Do Virgos Find it hard 2 let go?

in previous posts if you have read them. i have mentioned abotu my ex G/F (SCORPIO)messing wi me head, asking me to change constantly. we split up i was constantly askin her back, she was having none of it although coming to mine wen drunk sayin she still loves me & wants2get back, but wen i went round in morning she said no i dont.

last sunday 3rd sept, sunday after my b-day 27th Aug, we agreed to go for a drink just to celebrate, she cancelled on me, i got so pissed off i had said to myself "right Ami thats it you'v had enough of being rejected by her & being hurt, its time for YOU to move on" i said that to myself and finally started the healing process.

i also did a post "Virgo & Sag can it work?", i met this girl (sag) on my birthday and we had been chatting ever since, we hit it off superbly, all the butterflies, goosebumps & stuff.

but on tues night my scorpio came round to my flat (sober) and said look im sorry for the way i have been ive had comitment issues, can we give it another go? all the things she was saying sounded genuine. but i couldnt go back even tho i love her she jsut hurt me so much i couldnt do it, so i chose the sag girl over her even tho we have only known each other 3 weeks. i still have thoughts thinking have i made teh right choice, but i still want to be friends with my scorpio lady is that a bad thing?

sorry the post is too long i did actually shorten the story.

Ami :-) xx

I think you should give her another chance. You have too much time invested not too. Besides almost every relationship is beautiful in the beggining. If you try to make things work and they dont, atleast you can walk away with your head up high.

John

All the Scorpios I meet don't like equal heat; the ones I know harp on about the fire in their gut, but I think it's just some passin' gas!! lol!! When I really show them what I feel, I usually get told that 'it's not that serious'... WTF?!?!?! Na, but they are good all-around though we've got our ups, and downs but they make life a little bit more interesting....😉

To me, it looks like a jealousy issue, as soon as the sag girl is out of the picture, say bye-bye scorp...

ami,

i'm in a similar situation...except that my ex is an aqua girl and the new girl i'm seeing is a libra...both very cute but VERY different in many ways...

i'd say think about what caused the relationship with your scorp girl to end...do you think things will change for the better? would she invest in the relationship as much as you would want to?

whenever you make a decision, remember to ask how the other person feels about you keeping in touch with the other...out of respect...and honestly not staying in touch for a while with the ex may help if you go for the sag...especially if you still have feeling for her...is hard.

maybe you need a time alone to think about it all...don't get back just bc of comfort or bc she's hot, but truly bc she has something to give and share in the relationship that you need and want...but also if the sag girl really likes you too...she will understand the time you need to sort things through.

personally, i haven't talked with my ex for a while now, i'm moving on with my life with this new girl...but taking things REALLY extra slow...

but every situation is different...so best of luck!

vll