Curious
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by StandOffThis on Wednesday, November 30, 2011 and has 5 replies.
Sun in Virgo, Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Leo
Looks - This has evolved over time. I was super attracted to guys with dark hair, dark features, just the typical "tall, dark, and handsome." So, I mostly went for brunettes. However, that changed when I dated my first blonde guy. I loved his sandy blonde hair, and I couldn't figure out why. So, I randomly started dating blonde haired, blue-eyed boys. At one point, I even ended up going on s couple of dates with a red-head who had beautiful blue eyes. Now, my current boyfriend has sandy blonde hair and blue eyes as well. I realized over time that my attraction was actually to eyes. My boyfriend's eyes can pierce when you just stare are them. Ugh... *swoon* But yes, I go for eyes. I love eyes they just sort of take the lead when it comes to looks. I like guys who look clean, however, he doesn't have to be dressed so properly that he's in a business suit everyday. My boyfriend dresses like a hick 75% of the time, but I do love when he gets all clean cut sometimes. It's just adorable. So look clean, and I'm fine. In terms of physicality, I'm not picky. I dislike it when guys are super buff; I also dislike it when guys are super slobs.
Personality - I'm firstly attracted to humor and wittiness. I love it when a guy can make a good joke, because I'm all about laughter. I love a guy who is intelligent too; and I don't mean a brainiac. I just like it when a guy knows what he's talking about. My boyfriend isn't a genius, but he is a huge history and movie buff. He knows what he's talking about, so I love listening to him when he's just spewing facts about the Civil War. I'm into guys who know how to have fun, but know when to turn off the "party" switch and get serious. I love guys who don't have to take life seriously and can laugh at anything. Open mindedness and empathy are also huge pluses.
Uhhh I don't know how I approach guys. Sometimes I just randomly engage in conversation if they say something interesting, but generally, I'm not that great at suggesting dates or something. I do enjoy being chased, but if need be, I'll do some of the chasing too. I like to get to know the person first before we get intimate. Getting to know the person doesn't have an exact time frame. It can be one date or five dates. One week or three months depending on the person. I just be myself and apparently that works sometimes lol.
When I love the person I'm with, I like to go all out. I love little displays of affection.
Looks - This has evolved over time. I was super attracted to guys with dark hair, dark features, just the typical "tall, dark, and handsome." So, I mostly went for brunettes. However, that changed when I dated my first blonde guy. I loved his sandy blonde hair, and I couldn't figure out why. So, I randomly started dating blonde haired, blue-eyed boys. At one point, I even ended up going on s couple of dates with a red-head who had beautiful blue eyes. Now, my current boyfriend has sandy blonde hair and blue eyes as well. I realized over time that my attraction was actually to eyes. My boyfriend's eyes can pierce when you just stare are them. Ugh... *swoon* But yes, I go for eyes. I love eyes they just sort of take the lead when it comes to looks. I like guys who look clean, however, he doesn't have to be dressed so properly that he's in a business suit everyday. My boyfriend dresses like a hick 75% of the time, but I do love when he gets all clean cut sometimes. It's just adorable. So look clean, and I'm fine. In terms of physicality, I'm not picky. I dislike it when guys are super buff; I also dislike it when guys are super slobs.
Personality - I'm firstly attracted to humor and wittiness. I love it when a guy can make a good joke, because I'm all about laughter. I love a guy who is intelligent too; and I don't mean a brainiac. I just like it when a guy knows what he's talking about. My boyfriend isn't a genius, but he is a huge history and movie buff. He knows what he's talking about, so I love listening to him when he's just spewing facts about the Civil War. I'm into guys who know how to have fun, but know when to turn off the "party" switch and get serious. I love guys who don't have to take life seriously and can laugh at anything. Open mindedness and empathy are also huge pluses.
Uhhh I don't know how I approach guys. Sometimes I just randomly engage in conversation if they say something interesting, but generally, I'm not that great at suggesting dates or something. I do enjoy being chased, but if need be, I'll do some of the chasing too. I like to get to know the person first before we get intimate. Getting to know the person doesn't have an exact time frame. It can be one date or five dates. One week or three months depending on the person. I just be myself and apparently that works sometimes lol.
When I love the person I'm with, I like to go all out. I love little displays of affection.
And by that, I mean, I like to give little gifts or reminders just to let them know I'm thinking about them. I usually do a lot and don't ask for much in return, but sometimes I love getting surprised here and there. I'm very cuddly. I love to be all over my partner, just hugging, cuddling, kissing ect. Even when out at a bar or something, I'll slip my arm around his waist or loop my arm through his. I just like to be close unless I'm mingling. I'm more relaxed. I make jokes often with my SO and there are no limits really. I love to ask questions, go on little adventures, just do all kinds of fun and random things. When I'm in love, I just feel more free. No drama for me too. I try to make misunderstandings work out without jumping to conclusions.
