does virgo man ever come back?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by mugezzz on Wednesday, July 17, 2013 and has 27 replies.
i've been trying to be nice not to show him,im dying for him but he is kind of running away from me ,any hope ?what should i do?
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It depends on the situation.
3 years ago my ex and I had a huge fight and ended things. We both moved on with our lives she's married and has a child. Recently I started thinking about her and realized I missed her a lot. I added her on Facebook, we chatted and we're friends again. But we hadnt spoken in 3 years.
So it all depends on the situation. Me as a virgo, if I miss you I will try to come back.
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Depends on who wanted to end things...
From my experience with a virgo man it was hard to get rid of him. A year in a half later he still pops up...be careful what you wish for, lol.
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Posted by Eula
Depends on who wanted to end things...
From my experience with a virgo man it was hard to get rid of him. A year in a half later he still pops up...be careful what you wish for, lol.


haha I have to admit this has its ups and downs.
Virgos are extremely loyal
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Posted by Ixion120
Posted by leejt86
Posted by Eula
Depends on who wanted to end things...
From my experience with a virgo man it was hard to get rid of him. A year in a half later he still pops up...be careful what you wish for, lol.


haha I have to admit this has its ups and downs.
Virgos are extremely loyal



lol we can be loyalty nazis especially when we catch feelings.
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not just with feelings, ive had some friendships for 14-15 years
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The one I ended things with last year still pops up. About once a month or so he'll send me a text. Last one he acted like he was mad at ME for not trying to contact him. What part of "I'm done" does he not understand? I may not hear from him after this last time though; I gave him a "to the point answer, no frills". I don't think he liked that because I got silence. LOL! *shrug*
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Me and my Virgo went through a really bad patch which lasted a few months! It was before I really understood him. For example I now realise I didn't give him much alone time, I was scared of losing him and was way too emotional this made him pull away even more but instead of letting him pull away for a bit and then come back (which is what most Virgos do every now and then) I would just try and see him even more which was obviously a major turn off for him and we were in a rutt. Anyway long story short I ended up breaking up with him, but i did it properly, face to face and took it off facebook cause I just didn't even feel like he loved me anymore. I didn't speak or contact him for a week which is the longest we have gone and he ended up trying to talk to me every day for that week, but I ignored him until I finally gave in and saw him. He balled his eyes out and admitted he had been a jerk etc and that he has made a mistake and wants to be with me. That was about 2 months ago and we have been really really good ever since! But mind you, I've changed all my ways as well. I have promised myself to never be so annoying again, I've become way more independent and less emotional. This is what I like about Virgos! They help me see things from a logical view not just an emotional view, but I think my Capricorn moon plays a part in that too. ANYWAY, if Virgos truly can see your worth and love you they will come back and they will come on stronger then before smile good luck
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You need to be more clear with your thread, why is he running from you? Give us the background if you want the best responses
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oh yes, alone time is extremely important to virgos. we (at least for me) need time to decompress after each day.
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A virgo man head over heels can be a bad or good thing, depends on the individual. They are very determine and don't take no easily.
Despite my ex peek a boo moments, if a virgo wants you, you'll know it.
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hihi~ i have the same question actually... hope to get some advice / tips! smile
I met this virgo online... and he started off very passionately with lots of sweet messages for 3 weeks, we met twice...
I went on a trip and we kept txting. by the time i got back and we were supposed to go on the 3rd dates, he kept rescheduling.. due to his biz trip n got sick, etc... but the 3rd time he rescheduled again (due to work), i kinda had enough... so i told him that bothers me, and i would prefer if he could confirm a date n time. Then... NEVER heard from him again, no replying at all! I sent him another txt after couple days saying sorry for throwing a bit heavy stuff there and thanks for all his sweet msgs. wishing him a good wknd n days ahead~ STILL NO reply... guess.... it's done?~ that's a bit rude thou!Sad
He's Sep virgo, with Moon in Taurus, Venus in Libra and Mars in Sag.!
I'm Taurus~~ smile
Thanks!
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ohhh~ btw, it's been more than a week...
I'm not that upset.. also kinda curious... does bothers me a bit that ppl could be so rude n just disappear thou.
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The general answer is yes, but give more information
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I have been in a thing with a virgo man, and as an aries woman, i was the same way, always textn.. etc. I really like this guy so much. We had a big, i dont know what to call it, falling out? Because i talked to someone about us.. big mistake! Ive learned my lesson! While our "fallbout" i called him, msgd him like crazy. He barely responded..well a few days after we began talking. He needs for us to slow down. He says we got so close, and he can't be in a relationship right now. Too much bm drama, hes got kids. Its really hard for me to give him his space. We still talk abit each day, and have seen each other. But I am not "back in the crook". Yet! I have faith. I don't think his feelings have changed for me. Just a trust issue, i think, so now to earn his trust back. Hes giving me that chancesmile but boy, have I learned alot in this forum. And my guy is 100% virgo. I love his honesty. He is very real. No head games. Its refreshing. And i am beginning to understand the dissappearing act. My guy was upset, with good reason. So he is slowly coming out of his shell, and i am being respectful of him. I think that as an aries.. i fall fast and hard, when i fall. Which, i did with him, but this taking it slow keeps the butterflies coming, the challenge..lol i wish there was more info on ur question. But i can imagine how your feeling because i was crushed to the core when my guy stopped talking to me! They just have a different way of dealing with things. Very extreme, but then im the other extreme. So, give him time, if hes worth the wait! My guy is worth the fight.. but i dont have to fight.. i just have to learn to wait. I dont mean fight in literal terms.
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He's probably been hurt in the past and wants to see if he can trust you while he's gone. Or, he really is busy and wants you to be upfront and tell him how you feel without too much pressure. If u pressure us too much, it makes us feel that we need to make decisions. He may not be ready for that decision. Or, he's testing you. We VIRGOS will test a potential partner. He may want to see how emotional or dramatic you will get :/ we hate being stifled and possessed.
Hope that helps
S - Virgo
A- scorpio
V - scorpio
Mars - cancer
Moon - capricorn
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And, YES, if we like you, we will definitely come back as if nothing ever happened.
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how long does it usually take thou??
it's been more than a week w/o any communication..... i'm prepared to let go n move on...~
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Posted by leejt86
oh yes, alone time is extremely important to virgos. we (at least for me) need time to decompress after each day.


