atlar
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compatibility for lib/vir
Well, pretty soon, Dyar will come in here and talk about his old Libra wife.
On my personal experience though, my first girlfriend was a Libra. She was very loving and caring to me.
She was the one who wanted the relationship in the first place, so I felt pity for her and went along with it.
I was honestly perturbed by her attention craving, the kinds of clothes she told me she enjoyed wearing. Leather skirts, short tops, really turned me off. Thankfully, I never saw any of that.
She has a lovely slender figure and models.
The relationship ended, because one of my friends Sag man, told her about the girl I was interested in before her, A Pisces of all signs... *shudders*
So my Libra decided to play "Hero" and end the relationship so I could pursue my "Original interest" and broke up with me. Now being young at the time [16 I believe] I was extremely emotionally immature and I discarded my feelings for her in an instant.
She came back crying and sad the next day, trying to get back with me. Which I did not entertain. She had this whole episode on a bus home, kissing me and I did not kiss back and crying through and through, hands on the glass after I exited with this extremely sad look. I was numb and impartial to it all.
She used to tell me, she would practice crying in front of a mirror. Most bizarre thing I heard at that time, so I never knew when she would blackmail me with tears.
So fast forward 5 years [2002-2007] I meet her up in a shopping plaza, where she works.
I am elated to see her, we exchange contact information and begin talking again. I occassionally drop by to give her a ride home, just to get close again.
[I like to get women interested in me and have them admit it, I think it's the Leo in Venus with me, I don't know...]
For the Christmas vacation, I went abroad to Alabama in the United States. She encouraged me to contact her when I was there and I did. She expressed interest heavily in reuniting, how me coming back into her life is a "sign" and she wants to be happy with me. How I messed up her taste in men, she's been dating other guys who look like me ever since and they never worked out.
I was weirded out and knowing her father is racist against me, I could not see it working the way I wanted it to. So I denied her.
I came back to my country and she becomes cold. She denies ever having interest and shuns me. I try and try, to stay on good terms with her, but to no avail.
On my personal experience though, my first girlfriend was a Libra. She was very loving and caring to me.
She was the one who wanted the relationship in the first place, so I felt pity for her and went along with it.
I was honestly perturbed by her attention craving, the kinds of clothes she told me she enjoyed wearing. Leather skirts, short tops, really turned me off. Thankfully, I never saw any of that.
She has a lovely slender figure and models.
The relationship ended, because one of my friends Sag man, told her about the girl I was interested in before her, A Pisces of all signs... *shudders*
So my Libra decided to play "Hero" and end the relationship so I could pursue my "Original interest" and broke up with me. Now being young at the time [16 I believe] I was extremely emotionally immature and I discarded my feelings for her in an instant.
She came back crying and sad the next day, trying to get back with me. Which I did not entertain. She had this whole episode on a bus home, kissing me and I did not kiss back and crying through and through, hands on the glass after I exited with this extremely sad look. I was numb and impartial to it all.
She used to tell me, she would practice crying in front of a mirror. Most bizarre thing I heard at that time, so I never knew when she would blackmail me with tears.
So fast forward 5 years [2002-2007] I meet her up in a shopping plaza, where she works.
I am elated to see her, we exchange contact information and begin talking again. I occassionally drop by to give her a ride home, just to get close again.
[I like to get women interested in me and have them admit it, I think it's the Leo in Venus with me, I don't know...]
For the Christmas vacation, I went abroad to Alabama in the United States. She encouraged me to contact her when I was there and I did. She expressed interest heavily in reuniting, how me coming back into her life is a "sign" and she wants to be happy with me. How I messed up her taste in men, she's been dating other guys who look like me ever since and they never worked out.
I was weirded out and knowing her father is racist against me, I could not see it working the way I wanted it to. So I denied her.
I came back to my country and she becomes cold. She denies ever having interest and shuns me. I try and try, to stay on good terms with her, but to no avail.
Low and behold, she goes and marries some mentally disturbed Gemini man, who "shows" he loves her by visiting her often.
I try to befriend him and he orders her to cease communication with me. Shortly, thereafter, he calls me and threatens to call the police if he ever sees me around her again. Making up some bullbutter story about how I'm telling her family lies.
