Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes ....
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by catfish36 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 and has 8 replies.
I think VirGuy is upset with me AGAIN. Even though the staring thing is happening, he's upset that no one attended his show. This is where Virgo insecurity rears its head. I've attended lots of shows but ask him to bring in a DVD for me to burn or return a copy of my CD he's had for 6 months and I get resistance. Answers like "I don't know where it is" bug the crap out of me! Make the flipping effort! I have a tendency to pull back when common courtesies are not reciprocated. This is why I cannot overextend myself with him.
Catfish36
Hi Dyrstr8z,
It's not sentimental. I just purchased it, burned it on my PC at work, and then lent it to him. Now that I have a burner at home I can make copies. I don't have a burner at work so I wait..
I don't doubt he's misplaced it. And I don't buy into the "neatness" myth. He's still a guy, and guys are messy sometimes.
I am getting used to the "silent" treatment with him. Unless I reach out first, he's self-contained. I have to give him credit for being the first to make amends, in his way. We were barely on speaking terms when, after a few shots of JD, he gingerly kissed me on the check. I knew he meant "I'm sorry" without having to say it. 'Cause, as you well know, you VirGuys don't speak, you whisper with looks and gestures.
Catfish36...hanging from a Virgo hook.
It's not sentimental. I just purchased it, burned it on my PC at work, and then lent it to him. Now that I have a burner at home I can make copies. I don't have a burner at work so I wait..
I don't doubt he's misplaced it. And I don't buy into the "neatness" myth. He's still a guy, and guys are messy sometimes.
I am getting used to the "silent" treatment with him. Unless I reach out first, he's self-contained. I have to give him credit for being the first to make amends, in his way. We were barely on speaking terms when, after a few shots of JD, he gingerly kissed me on the check. I knew he meant "I'm sorry" without having to say it. 'Cause, as you well know, you VirGuys don't speak, you whisper with looks and gestures.
Catfish36...hanging from a Virgo hook.
No wonder the ladies looooooooooooooooooove chatting with you - Dyrstr8z. Sounds like a code name. Would make sense considering Sean Connery, THE James Bond, is a Virgo. And you are a former military man, but you guys don't really retire do you?
"But if you two love each other, in time, he'll come around (as best he can, and that's the unknown for me at this end of the Internet)..."
Love each other...again, in our way. This is NOT a typical relationship. I did our astrological, compatibility charts - there is a lot of mental, intellectual activity btw. us. There is a strong sense of personal loyalty and friendship with a lot of sexual attraction blended in with some romantic pull. It indicates a sense of mutual respect and lots of support.
Catfish36
"But if you two love each other, in time, he'll come around (as best he can, and that's the unknown for me at this end of the Internet)..."
Love each other...again, in our way. This is NOT a typical relationship. I did our astrological, compatibility charts - there is a lot of mental, intellectual activity btw. us. There is a strong sense of personal loyalty and friendship with a lot of sexual attraction blended in with some romantic pull. It indicates a sense of mutual respect and lots of support.
Catfish36
I live for the day....
Because running your fingers through a man's hair is veeeeeeeeeeeeery sensual. My VirGuy has long hair that I would love to sit and brush it. Hair is a part of your identity, so stroking or running your hands/fingers in it is a way of connecting.
Now, you can't tell me you don't love nuzzling in Deb's hair. I bet you secretly stand behind and take a whiff of her hair while she's cooking or doing something with her back turned to you. '-)
Now, you can't tell me you don't love nuzzling in Deb's hair. I bet you secretly stand behind and take a whiff of her hair while she's cooking or doing something with her back turned to you. '-)
No peekin' but I have to warn you - I am very intuitive. I've scared a lot of men away because I can see "things" about people. See into them, through, what's around them; sometimes immediately, sometimes over time. There is a Virgo I've studied for a long time. I notice he/they have a tendency to stand in back of you/me and watch - up close and from a far. It's not until they're ready to interact do they get in your face. Once they're ready for some face time they don't like to pull away unless there's something they need to do.
No ponytail required...just a little something to grab onto and tug...no doubt.
No ponytail required...just a little something to grab onto and tug...no doubt.
StringsAttached,
What do you mean by my error? We hadn't been getting a long for months, then more agrimony on top of that. Was I suppose to turn around and kiss him dead on the mouth in public? Where both very private people. Even though I was sitting at the bar, he chose a moment when no one was really looking. Someone, another Virgo male, noticed and remarked "See, he kissed you. Everything's alright now?" I really didn't know what to expect as he approached me nor what I prepared for it.
Dyrstr8z - Strings is right. You love to reform those you love.
Catfish36
What do you mean by my error? We hadn't been getting a long for months, then more agrimony on top of that. Was I suppose to turn around and kiss him dead on the mouth in public? Where both very private people. Even though I was sitting at the bar, he chose a moment when no one was really looking. Someone, another Virgo male, noticed and remarked "See, he kissed you. Everything's alright now?" I really didn't know what to expect as he approached me nor what I prepared for it.
Dyrstr8z - Strings is right. You love to reform those you love.
Catfish36
Sorry Strings. I get your meaning and my typo. Admittedly it's late, I am tired and have had few drinks to boot. Loopy is the feeling ...
...may be it wasn't an error. I've been wondering if he didn't miss my tips. So money might be the main ingredient and motivation after all.
Catfish36
...may be it wasn't an error. I've been wondering if he didn't miss my tips. So money might be the main ingredient and motivation after all.
Catfish36
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