Calling all heavy Virgo placements in please

Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

Posted by fyrephish

Leave it alone. He's not interested. I'm Virgo moon. Emotional manipulation or anything that presents itself as emotional manipulation and I'll pull AWAY. Now, could just be me. But you asked for all Virgo placements advice. Besides, he hasn't made an interest in you clear and defined, something Virgo is quite capable of, so his interest in you is irrelevant how into YOU are you? New year new YOU!


PS: I'm Pis sun too.

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

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Posted by _Dazed

I don't think y'all were actually dating. Sounds like you didn't hear him the first time when he said he just wants to be friends (the conversation you don't remember), and are now reaching stalker/obsession status.

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

Should I take this as rejection or does the situation require any more clarification?? I personally have no idea what has happened. I'll try to talk to him in a month or so, idk

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

Should I take this as rejection or does the situation require any more clarification?? I personally have no idea what has happened. I'll try to talk to him in a month or so, idk

You shouldn't ask me if it requires clarification, ask yourself are things clear for you, if not, ask now instead of waiting for a month, you'll safe some time and peace of mind. if he responds in ignorance or deflect's, you'll have your answer. Also with your question be spectific, don' be vague. Tell me what you want to ask, i might help you with a question

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

Should I take this as rejection or does the situation require any more clarification?? I personally have no idea what has happened. I'll try to talk to him in a month or so, idk

You shouldn't ask me if it requires clarification, ask yourself are things clear for you, if not, ask now instead of waiting for a month, you'll safe some time and peace of mind. if he responds in ignorance or deflect's, you'll have your answer. Also with your question be spectific, don' be vague. Tell me what you want to ask, i might help you with a question

I don't trust my judgement because I'm invested. That's why I'm asking

I just want him to be clear about what he wants. I've also noticed he has some insecurities, now wondering if I dodged a bullet and me asking for confirmation has been taken by him as me rejecting him, I just don't know, I don't know and I hate to push it. I'm just gonna be friendly and leave it up to him entirely. I'm good at reading between the lines, I'll examine future convos carefully

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@LithiK are you a Virgo??

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

Should I take this as rejection or does the situation require any more clarification?? I personally have no idea what has happened. I'll try to talk to him in a month or so, idk

You shouldn't ask me if it requires clarification, ask yourself are things clear for you, if not, ask now instead of waiting for a month, you'll safe some time and peace of mind. if he responds in ignorance or deflect's, you'll have your answer. Also with your question be spectific, don' be vague. Tell me what you want to ask, i might help you with a question

I don't trust my judgement because I'm invested. That's why I'm asking

I just want him to be clear about what he wants. I've also noticed he has some insecurities, now wondering if I dodged a bullet and me asking for confirmation has been taken by him as me rejecting him, I just don't know, I don't know and I hate to push it. I'm just gonna be friendly and leave it up to him entirely. I'm good at reading between the lines, I'll examine future convos carefully

Don't you think you might be projecting the insecurities? For me it def sounds like you're afraid of rejection, you're even afraid to ask a direct question expressing yourself, because you don't want to be rejected because you would feel embarrassed. You should ask yourself what you want more, to know things or move on, or just assume things you think you might read between the lines that might not even be true. You're a mature woman, should be able to communicate in a direct way if you want something long term, communication is everything. But hey, it's just my option, i can only give things from my perspective, you have to make your choise and take responsibility for it. Goodluck

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Posted by MadTwins80

He's dismissive/avoidant and you have fear of rejection so are prob anxious attachment

"Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. "

This is telling.. unless you want a great deal of difficulty and pain you should walk away

Not that nothing can happen in the future but this dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen. He will make you feel like you're irrational and irritating, like you're hounding him - that's what they do.

