cancer female and virgo male

Hi this is my first ever post been reading up on others for some advice which has helped a little. But jus need a little more if any1 can help.

What it is iv recently met a virgo who is my friends cousin. we exchanged numbers and txt each other for about a week everyday as friends. i dint think nothing by it until i seen him after that week i fort 2 myself that i liked him and didnt know wat 2 do. to me it was as if i was getting signs he liked me back and wud look at me as if it was jus me n him in the world as if hes looking deep within me. also we dint really know each other but feels like iv known him months if not more, hes tried criticising me a lil but not much and play firghting wiv me.

well on the friday nite me and my mate (his cousin) go out on a night out and i tell her how i feel which i wish i dint now. Anyway on the sunday my mate basically tells him that i like him but he says hes not into me like that and tells me himself later on. Now i feel hes being a bit awkward wiv me wen iv seen him after which id rather him be normal with me.

Iv just been thinking if a virgo is confronted like that wud they give u a straight answer? cos it did come from no where.

Also he sed he deleted my number cos i told to stop txting me.

I feel like iv rushed into it and after reading up on his sign i no they need time have i blew it before i gave it a chance!!

Please if any1 has any advice please HELP!!!

We are direct, we say what we mean and mean what we say.

Cancers are indirect, try to imply things and ultimately don't know how they truly feel because their emotions infect their thoughts.

@Cajunspirit :"Cancers are indirect..."
How could you recognize when they are direct,if you take communication with them from that point of view?
"... try to imply things ...."
What things do you mean here?
"...and ultimately don't know how they truly feel because their emotions infect their thoughts."
Wait a minute!How can you make this judgement ?You're not in their "skin" and mind? Are you a medium ,so to make such statement?


@69virgo :What you concider as "clingy"?I'm curious to see if i show that trait?

"playing hard to get" is not a "knife with 2 blades" ? The guy may tire to chase long

Yes, you blew it before it had a chance.


What you should be thinking about now is somethingn other than the Virgo because the Virgo isn't interested ... especially since you told him to delete you, no texting ... certainly, you've been dropped in the waste bucket.

What you should be thinking about is how you mix up the deciphering of signals according to how you are feeling. The moment you decided that you liked him, you automatically assumed that he was giving you different signals .. when in reality, his signals didn't change, your meaning of them did .. and we know this to be true because the moment he found out, he told you straight up that he's not into you.

He never changed, he remained the same ... how you viewed his intentions is what changed, so you could put a false hope on his intentions.


And in your place, I would be thinking about that part, so in the future this wouldn't happen again.

What makes use think hes not into me please explain?

the signals i got were there before i relised i liked him and wen he was told i liked him, wen i seen him again he was a bit distance still giving me the stare the odd time and winding me up a lil for a laugh. thats wat i dont understand also i told him 2 stop txting me cos it wud do my head in more, i never told him 2 delete my number tho.

also at the begining of us txting each other he sorted asked to take me out. which we kinda sort of arranged but never happened cos i fort he was joking n i wudve gone but on the day we arranged he never got in contact so i made othe plans wen he he contact me in the evening to do something i told him id made other plans. since then there was no talk of it i jus fort he was messing about as i dint see him like that anyway. Until the next time i seen him cos we had a laugh n that i felt a connection somewhere dont no where but i did. i shouldve left it a bit till i told him but shit happens. i need to know from this if there is a away up.

im thinking of saying to him can we start again and forget anything thats been said and jus carry on as mates. would that work for a virgo.

Posted by Cajunspirit
We are direct, we say what we mean and mean what we say.

Cancers are indirect, try to imply things and ultimately don't know how they truly feel because their emotions infect their thoughts.

I always know how I feel, but I also know most people can't handle the directness of cancer emotions. Hence the seeming indirectness. If I can 'hint' around to know that me expressing myslef directly would be 'ok', then I will. But I'd rather keep it to myself if doing so would not be appreciated.

^ at first i laughed at this, but it's true...cancer emotions are quite direct. the problem is that cancer WORDS and actions are generally extremely inconsistent with their emotions. few people can sense cancer emotions, and those that can usually go totally nuts on the hypocrisy and deceit.

Posted by jean2011
im thinking of saying to him can we start again and forget anything thats been said and jus carry on as mates. would that work for a virgo.

under some situations, yes that could work. it will not work in your situation. even if he were willing to give it a go, you would very quickly sabotage it with an outburst.

i've seen cancer-virgo pairings that went very well, but they've always been male cancers with female virgos.

Posted by sandyclaws

I always know how I feel, but I also know most people can't handle the directness of cancer emotions. Hence the seeming indirectness. If I can 'hint' around to know that me expressing myslef directly would be 'ok', then I will. But I'd rather keep it to myself if doing so would not be appreciated.

Last I checked, you ain't the typical Cancer.
More Gemini like 😛

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by sandyclaws

I always know how I feel, but I also know most people can't handle the directness of cancer emotions. Hence the seeming indirectness. If I can 'hint' around to know that me expressing myslef directly would be 'ok', then I will. But I'd rather keep it to myself if doing so would not be appreciated.

Last I checked, you ain't the typical Cancer.
More Gemini like 😛

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You suck Cajun 😉

Here's my dark secret: I was supposed to be born June 21 not July 2 :0

I think my cap moon must help a little bit. Keeps me thinking.

question time:
"...few people can sense cancer emotions, and those that can usually go totally nuts on the hypocrisy and deceit."

No hypocricy and deceit.I agree with sandyclaws words: "I'd rather keep it to myself if doing so would not be appreciated."

Is it not quite brave to tell how someone feels?ok,you as a female already have a joker and yet...

"i've seen cancer-virgo pairings that went very well, but they've always been male cancers with female virgos."
i'm really curious to understand why the reverse combination doesn't work? is it because much is too much for a virgo male,refering to emotions?

What do you think defines if a person represents typical sunsign?planet's position in the birthchart?if so which ones are that matter?