, passionate and loves deeply. Definitely a nice pairing as friends and lovers.
aw @virgowithasoul. very true. although the scorps are secretly hoping the virgo will let their guard down. guess neither of them do to everyone's detriment.
Posted by Arwen29
aw @virgowithasoul. very true. although the scorps are secretly hoping the virgo will let their guard down. guess neither of them do to everyone's detriment.



yep. i still really like him though.
@virgowithasoul. if you show interest, you'll figure out quickly if he's into you. Just go for it! Scorp probably can't pick up on your subtle signs...i bet they're a way too subtle. haha.
My bestie in Middle school and high school was a crazy Scorpio chick. We were like sisters like thisclose. She was cunning, a liar, over dramatic, and always all about her many guys and their drama. Ew.
But yes I feel like there is a bond between these two signs unlike any other. They both trust each other deeply unlike with any other signs. They both feel ok with jumping in, eyes closed. Virgo out of innocence and Scorpio to see the dark depths the relationship can bring.
Love my Scorpio friends! However, best girl friend of 25 years is a Leo and my best guy friend is an Aquarius.
in othr words u want 2 take this to the next level
don't know why scorps are always described with some of the negative traits i.e. cunning or a liar , obsessed with sex in a dark/kinky way.
such a stereotype. we're just intense people that feel deeply.
i find myself very drawn to scorpios, but im a little weary of them. havent had one in my life in a longgggg time.
Never in my life did I think I would ever fall in love again after my divorce until I met my virgo man. As a scorpio sometimes people just don't get us. It takes me a while to open up. My virgo gets me to open up!!! It's like we are best friends and I feel like I've known him my whole life. He says I understand him and he understands me as well!! I have even told him things I never told my ex of 15yrs! Our sarcasm and sense of humor go hand and hand. I could go on and on about him. All I can say is this.... Scorpio and Virgo = perfect union smile

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