I'm fearful. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in case it's not reciprocated. Everything was perfect, he was attentive, warm and considerate all that time but twice I mentioned my disapproval of something he told me to stop. Just that, stop. He has an ego the size of a mountain and doesn't take criticism well. Idk

you are cancer moon, you're def afraid of rejection, and you might not realise that, because it's your moon, not your sun sight, and might not be as obvious. It's new year, move on.. How do you usually handle relationships. break ups? how do you initiate them or how do you respond when they straight up leave you or fade away? what do you do when you break up? do you fade away or do you straight up say it? looking at ya placements i'd think you def fade, i'm not sure tho

If it's a breakup I'd rather it be straightforward. Something along the lines of "it's not working out, we should move on"

As long it's crystal clear I'll take it and exit gracefully

You're first pisces sun and merc with cancer moon that i've heard would actually do that. Hold old are you ?

Early 30s

Ah , so you either matured, or you have other placements that balance out the flaky, shell behaviour. As for your situation, virgo are not the kind to play games, be straight up about your questions and talk with them, they don't beat around the bush .

Should I take this as rejection or does the situation require any more clarification?? I personally have no idea what has happened. I'll try to talk to him in a month or so, idk

You shouldn't ask me if it requires clarification, ask yourself are things clear for you, if not, ask now instead of waiting for a month, you'll safe some time and peace of mind. if he responds in ignorance or deflect's, you'll have your answer. Also with your question be spectific, don' be vague. Tell me what you want to ask, i might help you with a question

I don't trust my judgement because I'm invested. That's why I'm asking

I just want him to be clear about what he wants. I've also noticed he has some insecurities, now wondering if I dodged a bullet and me asking for confirmation has been taken by him as me rejecting him, I just don't know, I don't know and I hate to push it. I'm just gonna be friendly and leave it up to him entirely. I'm good at reading between the lines, I'll examine future convos carefully

Don't you think you might be projecting the insecurities? For me it def sounds like you're afraid of rejection, you're even afraid to ask a direct question expressing yourself, because you don't want to be rejected because you would feel embarrassed. You should ask yourself what you want more, to know things or move on, or just assume things you think you might read between the lines that might not even be true. You're a mature woman, should be able to communicate in a direct way if you want something long term, communication is everything. But hey, it's just my option, i can only give things from my perspective, you have to make your choise and take responsibility for it. Goodluck

You are entirely right. I want to be with him, I do but I don't know if he wants to be with me. So how do I find out?

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I need help guys. I'm so confused I don't know what to make out of it lol

So me and a Virgo I've been dealing with (all major Virgo placements with sag moon) had a fight around 2 weeks ago and we sort of broke up(?). I don't know if he broke up with me or the other way around, that yet to be determined lol

Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. Well we have been very intimate but nothing sexual.. Also the amount of time and resources we invested delivered gorgeous results, with an unbelievable connection, tenderness and caring for one another.


So as the typical dismissive avoidant he is, he would drop off the face of the earth time to time and wouldn't communicate. That in return triggered my fear of rejection, added stress at work and I said I couldn't handle any more confusion. Everything was confusing, lately it felt like I had to walk on eggshells, once I voiced my disapproval of him ignoring me and he took it as criticism and asked me to stop.

So the phone call made by me was around couple weeks ago where I asked for clarification, what are we doing and what's going on with us, that if we stick together we both should be onboard etc. He replied with the statement that we've already had a convo about that and why am I even bringing this up. Honestly I have no idea which conversation he implied exactly because we had variety of convos where he would drop hints here and there and sometimes would refuse to give straightforward answers. So I took it as rejection and I said I understood, then few minutes later I questioned my own judgement about break up and if that was really over and to leave a confirmation, didn't hear anything back so I assumed we are good. That was on Tuesday, on Friday I go on fb (I don't use it a lot) and find out he has blocked me, that was a shock, he has blocked me and my number too I suppose.


I download whatsapp and texted him. Someone is on the other line telling me it's not him but it's his phone and who am I, I didn't back off and started questioning who am I talking to in the first place, that person asks for a clarification about the initial text that I refuse to give, I say nothing, she says nothing. But adds he's sick, I say hope he gets well soon and leave it at that.


