broke up
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by virgoroxmysox on Monday, June 11, 2007 and has 4 replies.
i broke up with my Virguy today. I'm a Virgirl and we'd been dating for over a year. the details of why we broke up are kinda confusing so i won't go into it but i know i did the right thing. it was going anywhere and we weren't on the same page about stuff. and he started not treating me very good. he wouldn't pay for me and expected me to do things for him but wouldn't give back in return. so i ended it. the only thing is that i secretly wish he'll come back to me. i hope he will. i read my horoscope and it said that on the 30th i might think about getting back with an old relationship that still haunts me. maybe i will. but in order to accept him back in my life, he has to make changes and so do i. so it'll take some time. but this is so hard. he invited me to go to the mall with him tomorrow and i said yes at first but then i turned him down because i didn't think it was a good idea since we just broke up. i want him to come back to me later after he realizes that i'm serious and that i'm not going to wait around for him forever. oh, i'm so sad. he came over tonight for some frozen burritos because he had no food and i owed him some money so he said it made it even. soo awkward saying goodbye.
AHHHH no no daily horoscopes will not help you my dear I learn't that.
This going to be tough for you but you must teach him that you have needs like everyone else and he should respect you like you have tried to respect him. If he really loves you he will change for you and will respect you and the relationship should work like chocolate dreams then sour lollies. But if he goes and finds another woman then your love was uncheerished by him. But ever happens don't let yourself give up and get depressed I acturly have seen a virgo get completely depressed on something similar to this. just keep strong and win the race because life can be a race in reality at times and in that race their can be rocks in your way.
This going to be tough for you but you must teach him that you have needs like everyone else and he should respect you like you have tried to respect him. If he really loves you he will change for you and will respect you and the relationship should work like chocolate dreams then sour lollies. But if he goes and finds another woman then your love was uncheerished by him. But ever happens don't let yourself give up and get depressed I acturly have seen a virgo get completely depressed on something similar to this. just keep strong and win the race because life can be a race in reality at times and in that race their can be rocks in your way.
virgoroxmysox, I would suggest that you tell your Virgo guy how you really feel and be honest with him if you still love him and if you hope for a change from him. One of the aspects in relationships is about being able to share your expectations and hopes of each other with each other and being able to resolve conflicts that arise between you two effectively. Breaking up does not help to nurture your relationship together. Instead, it might breed animosity and distrust. Take some time out together and talk about the issues that are plaguing you in the relationship. I can attest to you that breaking up is not going to help. I am saying this with a personal experience. I broke up with my Virgo guy more than two years ago and indeed I had secretly wished for him to come back to me proving his love for me. It just turned into disappointments again and again for me. In short, I just don't think a guy will understand the idea that a girl who breaks up with him is secretly hoping to get back together. A guy might just try to get it over with and move on. I hope the very best for you.
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