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VIRGOEXALTED
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Mushi-Mushi!! (hello in Japanese) VE again, (I gotta get a new writer....this stuff is cheesy as hell 😉 lol.....Anywho, I've been wonderin'....I'm a young guy myself, and I've been thinking about adulthood; once a person has established a sense of self, i.e.(individuality) is it wrong to want to remain individual?....I enjoy being an individual more so than following a pack of morons, and fools....but as an adult I hear-tell that it's usually helpful to 'blend in'...yucky...😢 what do the big people of DXP think?
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RainingPeanuts
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For career purposes... work-related... you have to know how to relate to others if you want to get somewhere. There's a common ground everyone works on... to some extent of course. You can be as cuckoo as you want but I'm not sure that'll do much for you except maybe give you the satisfaction that you're "different" but that's just *YOU* doesn't really matter to others.

Your personal life however, is a whole other story! Be and enjoy yourself 🙂 Just make sure you separate certain aspects of your life and learn how to conduct yourself in different situations.
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Tiamat
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I honestly think your perceptions off alittle.Because everyone IS an individual and stand alone in thier own ways.What may seem like a following group,whatever is actually just a group of different individuals come together.Okay one example coming to mind to explain it is look at your friends,this one you may like because they're funny,this one you like because they trustworthy or dependable,this other one you may like because of thier taste,etc.They're all different individuals but you still come together and get along.Its no different with adults thay just don't talk about it as much cause they know there is a difference between everyone and theres absolutely zero possibility that any two people could be exactly the same🙂
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VIRGOEXALTED
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Yes, Tiamat that is understood; I can make sense of that people being individual; perhaps I feel this way because my mind is somewhere on uranus, and my body's here on earth! I've been told that 'diplomatically' I am 'different' while others feel I am eccentric....I hear you though.


Strings I hear you as well; I don't want to be 'blended out' so I do everything in my power to remain.....perhaps that is fighting a loosing battle as a person as you've said before must learn to yeild themselves to be harmonious in a relationship; perhaps in time strings; I am intellectual, and will reason this, but I'd need time to 'feel this'.....just pray for me! 😉