Do virgos push people away ?

Just two years ago i met this psychic and she revealed everything to me.Except she told me that i push people away.I think the reason why is i mistake lectures for advice and i hate being under pressure.Do virgos really do that or take it in stride ?

virgos just want to have sex. tEHn they push you away. duh

Can you even spell? You can't tell any Virgo the truth...why would I listen to you?

Virgos are control freaks. They are also so pedantic and they think they can do everything the RIGHT way. I like people who are 'pedantic' though! My venus is in virgo and i am so exacting about my lovers. I am extremely fussy and wont settle for second best.
Virgos are also are kind hearted, discerning, shrewd and unthreatening. They are extremely analytical and are good business people. I find them quite cultured and they excude natural class (the ones i have met do anyway!).
Dont worry about what the psychic said, half the time they are only out for your money!

210.50

They might.......until they meet a scorpio

virgos just want to have sex, then they push you away - true - the less emotional attachment, the better!

So 198.81......

Are you saying Virgos will be attracted to Scorpios?

Most virgo men just screw you. And then you are left literally being screwed.

I dont think virgos can satisfy scorpios sex urges.

210.50, Virgos and Scorpios are mutual counterparts - Half alike and Half different. Usually, Virgos push away people who don't accept them as they are. I'm a Virgo girl who does just that! As for Scorpios, they're complex and difficult to get to know because they're so private. MOST Scorpios trust me because I don't pose a threat to them. Virgos and Scorpios can trust and help each other - even with sex!

In answer to the question, "do Virgos attract Scorpios, or are Virgos attracted to Scorpios" the answer is yes, to both... I have a Scorpio man that I adore, he seems to feel the same way about me when we're together. We are so comfortable with each other. But it is always fun, don't know how serious he is about me.. I feel in my gut that he really likes me, however when we're not together he never calls. Wow, I'm getting off of the subject.. I do think Virgo's have a tendancy to push people away, but it is their way of not having to deal with whatever emotion that particular person has made them feel... so, they just push!

Hello , G-virgo again.Hmm... seems like i have everyone's opinion on this topic.See if i can hear of some more ranting and raving on this topic.These replies are hot !!

Hey Esther this is 198.81..........
What I meant by "until they meet a Scorpio" , is that they can push all they want. If were serious about them we arent going anywhere and in fact may develop a more aggressive pursuit. We dont give up easy, especially in matters of the heart.

Virgo's definitly push people away. My virgo and I just got a condo together. He signed a year contract and two days later he left me saying that he had enough. I believe that virgo's are scared of commitment. I feel there is nothing I can do to get the man I love back because it is easier on him just to run away and deny his love for me. He bought me a wedding ring and then left me to suffer all by myself.

sucks 198. I told my virgo man I wanted to us to be together. He cut ties and no longer responds to me. I know what it is to suffer. virgos suck.

I feel your pain. What is up with these virgo's? He rushed me to get a place with him, then he ran away just as fast. Now he is back in his home state not even thinking about me and all that I can do is think of the wounderful future we had planned on having with each other.

what a schmuck!

That word has 2 meanings: idiot and dick!

Virgo's are odd, then most signs are, anyway. Being eclectic people they like to be around such like. They're more in love with the ideology of love I think. One thing they want is not too much emotion to be shown, enough to keep them interested, a slight assurance and the mystery element. Do they push people away. They don't suffer fools glady, so make your own mind up on that one. If they feel they've been let down, you can bet your bottom dollar if you don't rectify the situation soon and confess, they'll put you out of their mind...

I'm a virgo, call me selfish but I could count the people I give a dam about on one hand and you wont see me push them away the rest are all equal to me I don't discriminate just as long as they mind there own bussines.

you guys are really so difficult to figure out. (nothing personal). I am a cancer - wear my heart on my sleeve -
The two words that best describe me is "I FEEL" - and I can't help it. I had a long discussion with a virgo "x" of mine - and I can tune right into him like noone else. I think I stunned him, quite frankly!

I know some virgos who don't push people away pending on when they were born. I notice those that are "true" virgos - (on the cusp of nothing), do push people away, and then pull them close when they need them, causing stress, anxiety and confusion to the person. I loved my virgo man, but he really did drive me crazy!