2 days later he texts, asks why did I do that when he asked me to stop, I said alright then, apologized for everything, being irrational and irritating and that if he considers staying friends I'd be there for him. Yesterday I had an issue with my car, couldn't find a mechanic at night so ended up texting him and asking about. He jumped right in to try to help me with the issue, I thanked him and left it at that.


What on earth is going on?? Did I end him when asked for confirmation if we were over or did he end with me, he's got somebody else? can anyone shed some light please?


What do I do now and how do I proceed? Is this really over or is there still a chance? Thank you

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I need help guys. I'm so confused I don't know what to make out of it lol

So me and a Virgo I've been dealing with (all major Virgo placements with sag moon) had a fight around 2 weeks ago and we sort of broke up(?). I don't know if he broke up with me or the other way around, that yet to be determined lol

Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. Well we have been very intimate but nothing sexual.. Also the amount of time and resources we invested delivered gorgeous results, with an unbelievable connection, tenderness and caring for one another.


So as the typical dismissive avoidant he is, he would drop off the face of the earth time to time and wouldn't communicate. That in return triggered my fear of rejection, added stress at work and I said I couldn't handle any more confusion. Everything was confusing, lately it felt like I had to walk on eggshells, once I voiced my disapproval of him ignoring me and he took it as criticism and asked me to stop.

So the phone call made by me was around couple weeks ago where I asked for clarification, what are we doing and what's going on with us, that if we stick together we both should be onboard etc. He replied with the statement that we've already had a convo about that and why am I even bringing this up. Honestly I have no idea which conversation he implied exactly because we had variety of convos where he would drop hints here and there and sometimes would refuse to give straightforward answers. So I took it as rejection and I said I understood, then few minutes later I questioned my own judgement about break up and if that was really over and to leave a confirmation, didn't hear anything back so I assumed we are good. That was on Tuesday, on Friday I go on fb (I don't use it a lot) and find out he has blocked me, that was a shock, he has blocked me and my number too I suppose.


I download whatsapp and texted him. Someone is on the other line telling me it's not him but it's his phone and who am I, I didn't back off and started questioning who am I talking to in the first place, that person asks for a clarification about the initial text that I refuse to give, I say nothing, she says nothing. But adds he's sick, I say hope he gets well soon and leave it at that.


2 days later he texts, asks why did I do that when he asked me to stop, I said alright then, apologized for everything, being irrational and irritating and that if he considers staying friends I'd be there for him. Yesterday I had an issue with my car, couldn't find a mechanic at night so ended up texting him and asking about. He jumped right in to try to help me with the issue, I thanked him and left it at that.


What on earth is going on?? Did I end him when asked for confirmation if we were over or did he end with me, he's got somebody else? can anyone shed some light please?


What do I do now and how do I proceed? Is this really over or is there still a chance? Thank you

If your gut told you he ended the relationship, listen to it. I was in your shoes three months ago, also after an year long LDR. Practically, I set him free, since he said that I didn’t give him what he wanted, but the breakup was 100% on him.


You need to forgive yourself. It’s not much you could have done differently.

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I don't think y'all were actually dating. Sounds like you didn't hear him the first time when he said he just wants to be friends (the conversation you don't remember), and are now reaching stalker/obsession status.

Yeah that's why he kept chasing me and being all romantic. Before meeting he laid out "his rules", what he will and will not tolerate in a relationship and showed me with his actions !! Now the kind of person you are I won't entertain you any longer, so happy new year

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I need help guys. I'm so confused I don't know what to make out of it lol

So me and a Virgo I've been dealing with (all major Virgo placements with sag moon) had a fight around 2 weeks ago and we sort of broke up(?). I don't know if he broke up with me or the other way around, that yet to be determined lol

Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. Well we have been very intimate but nothing sexual.. Also the amount of time and resources we invested delivered gorgeous results, with an unbelievable connection, tenderness and caring for one another.


So as the typical dismissive avoidant he is, he would drop off the face of the earth time to time and wouldn't communicate. That in return triggered my fear of rejection, added stress at work and I said I couldn't handle any more confusion. Everything was confusing, lately it felt like I had to walk on eggshells, once I voiced my disapproval of him ignoring me and he took it as criticism and asked me to stop.

