Does the Virgo man have feelings for me?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by limeroadaries on Tuesday, October 20, 2015 and has 18 replies.
I'm an Aries woman. I am friends with a Virgo man for around 5 months now. He is off for his training and doesn't have his phone now. We haven't met much but spoke almost everyday. There have been several times we spoke from midnight till early morning! But 95% of the times, we are engaged in funny conversations. Neither of us has ever flirted with each other but keep joking about finding a partner for us. I have fallen for him but don't want to confess as I'm scared to spoil the friendship. Plus he will be away for a year with hardly any contact. But he told me that I am one of the persons he wishes to keep in touch with when he's away. Is there a possibility that he likes me or does he just consider me a good friend?
Everything that looks like gold is not gold. Take your time and find out yourself.
Hey Kalin. That's what I decided too. But in the whole process of waiting, I just want some assurance or hope that there is a possibility. Because if he just takes me as a friend, then may be I should suppress my feelings. He will come after 5 months for ten days. He said he will meet me. And he's always been very supportive, helping me with my work. But what I never understood was that we hardly met. But spoke everyday almost. So was he just taking me for fun or he genuinely had something, is what confuses me.
What is worse.. knowing or never knowing?
Posted by dontgetmewrong
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What is worse.. knowing or never knowing?

Well, the virgo has a mouth, he can say it too.
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Why would he take the risk of ruining a perfectly good friendship on an assumption?
He would be more content on what he has now then taking a chance on something more.
Virgo will settle for less if it still means being close
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
Posted by Weeds
What is worse.. knowing or never knowing?

Well, the virgo has a mouth, he can say it too.

Why would he take the risk of ruining a perfectly good friendship on an assumption?
He would be more content on what he has now then taking a chance on something more.
Virgo will settle for less if it still means being close
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Let me add to this... the only reason he would run the risk is if there is another male interfering with his closeness with her.
Posted by dontgetmewrong
You know what I love...how dead the sag board is right now. It means they're all good.

I was actually thinking telling my wife to join this site but i wanna hold back for a while because of the most people here. But I'm sure she'll love to meet her fellow Sags.
Posted by Nathan912
Posted by dontgetmewrong
You know what I love...how dead the sag board is right now. It means they're all good.

I was actually thinking telling my wife to join this site but i wanna hold back for a while because of the most people here. But I'm sure she'll love to meet her fellow Sags.
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Nooooooo keep her far away... after while ppl get bitter by being on this site too long LOL
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Posted by Nathan912
Posted by dontgetmewrong
You know what I love...how dead the sag board is right now. It means they're all good.

I was actually thinking telling my wife to join this site but i wanna hold back for a while because of the most people here. But I'm sure she'll love to meet her fellow Sags.

Nooooooo keep her far away... after while ppl get bitter by being on this site too long LOL
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I know right lol. I dont want her beautiful soul to be contaminated by total some extreme negative people here. I rather see her visiting her make-up and beauty website that she always visiting and share her beauty tips to other females. At least on those site she get positive comments by most people there.

I guess you're right, man. I don't her to think that all Virgo Men will cheat on their wife and girlfriend because of the other females here who have failed relationship with our fellow Virgo Men lol. Or Some negative things about Sagittarius or Sagittarius Females.
1. He has never avoided me.
2. There were times when I didn't message. After a few days, he himself messaged.
3. Like he kept joking around about me finding a girl for him, I too kept telling him that I find one of his friends hot. We both connect mentally very well and are both very picky. Both have had just one relationship for a long time in the past.
4. He's gone for Defence training. He knew beforehand that he won't be able to keep in touch. So I am guessing probably that's why as well he didn't want to begin with anything new.
Rather he said that he decided that if he gets selected in the Army, he will not get into a relationship or marry anyone. How true could that be?