She goes along with it and I believe she is "Blinded by love". A few months later, I receive a call. They are divorced, he became abusive and was physically damaging her. I laugh to myself and she scorns my being right about him, I never approved.
We begin to speak well again only for things to go awry, once more. So I approached her personally, at her place of work. I offer a hug, she declines. I try to work out where we stand as friends, she says we are not. I try to reason, she abhors my efforts. I then make it clear to her, that it is of her choice that things are ending and she accepts my assertions.
This is a true testament to what I have heard other Virgos say about Libra women. They are TRAINWRECKS. I hope this does not happen to you.
I try to befriend him and he orders her to cease communication with me. Shortly, thereafter, he calls me and threatens to call the police if he ever sees me around her again. Making up some bullbutter story about how I'm telling her family lies.
She goes along with it and I believe she is "Blinded by love". A few months later, I receive a call. They are divorced, he became abusive and was physically damaging her. I laugh to myself and she scorns my being right about him, I never approved.
We begin to speak well again only for things to go awry, once more. So I approached her personally, at her place of work. I offer a hug, she declines. I try to work out where we stand as friends, she says we are not. I try to reason, she abhors my efforts. I then make it clear to her, that it is of her choice that things are ending and she accepts my assertions.
This is a true testament to what I have heard other Virgos say about Libra women. They are TRAINWRECKS. I hope this does not happen to you.
Gosh Cajun, your libra ex sounds nothing like me. I dont think ive worn a skirt or a dress since i was like 10, and i dont play mind games like crying on cue or breaking up when i dont mean it.
"she goes and marries some mentally disturbed Gemini man, who "shows" he loves her by visiting her often"
Sometimes my boyfriend is really aloof and i wonder what he really thinks of me but most of the time he is the opposite. Maybe she just needed more reassurance from you?
If its not too personal, how long were you with your libra before the relationship ended?
And yes, i know high school relationships dont usually survive. But i think we have a good chance, we have the same values/background/religeon and a lot of common interests. We were good friends before we started going out. He has even suggested marriage and children when we both finish uni (which i thought would be the last thing on a 17 year old guys mind, and even though i dont much like children i was pleased to hear it nonetheless)
From what ive read our relationship doesn;t sound much like other virgo/libra ones, so i guess youre right, i shouldn't worry so much
Thanks for the replies 🙂
"she goes and marries some mentally disturbed Gemini man, who "shows" he loves her by visiting her often"
Sometimes my boyfriend is really aloof and i wonder what he really thinks of me but most of the time he is the opposite. Maybe she just needed more reassurance from you?
If its not too personal, how long were you with your libra before the relationship ended?
And yes, i know high school relationships dont usually survive. But i think we have a good chance, we have the same values/background/religeon and a lot of common interests. We were good friends before we started going out. He has even suggested marriage and children when we both finish uni (which i thought would be the last thing on a 17 year old guys mind, and even though i dont much like children i was pleased to hear it nonetheless)
From what ive read our relationship doesn;t sound much like other virgo/libra ones, so i guess youre right, i shouldn't worry so much
Thanks for the replies 🙂
This relationship lasted 3-4 months.
As a young Virgo man, I have always seen my relationships as stepping stones to marriage. Never for fun or games.
As a young Virgo man, I have always seen my relationships as stepping stones to marriage. Never for fun or games.
Thats not very encouraging 😢
But it doesn't sound like my boyfriend and i (at least i dont think so...)
We have arguments sometimes, but the majority of the time there are no conflicts. And my boyfriend is very affectionate to me, he hugs me a lot and kisses me on the cheek or forhead for no reason. He even says 'i love you' a lot, which i thought was something a virgo would be unlikely to do (i could be wrong). Maybe hes got a strong influence from another sign somewhere?
I do talk a lot however, especially when we havn't talked in a while (hes not even allowed to use the phone because his parents dont want him to have contact with friends outside of school so i call him when both his parents aren't home)
And i'll ask him if im bugging him and he'll laugh and say no. We have some great convos too.
But it doesn't sound like my boyfriend and i (at least i dont think so...)
