Does this Virgo Man have feelings for me?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by greeneyedpisces on Tuesday, November 29, 2011 and has 10 replies.
Okay this is kind of a long story but I will try to make it as short as I can, the Virgo man that I am interested in and I grew up together.. his entire family and my entire family have know eachother for many years, back to our parents childhood's anyway I had a huge crush on him when we were kids, but he was so shy that nothing ever happened. He is 3 yrs. older than I am and he graduated high school and went into the Navy, he came home, and ended up getting married not long after coming back from the Navy, I was already married at that point in time, and had not seen him or spoke to him after he came back from the Navy for about 20yrs. as he moved about 3 hrs. away from our hometown, anyway when we did meet, it was online, through his sister, and we began to talk about our lives and all that had happened, and about when we were kids ect. He started flirting, BTW he was divorced by this time, I however was not, but was not in a good marriage, anyway at first I did not find him appealing, but over time he became very appealing to me, I left my husband not because of him, but because of other issues, we did not talk for about 6 mos. after I left my husband, then one day he asked if we could meet as he was going to be in town, I agreed to meet him, and he kissed me, not a very good kiss at that, but then he wanted things to be sexual, and I said NO because I was not ready for that, he was hurt, mad whatever it was, he left and did not talk to me for about a month, then he comes back starts talking to me like nothing ever happened, picking up right where he let off, anyway we did not see eachother for about a year, face to face anyway, and then he asked me to meet him again, and I said I would, we ended up meeting in a parking lot at a local mall, and he asked me to take a walk with him where we could talk for a little while, well when we were out of sight of everything, he backed me up against a tree, and kissed me this time it was with more passion than I have ever experianced in my life, it left me breathless and he looked into my eyes, called me baby, kissed me again, said my name, which btw was the first time he had ever said my name in any conversation we have ever ever had, anyway we kissed more, and things went further than they had before when we met, after we talked for a while, and he had to leave, but I did too... so we walked back to his vehicle, he hugged me, and I walked away, he pulled out of the lot, did he only use me? or care 4 me?
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The only thing Virgo men end up feeling for Pisces women is either lust or contempt.
Definitely sounds like you're getting used.
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Posted by Cajunspirit
The only thing Virgo men end up feeling for Pisces women is either lust or contempt.
Definitely sounds like you're getting used.


Upppppppppp!!!!
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Posted by Cajunspirit
The only thing Virgo men end up feeling for Pisces women is either lust or contempt.
Definitely sounds like you're getting used.



Listen to Cajun, he speaks for all .... he knows the "only" for all
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As long as next time he invites you out... you go on a date. If you're just meeting him for quickies (or making out sessions), then he is using you. Expect more from him, don't settle for intermittent reinforcement games. Been there, done that with a Taurus player. Never again...
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Posted by TheLadySagittarius
As long as next time he invites you out... you go on a date. If you're just meeting him for quickies (or making out sessions), then he is using you. Expect more from him, don't settle for intermittent reinforcement games. Been there, done that with a Taurus player. Never again.


Okay found out what I needed to know, I just came straight out and was honest about what I had felt... what I was wanting and he told me that he found me very attractive, and that he did not regret being with me however that it could not happen again and that he wanted to keep it at a friendship level, ummm... okay I can't keep just friends right now because there was a line that was crossed, I can however just move on and hold my head high because I don't use people to play games just for my own satisfaction, if I like someone they know it, if I am not into someone it would never get to a sexual place... and I am me and I am the best that i can be at being me, and NO ONE is every going to change who I am of the sense of peace I have in being myself, I am a very caring person, yes I sometimes make mistakes because of being a loving and caring gentel person, but at least I can always say that I don't do things to hurt others. Unlike what he did, anyway thank you for the advice, just wish I had come here and told my story before things happened... do I regret the experiance.. not really because I did care, and at least I experianced the feeling of being special to him even if it was just my feelings.
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Yes! you go girl, lol...and anyway, any green-eyed Pisces girl can get whomever she wants so just move on!
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"and that he did not regret being with me however that it could not happen again and that he wanted to keep it at a friendship level, ummm... okay I can't keep just friends right now..."
^^Well, what should she do? He gave her his answer, he wants sex from her but wants to be just "friends". Eeww, not a man any girl wants to pursue now is he?
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I still have feelings for him, and have talked to him a few times since, and he seems like he still wants more, he keeps asking me things, that just make me wonder, I am no loner doing any chasing, if he truely wanted me, then he will have to do the chasing!!.. and he is going to have to prove he has feelings, not just act like he did... He is a very complicated man, and it is a very complicated situation... one thing that really makes me wonder is, when he talks to me, he now make sure he tells me his work secdule ect. and yesterday I had posted a a status for a friend.. and not the VIRGO guy,, this was someone else who has just been a friend, but has been cheering me up since all this took place, anyway the status was "Thank you for an AMAZING morning Tongue" and Virgo guy comes online, and seen it.. he asked me what I was doing, and I said I just left the park.. lol.. he was like u were alone.. did not quite make it a question but it was a question..lol so I know he seen the status.. it is almost like he is protective, or jealous, something anyway went on to tell me that he had been working nites, 12 hr. shifts and that he had 9 days straight of them which he had completed the 8th night the night before.. so I did not ask anything about his work, or what he had been doing nothing, but he tells me these things anyway, he REALLY confusses me. I think he is just fooling himself and trying to fool me that he has no feelings beyond friendship, but whatever.. If he really wants me he is going to have to step up, because I already backed off.
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All your doing is creating a challenge that this Virgo will enjoy meeting. His goal will be the same but he'll appear to be doing exactly what you want, but at the end of the day his interest level will be no higher than his waist. Definitely should jettison this guy before he becomes a permanent attachment.
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