But in all, I didn't have my question answered whether it is only friendship from his side or there is a possibility that he likes me but isnt telling?
Posted by kalin
Posted by limeroadaries
Hey Kalin. That's what I decided too. But in the whole process of waiting, I just want some assurance or hope that there is a possibility. Because if he just takes me as a friend, then may be I should suppress my feelings. He will come after 5 months for ten days. He said he will meet me. And he's always been very supportive, helping me with my work. But what I never understood was that we hardly met. But spoke everyday almost. So was he just taking me for fun or he genuinely had something, is what confuses me.


If you really want to know, maybe you should ask him directly... The only thing is he might avoid you for a while if he didn't feel the same.
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He has never avoided me. Even before submitting his phone while he was at his training, he gave me a call to inform that he won't be able to call for a month or and so and wished me for my exams.
Posted by dontgetmewrong
Posted by Weeds
Posted by Weeds
Posted by dontgetmewrong
Posted by Weeds
What is worse.. knowing or never knowing?

Well, the virgo has a mouth, he can say it too.

Why would he take the risk of ruining a perfectly good friendship on an assumption?
He would be more content on what he has now then taking a chance on something more.
Virgo will settle for less if it still means being close

Let me add to this... the only reason he would run the risk is if there is another male interfering with his closeness with her.


So, only when there's danger, you feel the heat.
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I have mentioned a few guys but yes, I never spoke to them for as long as I did to him and he knew that I wasn't even serious for those guys, and was just having fun talking about them. But now that he's away and calls me after a month or so, do you think mentioning a guy will make him insecure and confess his feelings, or will that make him suppress his feelings and he decides to move on?
Posted by dontgetmewrong
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Posted by Weeds
Posted by dontgetmewrong
Posted by Weeds
What is worse.. knowing or never knowing?

Well, the virgo has a mouth, he can say it too.

Why would he take the risk of ruining a perfectly good friendship on an assumption?
He would be more content on what he has now then taking a chance on something more.
Virgo will settle for less if it still means being close

Let me add to this... the only reason he would run the risk is if there is another male interfering with his closeness with her.


So, only when there's danger, you feel the heat.
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Mmm y'kno there are alot of dangerous animals in the world... but they are only dangerous when threatened.
Otherwise one would never second guess something that looks so unintimidating.
You stop defending whole groups!
Posted by dontgetmewrong
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You stop defending whole groups!


...No....
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Oh well I tried
Blackmamba got those tingly feelings for the virgo dick yep... she gone give in and beg for it
OP I can quite suggest that he likes you perse..virgos will allow ppl to entertain them to a certain degree and if they like your banter they will engage in dialogue with you often....
if the convo is switched to something bit more meaningful and suggestive....then maybe that can indicate...

virgos flirt heavy but then again most virgos are so gorg and smart ppl gravitate towards them and try to get into their space...if a virgo wants you they will stop at nothing to acquire you...they like having the best

which is why they often collect a few top level candidates and then process of elimination from there....

i suggest you send him pics of you looking amazing..virgs are very visual...or you doing something super exclusive or special not avail to reg folks

good luck.


Posted by balblair
OP I can quite suggest that he likes you perse..virgos will allow ppl to entertain them to a certain degree and if they like your banter they will engage in dialogue with you often....
if the convo is switched to something bit more meaningful and suggestive....then maybe that can indicate...

virgos flirt heavy but then again most virgos are so gorg and smart ppl gravitate towards them and try to get into their space...if a virgo wants you they will stop at nothing to acquire you...they like having the best

which is why they often collect a few top level candidates and then process of elimination from there....

i suggest you send him pics of you looking amazing..virgs are very visual...or you doing something super exclusive or special not avail to reg folks

good luck.




Hey. Thanks a lot for that. It's been weeks we haven't spoken because of his training. But whenever he calls, do you think I should continue to be funny, joking around or talk seriously, asking about his health etc? Also, will it be a good idea to mention the guys I've come across while he's away or shall I not mention any guy?