So the phone call made by me was around couple weeks ago where I asked for clarification, what are we doing and what's going on with us, that if we stick together we both should be onboard etc. He replied with the statement that we've already had a convo about that and why am I even bringing this up. Honestly I have no idea which conversation he implied exactly because we had variety of convos where he would drop hints here and there and sometimes would refuse to give straightforward answers. So I took it as rejection and I said I understood, then few minutes later I questioned my own judgement about break up and if that was really over and to leave a confirmation, didn't hear anything back so I assumed we are good. That was on Tuesday, on Friday I go on fb (I don't use it a lot) and find out he has blocked me, that was a shock, he has blocked me and my number too I suppose.


I download whatsapp and texted him. Someone is on the other line telling me it's not him but it's his phone and who am I, I didn't back off and started questioning who am I talking to in the first place, that person asks for a clarification about the initial text that I refuse to give, I say nothing, she says nothing. But adds he's sick, I say hope he gets well soon and leave it at that.


2 days later he texts, asks why did I do that when he asked me to stop, I said alright then, apologized for everything, being irrational and irritating and that if he considers staying friends I'd be there for him. Yesterday I had an issue with my car, couldn't find a mechanic at night so ended up texting him and asking about. He jumped right in to try to help me with the issue, I thanked him and left it at that.


What on earth is going on?? Did I end him when asked for confirmation if we were over or did he end with me, he's got somebody else? can anyone shed some light please?


What do I do now and how do I proceed? Is this really over or is there still a chance? Thank you

I'm Virgo Mars, Venus, and North Node (sun and moon sextile virgo for easy energy exchange). Not having any idea of other conditions, i.e. age differences, physical attraction, other aspects of social proof, but from my perspective based off your share, you built a connection and now he's acting "tight" seemingly out of nowhere. He got a taste (and might've really enjoyed it) and it was positive to some degree, but now, in typical virgo fashion, he's trying to improve you. He's trying to see how receptive you are to his dark side (nit picky and critical). Everyone with a dark side runs it by a prospect to see if they could weather the storm, or if the storm does them in. He knows that eventually, this side is going to come out, so he might as well test it in a placebo-like environment, and see how the relationship fares. That way, should the relationship continue on, and the critiquing quality come out naturally, he's not hurt and blind-sighted by you dumping him when he didn't expect it, in which case shattering his ego.


How you proceed dictates the relationship you'll have. Personally, I wouldn't call him. Let him find a more proactive way to convey his constructive criticism if it's really rattling his bones to be expressed. I have. What I will say, is that from the sound of it, he spoke to you about it and that's when everything about the topic should've surfaced he feels. But at the same time, you described him as kinda "talking around" things. But nevertheless, life's not like that; sometimes feelings can be complicated and messy. Just look at the exchanges that go on here, where we ask and receive advice daily in an increasingly complicated dating scene. And it's your relationship too; you're entitled to revisit a conversation if you need to for closure.


**Astrological signs that try and forbid you from revisiting a conversation do this because they know that they use lies to round out their stories to make sense. ** If you revisit the topic out of nowhere, they can't always remember what they said, or, you might've caught them in another lie that makes an old story suspect in present day. (I'm trying to start the year off right, and i don't want the not-so secret Dxp Scorpio alliance on my tail so early in '21; but also, every other sign has "player-types" who employ this little game on their victims too ).


I'm not for this "role reversal" trend that exists today, where the woman chases the man. Neither person's ego gets the "nourishment" needed for a healthy identity. Every path will force both people to eventually assess what value the relationship really provides once the fun is gone but they "somehow still feel unfulfilled and empty". Both will move on, and subconsciously resent themselves for investing time when there were clear signals that one or the other wasn't ever fully invested for the long-term.


Been there.