DING DING DING!
I've been married to a Scorpio who after 5 years can't grasp the fact that when I get home from work, I don't want to rush into a long conversation. I want to chill alone for a little while.
As for the original topic, from my standpoint, if I ended it, I won't be back. If she ended it, I also won't be back.
There is a reason why people break up, and coming back is just setting yourself up for future drama. I learned this the hard way.
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It takes exactly 18 days.
Hahahha.

Nah I don't think you can put a time frame on it, depends on the guy it doesn't just come down to star signs. Sometimes it could be weeks, months, years. But if its been more then 2 weeks then I would probably classify it as over
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smile thanks!!! yah i kinda felt it's over! wasn't that attached anyways as it was a short 3 wks n 2 dates only~~
had another virgo crash before... and he was all sweet! we r still fds!!~ so...it's better to be fds than lovers! haha
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Those pesky Virgos, aren't they fun? smile
Yes, they do return if they genuinely have feelings for you and they think you have potential.
Virgos just don't simply disappear unless you have threatened them to the point of not trusting you. Their disappearing act is their way of guarding themselves from getting hurt by you.
My Virgo "friend" and I are always going at it. We literally take turns being emotional. But no matter how emotional I get, he never disappears and he never ignores me when I come around. We had one of our biggest arguments this past week, I stopped talking to him for a full 7 days. When I was ready to speak again I messaged him, "Do you think we'll keep up with this silence perpetually?" He was quick to respond, "I don't wish for us to ignore each other you know. I thought you didn't want to hear from me anymore." The whole point is that they'll endure a lot if you're worth it.
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smile that's actually nice.... if u guys know each other well enough n built the foundation of trust / relationship already! then it's easier to fix things by simply sending a nice msg!
However... guess in my case... we only knew each other for 3 wks... dun think we know each other that well at all. Thou it wasn't a serious argument at all, i prob did hurt his ego! (that easily??!) i did send a msg to apologize after a few days and wishing him the best, he still didn't reply. well....~~ nothing much i could do but just leave it as it is. prob won't hear or see him again! pity thou~ thought he's fun n decent! smile
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Posted by mugezzz
i've been trying to be nice not to show him,im dying for him but he is kind of running away from me ,any hope ?what should i do?



"trying"? "dying for him"? and you wonder why he's running away?
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When you are getting to know a Virgo...I can't emphasize this enough
BE YOURSELF, DON'T BE FAKE, BE HONEST...they see right through you no matter what.
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Posted by TaurianJ
smile that's actually nice.... if u guys know each other well enough n built the foundation of trust / relationship already! then it's easier to fix things by simply sending a nice msg!
However... guess in my case... we only knew each other for 3 wks... dun think we know each other that well at all. Thou it wasn't a serious argument at all, i prob did hurt his ego! (that easily??!) i did send a msg to apologize after a few days and wishing him the best, he still didn't reply. well....~~ nothing much i could do but just leave it as it is. prob won't hear or see him again! pity thou~ thought he's fun n decent! smile


Arguing three weeks in is probably not a good sign for him. Occurrences like that will definitely be weighted heavily in a Virgo's mind.
The best advice I can give to you when meeting/dating a Virgo is to be calm and collected. It's okay to be emotional but not okay to have outbursts. They respect that you have deep feelings but will not accept it if you deal with them poorly.
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to me it sounds like he's not into you. he's being rude about it but thats what it sounds like.
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Posted by leejt86
to me it sounds like he's not into you. he's being rude about it but thats what it sounds like.


yah i agree... thats what it seems like! such a dramatic change... the last min was all sweet n "babe me", the next... gone!
lesson learned! thanks all for the advice~ will deal with my emotion n move on! smile
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