confusing virgo

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by gia63lo on Monday, April 21, 2008 and has 3 replies.
hey guys! so im really into this virgo guy.. but i cant seem to read him. whenever i see him at a party or some place he gives me his full on attention and doesnt stop talking to me. one night we stayed up till 8 am together dancing the whole night away.that night he was very drunk and i kno he tried to kiss me several times.. i refused because i didnt want him to think i was easy and it was our first time we were alone. I want him to kno im more serious about how much i like him . he never calls me during the week but on the weekends he always ends up calling me super late... i kno its not a booty call or anything because we dont do anythin but talk and he doesnt even try.
he sends mixed signals and i cant seem to figure out if hes shy or if hes just not that into me.
friday night he ws supposed to stop by a party that was at my house and he never showed but instead called me at 5 amd sayin he wanted to stop by and visit since he was at another party down the street... i told him i would call him back and never did. the next day when i finally called him back he wouldnt answer but ended up calling me back again at around 2 am ... this time i was up with my friends so i invited him over.. he said he was very tired and was on his way but stopped by anyway. He always seems to call me after 2 am.. but whenever we are together he is very flirty.. yet never tries to kiss me or anything.
i know my situation seems lame but i just cant read him... we always end up together at the end of the night.. but he never makes plans with me yet when we are together insinuates us having "dates" and jokes around with his friends that im his "girlfriend". guys what do you think he is thinking?
gia ... Virgos aren't the initiator in a relationship.
The reason why he makes references to being together, and not really making the attempt to move in is because he is waiting for you to take the lead in which he has shown to you that he is interested.
That's just the way they are ..... they will NOT lead or initiate, they will only insinuate this is what they want or how they feel, so that you will respond by taking their hand and leading them there.
yes i kno he is a young, i kno he just wants to be with his guy friends. but i also wonder will i look super desperate if i try and call him or something? i want to see him more often and want him to KNOW for sure i am interested yet i dont want to lose him.. do i have to just sit back and wait till he stops being so shy?

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