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I need help guys. I'm so confused I don't know what to make out of it lol

So me and a Virgo I've been dealing with (all major Virgo placements with sag moon) had a fight around 2 weeks ago and we sort of broke up(?). I don't know if he broke up with me or the other way around, that yet to be determined lol

Though the relationship has never been official, nor physical. Well we have been very intimate but nothing sexual.. Also the amount of time and resources we invested delivered gorgeous results, with an unbelievable connection, tenderness and caring for one another.


So as the typical dismissive avoidant he is, he would drop off the face of the earth time to time and wouldn't communicate. That in return triggered my fear of rejection, added stress at work and I said I couldn't handle any more confusion. Everything was confusing, lately it felt like I had to walk on eggshells, once I voiced my disapproval of him ignoring me and he took it as criticism and asked me to stop.

So the phone call made by me was around couple weeks ago where I asked for clarification, what are we doing and what's going on with us, that if we stick together we both should be onboard etc. He replied with the statement that we've already had a convo about that and why am I even bringing this up. Honestly I have no idea which conversation he implied exactly because we had variety of convos where he would drop hints here and there and sometimes would refuse to give straightforward answers. So I took it as rejection and I said I understood, then few minutes later I questioned my own judgement about break up and if that was really over and to leave a confirmation, didn't hear anything back so I assumed we are good. That was on Tuesday, on Friday I go on fb (I don't use it a lot) and find out he has blocked me, that was a shock, he has blocked me and my number too I suppose.


I download whatsapp and texted him. Someone is on the other line telling me it's not him but it's his phone and who am I, I didn't back off and started questioning who am I talking to in the first place, that person asks for a clarification about the initial text that I refuse to give, I say nothing, she says nothing. But adds he's sick, I say hope he gets well soon and leave it at that.


2 days later he texts, asks why did I do that when he asked me to stop, I said alright then, apologized for everything, being irrational and irritating and that if he considers staying friends I'd be there for him. Yesterday I had an issue with my car, couldn't find a mechanic at night so ended up texting him and asking about. He jumped right in to try to help me with the issue, I thanked him and left it at that.


What on earth is going on?? Did I end him when asked for confirmation if we were over or did he end with me, he's got somebody else? can anyone shed some light please?


What do I do now and how do I proceed? Is this really over or is there still a chance? Thank you

I'm Virgo Mars, Venus, and North Node (sun and moon sextile virgo for easy energy exchange). Not having any idea of other conditions, i.e. age differences, physical attraction, other aspects of social proof, but from my perspective based off your share, you built a connection and now he's acting "tight" seemingly out of nowhere. He got a taste (and might've really enjoyed it) and it was positive to some degree, but now, in typical virgo fashion, he's trying to improve you. He's trying to see how receptive you are to his dark side (nit picky and critical). Everyone with a dark side runs it by a prospect to see if they could weather the storm, or if the storm does them in. He knows that eventually, this side is going to come out, so he might as well test it in a placebo-like environment, and see how the relationship fares. That way, should the relationship continue on, and the critiquing quality come out naturally, he's not hurt and blind-sighted by you dumping him when he didn't expect it, in which case shattering his ego.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

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My son is a heavy virgo with a sag moon. If he is into you, you know it. He worships the ground his Libra wife walks on.


I'm pretty sure he is telling his friends you are obsessed with him and are a bit nuts at this point.


Walk away with your dignity and leave him alone....especially with your damsel in distress crap I'm stranded and need help bullshit.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

Oh?! Long distance??!!! I must’ve missed that.


So you or him aren’t having sex and both of you are practicing abstinence while you are not seeing each other and you two are in your 30’s?


Why are you putting so much energy into a man who is far from you? It’s wasted time unless he has plans to move closer.

You could’ve met tons of different people in the last 2 years that had better potential, closer to you.

All while carrying on your situationship over the phone.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

Oh?! Long distance??!!! I must’ve missed that.


So you or him aren’t having sex and both of you are practicing abstinence while you are not seeing each other and you two are in your 30’s?


Why are you putting so much energy into a man who is far from you? It’s wasted time unless he has plans to move closer.

