Clingy Virgos

Is it possible for Virgos to be clingy? This guy that I'm seeing, a Virguy, calls me non stop and when I ignore his calls, he gets upset/suspicious that I didn't answer. It's like I can't breathe when he does this. I'm a sag btw.

Well you see as you say since your a sag. There are virguys out there that tend to be clingy, however, its part of the process I guess. Some are clingy and protective in the start of a relationship, but often times they really arent. It could be a result of a understanding, or a routine of things. and I wouldn't even go that far to say its clingy, I would say. Its more that we are just trying to be part of your groove. I know when I try to understand the one that i'm in relationship with, I find I can be clingy at the start, because when we are both opening up to each other, its like a very sensitive time and I only want to be close.

Moreover, virguys don't like to show their feelings openly, (virgos shy nature) it takes sometime but when they do its a whole new world, some girls aren't truly prepared for that. When you are alone with him, does he treat you like your a princess, like pampering and just making you feel special? It's important for virguys that they can trust and rely on you, whenever they need you because often times they will and always be there for you when you need them.

I mean he's attracted to your spontaneous ways. So don't take him serious about him being clingy, or anything! Its just a PHASE. 🙂 He calls you right? He's gotta really like you then, right? 🙂 Best thing I can really say though is that, he will come around to understand that you as a sag need room to breathe, so when he realizes that he needs to back off, the virgo might REALLY back off, so give him a range (or if you really do like him, give me a leash!), and tell him don't wonder too far. lol!

Well, we've been seeing eachother for a while now. So, it's passed that "beginning" stage. And when we're together he does treat me like a princess I guess. I just don't want to offend him if I say, "give me space." How should I tell him that I need room, but at the same time he won't wander far?

Virgos are understanding. They do have great ears, and with those ears come a logical and a surprising sense of compassion and the willingness to compromise. Which comes from just being in relationships, not signs and their relationships to others. It may not be the Sag thing to understand, since they do have this "Say whats on your mind attitude."

Leila10, if you like him and he is being clingy, talk to him. Like I said, it could be a phase that he just never went through, before. Was he this clingy in a past relationship? It could be that you've given him a reason to be clingy, or it could be that your just that special to him, and he is afraid of losing you... lastly he could just be crazy! Which I hope he isn't. LOL! 🙂

So tell him, or bring it up by just asking him if was ever clingy in past relationships. (it may be tricky since virguys tend to sensitive). you kind of have to put up the mirror in front of the virguy. Your a Sag and know how to be sly when you want to. 🙂 So, bring it up... Also so he doesn't go away, or be to far from you, where your like "WTF" just really reassure him that he has nothing to worry about, and that you like/love him or what not, and i'm sure since he does treat you like a princess that you are, he won't wander off too far. Just be clear on what you mean by space though. If you ask him to be by your side, I believe the loyal virgo will understand, and still be with you and give you "the space" you need.

Thanks for the advice Epic! 🙂

No problem. Hope it all works out and you too are happy together for a very long time. Aawwww.. 🙂

"If you are a typical sag and like your freedom/space a little too much, the Virgo will disapear...for good."

The keyword is -too much-. Yep, I agree. We are all need space, but be reasonable as well. The most important is to communicate your need of space and define the boundary how much space is reasonable. Virgo loves to compromise, all you need is ask, but again, be reasonable.