Do virgo men come back after truly falling in love
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by eli4321 on Thursday, March 13, 2014 and has 6 replies.
I am a Leo woman and I had been with my Virgo since February of last year. We had an instant connection, we connected mentally, emotionally and physically with ease. Within 4 months of the relationship he told me that he truly loved me. He introduced me to his whole family and friends and they all liked me. He would talk to everyone about me and call me 'beautiful,' 'the love of his life'
His mom and I became really close and she told me that in November he told her that he could not see himself without me. (We're both in our early 20s btw)
The reason I'm asking this is because throughout the entire relationship we only fought 3 times. But the week after Valentine's of this year on Thursday, he asked me for a break. I didn't understand where this was coming from because everything had been going perfectly! I freaked out since we had never taken a break before and asked to see him on Sunday.
Pretty much he broke up with me and said "i dont want a relationship' but he still wanted to remain friends which confused me.
Anyway, long story short I met up with him this Saturday that just passed and I asked him why he really broke up with me. He said that he got scared. I didn't understand but tried to keep the conversation friendly. I asked him if we could turn the break up into a break.
He said, 'If it's in the cards then we'll be back together.'
His mom called and told me that she talked to him the day after and he told her that he was still in love with me and pretty much he didn't wanna end up being like his dad. His dad would hit and abuse his mom. He was scared that he was going to turn into him..
What can I do? I'm stuck in this weird point of 'Should I wait for him? Should I talk to him and try to sort out this relationship? Or should I just drop my feelings altogether?
We're each other's first love and we were deeply in love.. I don't know what to do He's such a sweet guy I don't want his fears to take over...
His mom and I became really close and she told me that in November he told her that he could not see himself without me. (We're both in our early 20s btw)
The reason I'm asking this is because throughout the entire relationship we only fought 3 times. But the week after Valentine's of this year on Thursday, he asked me for a break. I didn't understand where this was coming from because everything had been going perfectly! I freaked out since we had never taken a break before and asked to see him on Sunday.
Pretty much he broke up with me and said "i dont want a relationship' but he still wanted to remain friends which confused me.
Anyway, long story short I met up with him this Saturday that just passed and I asked him why he really broke up with me. He said that he got scared. I didn't understand but tried to keep the conversation friendly. I asked him if we could turn the break up into a break.
He said, 'If it's in the cards then we'll be back together.'
His mom called and told me that she talked to him the day after and he told her that he was still in love with me and pretty much he didn't wanna end up being like his dad. His dad would hit and abuse his mom. He was scared that he was going to turn into him..
What can I do? I'm stuck in this weird point of 'Should I wait for him? Should I talk to him and try to sort out this relationship? Or should I just drop my feelings altogether?
We're each other's first love and we were deeply in love.. I don't know what to do
He's such a sweet guy I don't want his fears to take over... 
Honestly I think you should take a break too.
Step back and listen to what he's saying on a deeper level, he's telling you/his mom that he is scared that he'll be abusive towards you/a woman, unfortunately you cannot fix that kind of feeling nor help him through that kind of emotion/thinking.
The best thing you can do is sigh relief that he's man enough to walk away and not drag you down verbally and/or drag you down with his fist.
From what you describe he actually seems like a good guy but even good guys have issues that they need to overcome on their own.
Step back and listen to what he's saying on a deeper level, he's telling you/his mom that he is scared that he'll be abusive towards you/a woman, unfortunately you cannot fix that kind of feeling nor help him through that kind of emotion/thinking.
The best thing you can do is sigh relief that he's man enough to walk away and not drag you down verbally and/or drag you down with his fist.
From what you describe he actually seems like a good guy but even good guys have issues that they need to overcome on their own.
Posted by tiki33
Honestly I think you should take a break too.
Step back and listen to what he's saying on a deeper level, he's telling you/his mom that he is scared that he'll be abusive towards you/a woman, unfortunately you cannot fix that kind of feeling nor help him through that kind of emotion/thinking.
The best thing you can do is sigh relief that he's man enough to walk away and not drag you down verbally and/or drag you down with his fist.
From what you describe he actually seems like a good guy but even good guys have issues that they need to overcome on their own.
Excellent advice!!
It's fully realized, though, that you will push him anyway, in promising him that you don't care about his issues, you just want him and love him, no matter his demons ....
And then we'll have a new thread .... where you come to bitch about getting beat up by a Virgo bastard
oh, and btw .... this truly love shit you're talking about is how YOU FEEL. You are stating it's how he feels, when in reality, you don't know how he feels ... you only know how you feel.
virgos don't leave if they are truly in love .. no matter their demons.
@Eli4321
I don't beleive this topic is an astrological issue, more like a personal psychological dilemma.
If you truly love him...
Let him seek counseling to battle his inner demons.
His feelings for you is not what's really at stake here.
I don't beleive this topic is an astrological issue, more like a personal psychological dilemma.
If you truly love him...
Let him seek counseling to battle his inner demons.
His feelings for you is not what's really at stake here.
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