You could’ve met tons of different people in the last 2 years that had better potential, closer to you.

All while carrying on your situationship over the phone.

I can't have anything without connection and he was the only one I connected with on a deeper level. In fact it's the best connection I've had lol

We grew way way closer over time and he opened up about many things, people find difficult to talk about. We went thru quite a lot together, he has gone many ups and downs in the last 2 years and I was always there. He doesn't have friends and is very introverted, one of a kind I'd say, really different than most out there. He traveled a lot because of his job, he got home last year in October. He's super fun and quirky to be around. He has plans to move yes and I also want to move, he was thinking of Louisiana, idk yet, needs planning, but considering his current behavior idk, I'm a bit turned off. He has been failing to meet my needs lately, I'm gonna have a serious conversation once he's back.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

Oh?! Long distance??!!! I must’ve missed that.


So you or him aren’t having sex and both of you are practicing abstinence while you are not seeing each other and you two are in your 30’s?


Why are you putting so much energy into a man who is far from you? It’s wasted time unless he has plans to move closer.

You could’ve met tons of different people in the last 2 years that had better potential, closer to you.

All while carrying on your situationship over the phone.

I can't have anything without connection and he was the only one I connected with on a deeper level. In fact it's the best connection I've had lol

We grew way way closer over time and he opened up about many things, people find difficult to talk about. We went thru quite a lot together, he has gone many ups and downs in the last 2 years and I was always there. He doesn't have friends and is very introverted, one of a kind I'd say, really different than most out there. He traveled a lot because of his job, he got home last year in October. He's super fun and quirky to be around. He has plans to move yes and I also want to move, he was thinking of Louisiana, idk yet, needs planning, but considering his current behavior idk, I'm a bit turned off. He has been failing to meet my needs lately, I'm gonna have a serious conversation once he's back.

Having a serious conversation with him and setting up boundaries is a great idea and you will know where you stand.

It sucks to be so involved with someone who disappears on you. It’s very disrespectful.

He could’ve at least given you a heads up of him disappearing of the face of the earth.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

Oh?! Long distance??!!! I must’ve missed that.


So you or him aren’t having sex and both of you are practicing abstinence while you are not seeing each other and you two are in your 30’s?


Why are you putting so much energy into a man who is far from you? It’s wasted time unless he has plans to move closer.

You could’ve met tons of different people in the last 2 years that had better potential, closer to you.

All while carrying on your situationship over the phone.

I can't have anything without connection and he was the only one I connected with on a deeper level. In fact it's the best connection I've had lol

We grew way way closer over time and he opened up about many things, people find difficult to talk about. We went thru quite a lot together, he has gone many ups and downs in the last 2 years and I was always there. He doesn't have friends and is very introverted, one of a kind I'd say, really different than most out there. He traveled a lot because of his job, he got home last year in October. He's super fun and quirky to be around. He has plans to move yes and I also want to move, he was thinking of Louisiana, idk yet, needs planning, but considering his current behavior idk, I'm a bit turned off. He has been failing to meet my needs lately, I'm gonna have a serious conversation once he's back.

Having a serious conversation with him and setting up boundaries is a great idea and you will know where you stand.

It sucks to be so involved with someone who disappears on you. It’s very disrespectful.

He could’ve at least given you a heads up of him disappearing of the face of the earth.

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I'll tell you what happened. If you don't know what you are. Neither does he. He blocked you because he's done. Fixing your car was just being friendly. Go your merry way if you don't want to fix it. We Virgos aren't wicked or bitter to people who don't do us wrong. So, he's friendly, but cut ties on social media because he doesn't want to know what you're doing or focus any extra energy on you. It is what it is..

He'd have blocked me fully if he was done, without ever engaging with me again.. I already know what happened, I didn't give him space he needed, that's pretty much what he said.

He will come back when he's ready.

How long were you together? And you guys were boyfriend/girlfriend with no sex? Were you planning on having it or not worried about consummating the relationship?

