Dating a Virgo Sun with Scorpio Moon
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by chica on Friday, May 19, 2017 and has 5 replies.
So im interested in this Virgo Sun, Scoprio in moon, Venus and Mars both in Virgo too. I can see that he's interested since he does that whole staring thing when he thinks I'm not looking and he is quite inquisitive.
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e's started that push-pull game, where he withdraws and then comes back and then withdraws again and so forth. Which is fine since I'm a Cap Sun with a Sagg moon, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Virgo and like my space so I have a tendency to do the same until I've made up my mind, which I sort of have now.
Out of curiosity, how long does it usually take for men under this sign to make up their mind? And what exactly are they observing/looking for? And just generally what are they like? He has started opening up and I can tell that he is quite intense and passionate under all that reserve but he takes the whole being reserved and secretive to a whole new level so Ive only just started seeing glimpses of that (and I thought my Cap sun and venus in scorpio made me secretive!).
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e's started that push-pull game, where he withdraws and then comes back and then withdraws again and so forth. Which is fine since I'm a Cap Sun with a Sagg moon, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Virgo and like my space so I have a tendency to do the same until I've made up my mind, which I sort of have now.
Out of curiosity, how long does it usually take for men under this sign to make up their mind? And what exactly are they observing/looking for? And just generally what are they like? He has started opening up and I can tell that he is quite intense and passionate under all that reserve but he takes the whole being reserved and secretive to a whole new level so Ive only just started seeing glimpses of that (and I thought my Cap sun and venus in scorpio made me secretive!).
Dating a lad with almost this exact combo at the mo mehself...
'cept he has Leeb mars.
Took him maybe two days to reach out and key up something concrete in real lyfe.
And a couple of weeks to lock me down officially, so...
If Virguys like ya- they want ya and they don't mess around in my experience.
This is true for the ScorpMoon aspect as well.
Don't play games, be transparent and genuine in your emotional sphere.
He will respond positively.
'cept he has Leeb mars.
Took him maybe two days to reach out and key up something concrete in real lyfe.
And a couple of weeks to lock me down officially, so...
If Virguys like ya- they want ya and they don't mess around in my experience.
This is true for the ScorpMoon aspect as well.
Don't play games, be transparent and genuine in your emotional sphere.
He will respond positively.
I'm a Pisces girl currently dating a Virgo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Venus Cancer, Libra Mars. Make sure this is the guy you want because he's gonna be hard to get rid of if you change your mind. The push-pull game might be him testing you in a way.
Mine is super possessive, but my Cancer Mars appreciates it. A lot of our planets compliment so it works out. Not sure what the extra Virgo-ness adds to the mix but mine with Cancer and Libra is pretty much attached at the hip at all times. That extra mutability might mean you need to make the first real move.
Advice: Be genuine. Be honest.
That Sun/Moon combo will sniff out any verbal/emotional discrepancies instantly and efficiently.
Conversely, I still can't get a straight answer out of him about what he's doing or where he's going, but since it usually turns out to be work, family, or gym related I just stopped caring too much. He's constantly with me too much to worry about him getting into any trouble.
Mine is super possessive, but my Cancer Mars appreciates it. A lot of our planets compliment so it works out. Not sure what the extra Virgo-ness adds to the mix but mine with Cancer and Libra is pretty much attached at the hip at all times. That extra mutability might mean you need to make the first real move.
Advice: Be genuine. Be honest.
That Sun/Moon combo will sniff out any verbal/emotional discrepancies instantly and efficiently.
Conversely, I still can't get a straight answer out of him about what he's doing or where he's going, but since it usually turns out to be work, family, or gym related I just stopped caring too much. He's constantly with me too much to worry about him getting into any trouble.
Posted by NineAvenue30th August 1987
@chica what;s this dude birthday?
Posted by CheVirgoThanks! Ive been waiting for him to make a move but he hasnt done much so far except staring and asking questions. He's always so reserved (except when he's talking about his work) but it seems like I may have to go ahead and do it instead. I read that with this placement you have to be careful about not wanting to come on as strong and overbearing. Is that usually true?Posted by chicaI have those placements. Sun Virgo, Moon Scorpio, Mars, Venus, Mercury in Virgo. He's staring to study you and make sure you're worth talking to. If you are interested make the first move to make him comfortable. Start out with light flirting and you'll will see if he's feeding off you or not. Thats just from my experience.
So im interested in this Virgo Sun, Scoprio in moon, Venus and Mars both in Virgo too. I can see that he's interested since he does that whole staring thing when he thinks I'm not looking and he is quite inquisitive.
H
e's started that push-pull game, where he withdraws and then comes back and then withdraws again and so forth. Which is fine since I'm a Cap Sun with a Sagg moon, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Virgo and like my space so I have a tendency to do the same until I've made up my mind, which I sort of have now.
Out of curiosity, how long does it usually take for men under this sign to make up their mind? And what exactly are they observing/looking for? And just generally what are they like? He has started opening up and I can tell that he is quite intense and passionate under all that reserve but he takes the whole being reserved and secretive to a whole new level so Ive only just started seeing glimpses of that (and I thought my Cap sun and venus in scorpio made me secretive!).click to expand
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