Does Virgo get insulted easily?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by CaplovesVir on Saturday, July 21, 2007 and has 11 replies.
My virgo friend at work came to work with a bad cold after travelling for weeks. 1st day was very friendly to me. He already told a friend of his he's been having feelings for me, but haven't made any moves towards me, for his own reasons.
The 2nd day, I was out to lunch, called him if he wanted some soup, he asked me to buy him lunch and he will pay for it himself. I brought him lunch and soup but I didn't take any money. He did offer me, but when I said don't worry, he said he will buy me something. He didn't insist paying me back strongly, was just shy, had a big smile on the whole time. Later that day, he emailed me thanking again, and again I said not to worry about it, just get well soon.
The following days he has been avoiding me sort of, not looking directly at me, was supposed to fix something on my computer, but didn't come. I am trying to understand if he got insulted me buying him lunch, or is he just doing his virgo thing by doing his own thinking, disappearring act by avoiding me, the way a lot of ladies said over here?
sounds like he's trying to figure something out here, as Capgirlinlustwithleo suggested.
Does Virgo get insulted easily?
---Yes
I do. but it depends as well....most things don't bother me, and don't rouse me emotionally at all, but there is that ocassional time where my pride is just hurt...
I buck up though...I'm a pretty lively guy so....down isn't a philosophy for me.
CaplovesVir .. this is quite normal for Virgo's when they like somebody. If he didn't like you in more of a way then just a co-worker, then he would be his normal self .. because he is behaving standoffish, is a clear indication with the Virgo (mainly males-females are tad more expressive) is into you.
You only get this sort of reaction from a Virgo when they are experiencing feelings towards a person. smile
Not any Virgo I know (and I know many, male and female), would be insulted by another person picking up the tab, or feeding them such as you have done .. quite the Contrary .. they actually would feel honoured that you would do something like that for them.

This is from Leo/Virgo cusp perspective so cannot really know if its true for all virgos. But if you were really aloof about the whole thing then that could have triggered the reaction. But apparently you said this guy was too shy then i am guessing he is not a Leo/Virgo cusp.
I would like to thank you all for your inputs.
Avalan,:
"But apparently you said this guy was too shy then i am guessing he is not a Leo/Virgo cusp."-- no is Vir/Libra cusp, Sept 21.
Well, he started talking to me Monday, and has been very friendly, to my surprise, actually being nicer than before. So I guess I'll just go with the flow.
They'll give you a funny look.
Hi i everyone i really need some advice? I have been casually dating a virgo guy for about 4 months. He works really hard and is always busy, i see him occasionally but when i do we have a blast!! He doesn't really dish out compliments? And i dont want to ask him for one either, but i would really like some response? How do you know if a virgo guy is interested? I mean he still talks to me? But when we do have a night together i wont hear from him for like a week? Im not sure if he is feeling guilty about something? Or weather he is just like that? I hope its not me? lol.
Chrissy whatever happened with virgo man?

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