I've known him for over 2 years. first year we were talking on and off but since January 2020 I saw great improvement. Daily conversations and video calls, talking about future, our goals, our past, family, anything and everything under the sky. We have been emotionally intimate but nothing sexual. We decided it was too early for that, not really worried that much because it was gonna happen at some point regardless, our chemistry was off the charts.

Well the relationship was undefined, I didn't want to push anything in case he wasn't ready. We also had huge respect for one another. Idk really

Sounds like a great friendship to me, like the others have said.

Virgos are usually pretty straightforward with sex. 2 years and nothing? 😅😬

Sounds a bit like stringing you along or your feelings of grandeur for him.

But this is just based on what I’m reading.

Umm that's a long distance relationship that he made pretty clear he wanted us to work out and was quite determined. Sex is important of course but I wanted to wait and he respected it. I can differentiate friendship versus romance lol

Oh?! Long distance??!!! I must’ve missed that.


So you or him aren’t having sex and both of you are practicing abstinence while you are not seeing each other and you two are in your 30’s?


Why are you putting so much energy into a man who is far from you? It’s wasted time unless he has plans to move closer.

You could’ve met tons of different people in the last 2 years that had better potential, closer to you.

All while carrying on your situationship over the phone.

I can't have anything without connection and he was the only one I connected with on a deeper level. In fact it's the best connection I've had lol

We grew way way closer over time and he opened up about many things, people find difficult to talk about. We went thru quite a lot together, he has gone many ups and downs in the last 2 years and I was always there. He doesn't have friends and is very introverted, one of a kind I'd say, really different than most out there. He traveled a lot because of his job, he got home last year in October. He's super fun and quirky to be around. He has plans to move yes and I also want to move, he was thinking of Louisiana, idk yet, needs planning, but considering his current behavior idk, I'm a bit turned off. He has been failing to meet my needs lately, I'm gonna have a serious conversation once he's back.

Having a serious conversation with him and setting up boundaries is a great idea and you will know where you stand.

It sucks to be so involved with someone who disappears on you. It’s very disrespectful.

He could’ve at least given you a heads up of him disappearing of the face of the earth.

Exactly! It's too disrespectfull to disappear without providing a reason

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Posted by _elle_

My son is a heavy virgo with a sag moon. If he is into you, you know it. He worships the ground his Libra wife walks on.


I'm pretty sure he is telling his friends you are obsessed with him and are a bit nuts at this point.


Walk away with your dignity and leave him alone....especially with your damsel in distress crap I'm stranded and need help bullshit.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Posted by _elle_

My son is a heavy virgo with a sag moon. If he is into you, you know it. He worships the ground his Libra wife walks on.


I'm pretty sure he is telling his friends you are obsessed with him and are a bit nuts at this point.


Walk away with your dignity and leave him alone....especially with your damsel in distress crap I'm stranded and need help bullshit.

You always come back with a new account only to bully people. You Scorpios really ain't no good for real. Now I see why my fellow Geminis that used to post here a long time ago never liked you. That post was unnecessary and uncall for. Y'all only post crazy crap like this just to see how many likes y'all gone get.

Eat a dick, wife beater.

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UPDATE


We had a nice little convo on Thursday after 3 weeks of no communication.. Idk what now

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UPDATE


We had a nice little convo on Thursday after 3 weeks of no communication.. Idk what now

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Posted by pisceanloves

UPDATE


We had a nice little convo on Thursday after 3 weeks of no communication.. Idk what now

What was the convo like?? what did he say?

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That was on Tuesday, on Friday I go on fb (I don't use it a lot) and find out he has blocked me, that was a shock, he has blocked me and my number too I suppose.


I download whatsapp and texted him. Someone is on the other line telling me it's not him but it's his phone and who am I, I didn't back off and started questioning who am I talking to in the first place, that person asks for a clarification about the initial text that I refuse to give, I say nothing, she says nothing. But adds he's sick, I say hope he gets well soon and leave it at that.


2 days later he texts, asks why did I do that when he asked me to stop