I suppose I'm in the transition from "honeymoon phase" to the end of it. We finally established our place in each other's lives and we'll reach a year around March or April. And you know when it gets to that point, I start to feel more relaxed, I don't feel as anxious. What I do now to make sure we DON'T get sick of each other is I try to only visit him every other day or twice a week. He literally could spend every day with me, but I just like to keep the mystery and the emotions flowing. I like it when I feel like I really miss him, so I try to build off of that. I try to find new questions to ask him so that I'm always learning more about him than I already do. I try to figure out new activities for us to do together. Basically, now that I know we're in, I'm just going with the flow, but I'm not trying to get lazy either lol. Still not about arguments. Still super cuddly, maybe even more cuddly.
I suppose I'm in the transition from "honeymoon phase" to the end of it. We finally established our place in each other's lives and we'll reach a year around March or April. And you know when it gets to that point, I start to feel more relaxed, I don't feel as anxious. What I do now to make sure we DON'T get sick of each other is I try to only visit him every other day or twice a week. He literally could spend every day with me, but I just like to keep the mystery and the emotions flowing. I like it when I feel like I really miss him, so I try to build off of that. I try to find new questions to ask him so that I'm always learning more about him than I already do. I try to figure out new activities for us to do together. Basically, now that I know we're in, I'm just going with the flow, but I'm not trying to get lazy either lol. Still not about arguments. Still super cuddly, maybe even more cuddly.
@ OP.
seems like ur guy n i have the same sun/moon combo. i've virgo sun and aquarius moon. and i can totally get what he's saying. even though my venus is in libra, the aqua moon dominates. its really simple with a virgo with this placement. we like subtle understated form of love which is expressed at a psychological level than through flowery words and sweet nothings.
When it comes to looks, i have always liked the piercing, hypnotic eyes and quiet watchful demeanor, subtle sexiness with boyish features n medium built. a typical scorpio guy is the kind i'd be physically attracted to. but im dating someone faaaaar off from that. my guy is all man! he's tall and really broad. add to the extremely powerful torso, wild locks of hair that can possibly never be tamed. he is nowhere near quiet n far from subtle. he has the kindest eyes ive seen on a person and he has a wonderful smile as everyone who meets him points out. and i absolutely adore his dimple. (thank god for his libra ascendant
) ok..im rambling xD
as far as personality goes.. wit, intelligence n power can sweep me off my feet. i think most virgos like a partner who can make them laugh n de-stress them. takes the load off our shoulders n make us feel relaxed to have a happy person around us. and i found the perfect blend of all this in my guy who was my best friend for years. He is a leo. the honeymoon phase lasted long. the honeymoon phase lasted few months, after which we actually became more bonded and serious about the relationship. so in a way i'm glad it did. we're completely honest and straightforward with each other. no mind games here. just a lot of comfort. its true, my leo says that im more of an introvert and not as confident and spontaneous as he is but its those differences in our personality that compliment the relationship so well. now, we live in separate cities due to college and thanks to that..we're even closer to each other now. all that pent up waiting and wanting makes for an awesome time together when we get to meet. our behavior is the same, but the our perception of things have matured. we may not look like a lovey dovey new couple..but we certainly look like two people who knows the other for good, and worse and found love in that.
seems like ur guy n i have the same sun/moon combo. i've virgo sun and aquarius moon. and i can totally get what he's saying. even though my venus is in libra, the aqua moon dominates. its really simple with a virgo with this placement. we like subtle understated form of love which is expressed at a psychological level than through flowery words and sweet nothings.
When it comes to looks, i have always liked the piercing, hypnotic eyes and quiet watchful demeanor, subtle sexiness with boyish features n medium built. a typical scorpio guy is the kind i'd be physically attracted to. but im dating someone faaaaar off from that. my guy is all man! he's tall and really broad. add to the extremely powerful torso, wild locks of hair that can possibly never be tamed. he is nowhere near quiet n far from subtle. he has the kindest eyes ive seen on a person and he has a wonderful smile as everyone who meets him points out. and i absolutely adore his dimple. (thank god for his libra ascendant
) ok..im rambling xDas far as personality goes.. wit, intelligence n power can sweep me off my feet. i think most virgos like a partner who can make them laugh n de-stress them. takes the load off our shoulders n make us feel relaxed to have a happy person around us. and i found the perfect blend of all this in my guy who was my best friend for years. He is a leo. the honeymoon phase lasted long. the honeymoon phase lasted few months, after which we actually became more bonded and serious about the relationship. so in a way i'm glad it did. we're completely honest and straightforward with each other. no mind games here. just a lot of comfort. its true, my leo says that im more of an introvert and not as confident and spontaneous as he is but its those differences in our personality that compliment the relationship so well. now, we live in separate cities due to college and thanks to that..we're even closer to each other now. all that pent up waiting and wanting makes for an awesome time together when we get to meet. our behavior is the same, but the our perception of things have matured. we may not look like a lovey dovey new couple..but we certainly look like two people who knows the other for good, and worse and found love in that.
