Charmer vs Arrogant

So,

What do you think about a charmer vs an arrogant jerk who is honest.

Personally I do not like polite, sweet spoken charming people.Most charmers are ladiesmen, surrounded by them and flatter them. When it comes to doing something useful they run away. Charmers use their charm to collect all data from others and then once they learn they won't have any benefits, they run and hide.

On the contarary, arrogant but honest person may sound like a jerk, at times insulting us, but that person is better than a charmer for being honest.

Some virgo men are quoted being charming and so are some virgo ladies. Best example is my virgo uncle and aunt. My virgo dad and my virgo are the most arrogant but honest jerks that I know. Some times I am arrogant too.


Which one is better?

Pick your poison...the devil is very charming so I do sometimes tend to distrust men tht are very charming...like all pacino in devils advocate...they shoulda seen it coming....

I prefer honesty, but it doesn't need to be arrogant. That's a bit annoying!

Girls say i'm very charming but i'm also very honest, I think you can have a little of both. I like to make women feel good but i'm not gonna kiss your ass. i come across as being a confident person who aims to please.

Pick your poison...the devil is very charming so I do sometimes tend to distrust men tht are very charming...like all pacino in devils advocate...they shoulda seen it coming....

That's interesting ...

Arrogant

I'd let someone know the truth either if it is offensive or not, but I tend to sugarcoat depending on how the person can take the truth making me an honest charmer