Alright everyone, it is scary how much I am relating to this whole discussion. I am a virgo female who is in the process of pushing away an overly eager scorpio male. This push/ pull relationship has been going on for two years now, and I had always thought it was more a result of my emotional immaturity rather than my sun sign, but reading this discussion has given me another view. On behalf of all virgos I would like to apologise to those of you who have been hurt by us and to let you know that we're the ones that miss out in the end.

Kate.

Thank you Kate, at least you are aware of it. I hope you find what you are looking for (as my ex boyfriend). It is sooo his loss! Too bad.

Kate I would have to agree with you. I am a Virgo Male and had been with a Scorpio Female for 2 years and things just did not work out, up down push pull I agree. On the other hand I was with a capricorn for 3.5 years and I feel I pushed her away and yes I do miss her, But sometimes I wonder if I really did push her away because I did propose to her. She had left me. But do you know what if she saw me now and saw what I have done for myself and things that I have accomplished I know she would feel quite stupid. Virgos are strong and determined virgos make things happen if it weren't for virgos the world just could not function.
Jess
Jess

I would not choose to be something other
Jess

I agree, i'm a virgo and i feel that men should give more compassion back to us as we are the ones always giving..Capricorns are definately it..cool

I'm a Virgo female in love with a Scorpio male. After reading "do virgos push people away" I realize that I do push my Scorp away. We've been on/off for over a year now and just recently I've gotten into Astrology to get answers into why this relationship is not working smoothly. Until now I blamed Scorpios' secretive ways,inability to forgive, etc., but yet my Scorp keeps coming back and I keep pushing him away, although I really, really want him. Now I know it's me -- Virgo, who has to get it together. What I want to know is how do we overcome that Virgo tendency. Has any Virgo out there who recognized it done it and how? Help!

Scorpios are control freaks, they want control and they want to be the boss that is the problem with Virgos because Virgos are the boss and do have control and Scorpios do not like that. Virgos walk away and push those people away that question and taunt virgos authority. If you want to be happy with a Scorpio you need to give in and allow the Scorps to have control. But remember you are a Virgo and you are the Queen of the Zodiac. Take Control and don't give the serpance the authority to speak.
J

Female Scorpio here. No one controls anyone. We only control ourselves. LOL

198/"J":

LOL, we're not SERPENTS, we're SCORPIONS, for one thing. Secondly, nobody is the Queen or King of the Zodiac--each sign has good and bad--yep, even YOU. Virgos have never been seen as the "authoritative" figures in the Zodiac. I don't know what your sources are for this misinformation. Virgos have also never been widely considered as "the boss" of the Zodiac. In fact, it is generally known in astrology that Virgos are better independent workers, and that "control" is not a natural position for them to be in. So, why would a Scorpio even have to worry about Virgos "being in control" or being "authority" figures? You need to brush up on your research and knowledge of astrology. You're a Virgo; you should have all your facts straight from the get-go...but it seems you don't. Or, maybe you just felt like talking out of your hindquarters. I normally like and get along well with Virgos and I don't normally see this kind of flagrant ego in them. What's up with your post?

Heather
(a scorpio female)

I am a virgo and have been accused of pushing people away. Alot of times I'm just quiet and listening. Virgos need the quiet to sort their thoughts and feeling out and organize them! Be aware though, if I put my heart and soul in something or someone and am ignored, you're gone.

You know, it's true that Virgos do push people away because my best friend does that. As a Pisces, he doesn't do that to me, though. I've always avoided putting myself in a position of being pushed away because I understand. You see, some people are either very eager or aggressive in their approach and sometimes your just not ready for it, so you push them away, then pull them in when you are ready. That is something that some people just don't understand. I do, because I'm the same way. I'm just a Pisces though. You see, I push people away when they are overly eager, pushy, controlling, demanding, over-sensitive, etc. etc. etc. I do that because it's upsetting to my comfort-zone.

beiing secretive is not a scorpio trait. being deep is, but most often scorpios are open with their emotions to people they love.

virgos have the trait of withholding things!