Moon in Taurus, Venus in Virgo
In terms of physical attraction, I find myself taken by a guy with nice eyes. I'm not a fan of blue eyes, but light eyes are pretty (mostly because I can read them a lot clearer than dark eyes) but my Taurus has big dark-brown eyes, and they're gorgeous to me. I've dated a guy before him who really made me realize "nice eyes" doesn't mean "anything other than brown, because brown is such a basic eye color"--it's about the shape, and warm/sincerity when they stare at you. Brown/blue/green/w.e., if they're cold, I'm turned off. I like guys who are around 5'10 - 6 '2, beautiful smiles (and I really need them to smile with their eyes--it doesn't count as a smile to me if the eyes are still cold and heartless), and just down-to-earth type of looks. I've dated pretty boys, and I can't say they were better than the less Brad-Pittish type of guys I've dated. Nice eyes, nice smile, and some height on them--that usually does it for me.
Other than looks, I'm into guys with a nice sense-of-humor. If you can not only make me laugh, but make me learn to laugh at myself and stop taking myself so seriously, I'm yours (he also needs to be able to laugh at himself too, I'm not into serious guys at all). I don't need a flowers and balloons at my desk every morning type of guy, or the type that wants to go out to flashy places in flashy cars--I don't like being in the spotlight. Low-key does it for me, but it's always nice to be with a guy who's at least a bit more of an extrovert than me, so he can introduce me to new things outdoors that I'd never discover on my own.
When I'm in love, I'm all smiles. People can see it on my face, in my eyes especially. I'm just happy, and singing out loud, and it's hard for things to bring me down.
When the relationship is in full swing, I'm just very content that I've found someone who allows me to be me (otherwise, I won't be in love) while helping me to learn more about myself, without even meaning to. I'm very giving, caring, doting, loyal, devoted to my partner, and make sure I let them know just how much I care about them. This is why when people say Virgos are unemotional, I roll my eyes. If we're unemotional around you, it's because we're not comfortable around you, or just plain straight flat out don't like you. Take the hint.
In terms of physical attraction, I find myself taken by a guy with nice eyes. I'm not a fan of blue eyes, but light eyes are pretty (mostly because I can read them a lot clearer than dark eyes) but my Taurus has big dark-brown eyes, and they're gorgeous to me. I've dated a guy before him who really made me realize "nice eyes" doesn't mean "anything other than brown, because brown is such a basic eye color"--it's about the shape, and warm/sincerity when they stare at you. Brown/blue/green/w.e., if they're cold, I'm turned off. I like guys who are around 5'10 - 6 '2, beautiful smiles (and I really need them to smile with their eyes--it doesn't count as a smile to me if the eyes are still cold and heartless), and just down-to-earth type of looks. I've dated pretty boys, and I can't say they were better than the less Brad-Pittish type of guys I've dated. Nice eyes, nice smile, and some height on them--that usually does it for me.
Other than looks, I'm into guys with a nice sense-of-humor. If you can not only make me laugh, but make me learn to laugh at myself and stop taking myself so seriously, I'm yours (he also needs to be able to laugh at himself too, I'm not into serious guys at all). I don't need a flowers and balloons at my desk every morning type of guy, or the type that wants to go out to flashy places in flashy cars--I don't like being in the spotlight. Low-key does it for me, but it's always nice to be with a guy who's at least a bit more of an extrovert than me, so he can introduce me to new things outdoors that I'd never discover on my own.
When I'm in love, I'm all smiles. People can see it on my face, in my eyes especially. I'm just happy, and singing out loud, and it's hard for things to bring me down.
When the relationship is in full swing, I'm just very content that I've found someone who allows me to be me (otherwise, I won't be in love) while helping me to learn more about myself, without even meaning to. I'm very giving, caring, doting, loyal, devoted to my partner, and make sure I let them know just how much I care about them. This is why when people say Virgos are unemotional, I roll my eyes. If we're unemotional around you, it's because we're not comfortable around you, or just plain straight flat out don't like you. Take the hint.
Awwww! That was lovely to read, Chocokat 
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