date someone else?

Message posted by: piscesdreamer on 9/4/2006

"start dating someone else?!"

Do you think this could spark Virgo to be a little more responsive, or could it maybe push him further into himself?

I wonder. I'm trying to remember whether when I had a bf in 2000 whether or not Virgo made any moves. Just can't recall.

Last night, Virgo was a NCNS (no call, no show) and I'm worried about that one. I'm ready to just drop the course today. Maybe I'll stop thinking about it so much, at least for my own sake...tend to obsess, you know?

ltvm

Date someone else is good advice. But don't do it just to make this guy jealous, or he will come back, make you swoon, and dumnp you on your head while walking away with the upper hand.

Date if you want to change scenery, but do not date to make him jealous. Eventually all 3 of you will get screwed, so why expend the energy? If he wanted you by now, you would have known it.

"If he wanted you by now, you would have known it."

I am not really made of the stuff that does that. I would have to detach from Virgo first. I'm a one-man woman. Don't want to detach, unless I'm not "wanted," and would like to know what you mean by the above? Maybe Virgo is not really that interested? Maybe Virgo is ———

Sometimes I think I know it, and sometimes, I'm perplexed about it. Sometimes I think he may be so bombarded with thoughts about his jobs-changes that I have to take a 2nd role. But, am I just making excuses for him?

Well job changes can affect a man deeply, that's for sure. So don't go dating others, and if you think there is hope, wait around.

Just understand that things may be on hold awhile, and can you deal with that?

Best of luck.

VG62 is right about trying to make him jealous. They normally just don't respond to that they way other people do. Likely, he'll bolt if you do that.

You want to know how to get a V-man to be responsive . . . same question, different person. This is getting really old !!!!

There's nothing you can do. Like you've been advised in here . . you have to wait for them to decide whether you're worth more time and effort. After the long wait, you'll either have a partner who will still reserve the right to withdraw at any time for analysis, or he'll deem you "not worth it" and ditch you.

Oh, I just realized this wasn't posted by you, rather a copy. Still, same applies.