Can't get over virgo guy

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ubuntu888 on Wednesday, July 25, 2018 and has 6 replies.
So since the virgo guy expressed that he cannot be with me due to the the following reasons;

- my expectations are too high

- he won't be able to call me as often as I want him to

-I'm too possessive

-I'm putting too much pressure on him by saying that I only want a guy who's in it for the long-run for my daughter's sake

- he's currently seeing someone and he doesn't wanna break her heart cause she's "innocent" and I said I cannot share him while he breaks things off with her slowly

-He feels that he's my second choice cause I didn't want him when he first pursued me

I haven't been able to get my mind off him since. At first I was very tempted to reach out to him and 'beg' him that we give our love a chance but after reading up on a few articles about virgo guys I saw that that would be futile because they don't change their minds easily once they've made up their minds... I really wish he could give us a chance. Sometimes I feel some sort of resentment towards him because I feel like as soon as he saw my flaws (possessive and need attention) he ran for the hills and came up with all the reasons on why we shouldn't be together, I would have expected him to atleast try instead of walking away since he expressed so much interest in me and was so glad to have me back in his life. I feel like this is a decision he will most probably regret in future so I want to convince him to change his mind.. Normally I walk away when my love is not reciprocated but I want to fight for it this time around...any ideas? Virgo guys this is especially to you.. how does one win yourl back?

Sidenote: He said he loves me the same way he did 2 years ago but doesn't see this working RIGHT NOW. He also said maybe in future, if the feeling is still mutual, we can try but just not now ... His birthday is coming up in Aug and I was thinking of texting him to go out for his birthday... Don't know if that's a good idea though.

So since the virgo guy expressed that he cannot be with me due to the the following reasons;

- my expectations are too high

- he won't be able to call me as often as I want him to

-I'm too possessive

-I'm putting too much pressure on him by saying that I only want a guy who's in it for the long-run for my daughter's sake

- he's currently seeing someone and he doesn't wanna break her heart cause she's "innocent" and I said I cannot share him while he breaks things off with her slowly

-He feels that he's my second choice cause I didn't want him when he first pursued me

I haven't been able to get my mind off him since. At first I was very tempted to reach out to him and 'beg' him that we give our love a chance but after reading up on a few articles about virgo guys I saw that that would be futile because they don't change their minds easily once they've made up their minds... I really wish he could give us a chance. Sometimes I feel some sort of resentment towards him because I feel like as soon as he saw my flaws (possessive and need attention) he ran for the hills and came up with all the reasons on why we shouldn't be together, I would have expected him to atleast try instead of walking away since he expressed so much interest in me and was so glad to have me back in his life. I feel like this is a decision he will most probably regret in future so I want to convince him to change his mind.. Normally I walk away when my love is not reciprocated but I want to fight for it this time around...any ideas? Virgo guys this is especially to you.. how does one win yourl back?

Sidenote: He said he loves me the same way he did 2 years ago but doesn't see this working RIGHT NOW. He also said maybe in future, if the feeling is still mutual, we can try but just not now ... His birthday is coming up in Aug and I was thinking of texting him to go out for his birthday... Don't know if that's a good idea though.

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

You never fight for a mans love while he’s attached.

That’s entitlement and Virgos resent that kind of Shit.
So taking him out for his birthday is not a good idea huh?

NVM this post, I came back to my senses!

Yours truly smile
I had the same thing Happen to me I was mean to a Virgo man and we stopped talking but after reconnecting he told me he is friends with someone who he “trust” and she has been nothing but nice to him but she is not his cup of tea I don’t know why they go there when talking about other women it’s strange to me
Posted by Scorpiogirl30

I had the same thing Happen to me I was mean to a Virgo man and we stopped talking but after reconnecting he told me he is friends with someone who he “trust” and she has been nothing but nice to him but she is not his cup of tea I don’t know why they go there when talking about other women it’s strange to me
Trust = love

Not my cup of tea= something’s missing or figuring out why I’m not content

To me anyway.