We have arguments sometimes, but the majority of the time there are no conflicts. And my boyfriend is very affectionate to me, he hugs me a lot and kisses me on the cheek or forhead for no reason. He even says 'i love you' a lot, which i thought was something a virgo would be unlikely to do (i could be wrong). Maybe hes got a strong influence from another sign somewhere?
I do talk a lot however, especially when we havn't talked in a while (hes not even allowed to use the phone because his parents dont want him to have contact with friends outside of school so i call him when both his parents aren't home)
And i'll ask him if im bugging him and he'll laugh and say no. We have some great convos too.
Cajun: Well, pretty soon, Dyar will come in here and talk about his old Libra wife.
Yes... and thanks for the introduction!
This is a problematic pairing - some great connections, but some serious disconnects that eat away at the love until it is gone... LibraEx & I made it over 20 years, but the last five were pretty miserable for both of us...
Libra has emotional needs that Virgo can't meet, and vice versa. We approach feelings and the expression of feelings from very different reference points, and I don't think any L + V couple could every harmonize. It's just not "doable" for these two Signs...
They'll work at it, but they'll ultimately fail...
And yet: I don't regret our many years together. Lots of great memories, and a FANTASTIC Scorpio Daughter to show for it!
I do talk a lot however...
No doubt. And, over time, it'll start to grate on his nerves.
my boyfriend is very affectionate to me, he hugs me a lot and kisses me on the cheek or forhead for no reason.
He loves you, and he doesn't mind showing it.
My Libra & I had almost perfect mental & physical connections - carried us through some rough patches of incompatibility!!
"but some serious disconnects"
Like what? I mean aside from me talking too much. Thats one thing i can work on.
"They'll work at it, but they'll ultimately fail..."
Oh no! Now i have a sense of impending doom! :S
"carried us through some rough patches of incompatibility!!"
Could i ask what connections you both lacked? I hope im not being too nosey...
Like what? I mean aside from me talking too much. Thats one thing i can work on.
"They'll work at it, but they'll ultimately fail..."
Oh no! Now i have a sense of impending doom! :S
"carried us through some rough patches of incompatibility!!"
Could i ask what connections you both lacked? I hope im not being too nosey...
"Break it off with the Libra. You won't regret it 😉"
Ouch! 😢 I am the libra btw -_-
Ouch! 😢 I am the libra btw -_-
well i have been in one even though it didn't work i was happy for the moment i had. if a virgo really cares for u no one can compare to him. it sounds like he dose but u have to look at the whole chart remeber that.
atlar: Could i ask what connections you both lacked?
The emotional connection. As I wrote: Libra has emotional needs that Virgo can't meet, and vice versa.
i dont think this is a tragic pairing. if it were virgo female and libra male i'd be a lot less optimistic but i think the libra female can be very graceful and level headed...all qualities that a virgo male will appreciate. buuut this virgo has an aries moon which can be a really harsh combination in youre looking for an emotionally open guy. you have a lot of libra placements so you probably like all the mushy romantic stuff 😉. then again virgo males never fail to surprise me in the courting and romance department. you dont know what his venus and mercury are?
His venus is in leo
mercury is in leo
mars is in virgo
jupiter in leo
saturn in aquarius
uranus and neptune in capricorn
pluto in scorpio
I know it would be really helpful if i knew his ascendant but i dont know his time of birth...
mercury is in leo
mars is in virgo
jupiter in leo
saturn in aquarius
uranus and neptune in capricorn
pluto in scorpio
I know it would be really helpful if i knew his ascendant but i dont know his time of birth...
..................
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Aries
Mars: Leo
Venus: Leo
:O
..... are you dating my ex-bf?
LOL, just kidding ^_^. Those were his placements actually. I don't remember the rest of his chart. Plus, he was on the Virgo-Libra cusp.
If you say he's older than you, then I'll be worried lol
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Aries
Mars: Leo
Venus: Leo
:O
..... are you dating my ex-bf?
LOL, just kidding ^_^. Those were his placements actually. I don't remember the rest of his chart. Plus, he was on the Virgo-Libra cusp.