2DF,

"I'm the same way. I'm just a Pisces though. You see, I push people away when they are overly eager, pushy, controlling, demanding, over-sensitive, etc. etc. etc. I do that because it's upsetting to my comfort-zone."

Very well put. My VirGuy friend and I are in a similar situation.

We are attracted to one another but keep each other at arms length. We can share things which are important to us but don't need the other to come up with a solution. Most of the time we just listen and remember. We can talk to each about anything without fear of judgement or extreme critizism. He pushes me away if I ask him to explain his actions or his distance; I push him away when I am made unhappy by something he says or does.

CF36

SB,

Yeah. I just realized the person I responded to last posted in 2005. I need to stop posting when I get sleepy.

Yes I realise I do push people away when all I want is for them to come and get me. It's partly fear, partly to see what they would do and if they'd make an effort for me. Maybe it is wrong cause I see the effect of being toyed with by a scorpio. But I think self preservation and fear of looking like a fool does paly a part in a virgo make up.

(virgo female here)

I openly admit I never 'screwed, then screwed someone over,'. My love is loyal and faithful, and honest, and sincere. I couldn't ever imagine myself as a virgo cheating on anyone; if i'm not feeling you, and my feelings are even to me 'wavering' over time, I will ALWAYS let you know ahead of time in a sincere, calm, way; I don't believe in making people hang on, and continuing from long distance, so I aim to let ya know right in front of you; I don't hide my feelings; life can make us vulnerable even if we are completely against it; unless of course you lock yourself inside a hyperbolic time chamber or some shit like that...so fess up, and admit it; if it dosen't work, than oh well...move on, but in honesty.

Is there anything someone (like me a scorpio) could do to make you not push us away? It seems to me that if we come on too strong you back off and if we are aloof with you you back off and then just when we think there is absolutely no hope you contact us again. It seems like the only thing that kind of works is to finally stop thinking about you all together and then you will finally take a baby step forward. FRUSTRATING!!!!

It seems to me you haven't met the right Virgo...Some are frustrating becuase they might not be happy internally, or externally; I AM!! So any form of close affection or touch, it turns me on!! Also, when I want sex, I WANT IT!! Perhaps it's just about finding a middle ground scorpiodude, gslove. Some virgos can't handle alot of intensity, and sometimes you should (being a scorp and all) hold back; I heard scorps like virgos for that; their self-discipline and all, and like wise for virgo; I wouldn't decline from anyone showing me forms of open affection; perhaps that just me....

Nah! We just believe that certain people are like Slinkies.

They have little purpose in life, but even so they are still fun to watch when you push them down the stairs.

Posted by Virguy62
Nah! We just believe that certain people are like Slinkies.

They have little purpose in life, but even so they are still fun to watch when you push them down the stairs.

LOL

@OP: you're gay for posting 2 pages long full of craps which i'm not bothered to read... i felt sorry for you, you miserable pornstar

hades

And this is specially for you OP..

OP: I want to fuck for a living.
Lawyer: You'll go to jail for that.
OP: But what if I video tape it for millions to see, and still get paid?
Lawyer: Well that's fine. Fucking for money on camera is acceptable, but take away that camera??_ and you be breaking the law, bitch.
OP: Then from this day forward, I shall be a pornstar. You want to fuck me now? Just $ 10.
Lawyer: I'd love to, but I don't have a camera.

hades

this post was created in 2002...haha that's why he is talking to himself evreyone else has left!

WTF is up with people pulling up all these old posts?? Start a new one already.

Posted by sweethearts
this post was created in 2002...haha that's why he is talking to himself evreyone else has left!

WTF is up with people pulling up all these old posts?? Start a new one already.

Oops... i'm not aware of that... thanks for informing... anyway, enjoy the joke... LMAO 😄

hades

Posted by hades

Posted by sweethearts
this post was created in 2002...haha that's why he is talking to himself evreyone else has left!

WTF is up with people pulling up all these old posts?? Start a new one already.

Oops... i'm not aware of that... thanks for informing... anyway, enjoy the joke... LMAO 😄

hades

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I was thinking the same thing. That is why I skipped from page one to page four. I wanted to see if there were any new posts for 2011, LoL.