If you say he's older than you, then I'll be worried lol
"..... are you dating my ex-bf?"
lol i hope not, im my bfs first gf and vice versa
And my boyfrinds bday is 30th aug
"If you say he's older than you, then I'll be worried lol"
Hes 10 months younger... does that have an impact?
lol i hope not, im my bfs first gf and vice versa
And my boyfrinds bday is 30th aug
"If you say he's older than you, then I'll be worried lol"
Hes 10 months younger... does that have an impact?
I wonder about this combo as well. My BFF Libra has been dating this Virgo male for a couple months now. She's not even completely divorced and moved out and he's already asking her to move in with him. Is this common?
She always moves way too quick in relationships and will not listen to anyone's advice. But, he's like ready to put a ring on her finger and they hardly know each other—
Is this normal for a Virgo man?
She always moves way too quick in relationships and will not listen to anyone's advice. But, he's like ready to put a ring on her finger and they hardly know each other—
Is this normal for a Virgo man?
But, how can you really know someone when you've been dating such a short time? The honeymoon isn't over yet. It seems to me only fools rush in...
"Just wondering if anyone can give me some insight into my relationship with my boyfriend?"
"We've been together almost 3 years .."
I should think after nearly 3 years, you should be able to tell others insightful things about your relationship with your boyfriend.
:: shrugs ::
"We've been together almost 3 years .."
I should think after nearly 3 years, you should be able to tell others insightful things about your relationship with your boyfriend.
:: shrugs ::
Thanks Shaks...
I think it's funny though...her being a Libra, she's the most indecisive person I know. It can drive me crazy being an Aries!
So, that's why I think it's odd that the only area of her life she doesn't think about things 50 times over is the love arena. Probably the most important part of life.
I understand deep connection and the feeling of "this is so right" as I've felt this before. But, things can sizzle out and you are sometimes left with a big ole mess.
She's had a series of really, really bad relationships. Violent, controlling and even a loveless marriage . So, I hope this Virgo is the butter to her bread, but I wish she would try something different and move a little slower.
Not sure if it's just Libra, but she has stated that she will hear what people have to say, but she will never take anyone's advice even if she knows they are correct. Damn! It's infuriating! 🙂
I think it's funny though...her being a Libra, she's the most indecisive person I know. It can drive me crazy being an Aries!
So, that's why I think it's odd that the only area of her life she doesn't think about things 50 times over is the love arena. Probably the most important part of life.
I understand deep connection and the feeling of "this is so right" as I've felt this before. But, things can sizzle out and you are sometimes left with a big ole mess.
She's had a series of really, really bad relationships. Violent, controlling and even a loveless marriage . So, I hope this Virgo is the butter to her bread, but I wish she would try something different and move a little slower.
Not sure if it's just Libra, but she has stated that she will hear what people have to say, but she will never take anyone's advice even if she knows they are correct. Damn! It's infuriating! 🙂
"I should think after nearly 3 years..."
You have a point. But we are both young, I'm 18 and hes nearly 18, and this our first relationship for both of us. So i figured there would still be people out there who would have some insight that i don't have yet.
And as for librans who listen to advice but dont take it, that doesn't sound like a typical libran thing to me. But then, i might just be weird.
You have a point. But we are both young, I'm 18 and hes nearly 18, and this our first relationship for both of us. So i figured there would still be people out there who would have some insight that i don't have yet.
And as for librans who listen to advice but dont take it, that doesn't sound like a typical libran thing to me. But then, i might just be weird.
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My info:
Sun - libra
ascendant - aquarius
moon - virgo
venus - libra
mercury - libra
midheaven - scorpio
My boyfriends info:
Sun - Virgo
moon - aries
thats all i know atm, i did have more details somewhere but i seem to have lost them.
We've been together almost 3 years, im in my first year of uni and hes in his last year of high school (we are 10 months apart) and even though we only live 5 minutes away we never get to see each other because of his overbearing parents. We keep in touch by texting.
I heard a lot about libra/virgo being a difficult pairing and not likely to succeed and was hoping someone could give me some advice or tips on how to keep the relationship going despite hardly seeing each other?
Thanks in advance