exaggerate/lie to impress?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by vvlv on Wednesday, July 2, 2008 and has 4 replies.
I've been talking to a virgo man overseas (we met when i lived overseas) and we talk often and things seem well. Its been about 5-6 months since we've seen each other. Sometimes we converse and he gets antzy/anxious and says how he wishes i was there and so on... and other times he asks me how far the flight is to come visit me and blah blah and says he is going to come visit.
Finally I went to go visit overseas to see him and my friends and i talk to him the night before my flight and he's super excited for me to visit...i go... and he ends up not meeting up with me! but comes online to talk to me when i'm literally staying down the street from him...
i got really upset and he apologizes and says he messed up...
then a few weeks ago he talks about how he wants to visit me and how he's been looking up plane tickets and says he's coming... then i talk to him yesterday if he's really coming and he goes.. Uh i don't know. then, tries to change the subject.
why does he continuously want to talk to me but won't see me? why does he keep mentioning (at least once a month) he is going to visit but never does?
now its been over 7 months and i just want to give up completely but also can't bear to come to terms that i will never see him or talk to him ever again..
Finally I went to go visit overseas to see him and my friends and i talk to him the night before my flight and he's super excited for me to visit...i go... and he ends up not meeting up with me! but comes online to talk to me when i'm literally staying down the street from him...
i got really upset and he apologizes and says he messed up...
then a few weeks ago he talks about how he wants to visit me and how he's been looking up plane tickets and says he's coming... then i talk to him yesterday if he's really coming and he goes.. Uh i don't know. then, tries to change the subject.
why does he continuously want to talk to me but won't see me? why does he keep mentioning (at least once a month) he is going to visit but never does?
now its been over 7 months and i just want to give up completely but also can't bear to come to terms that i will never see him or talk to him ever again..
Answer is simple as to why ....
"can't bear to come to terms that i will never see him or talk to him ever again"
"can't bear to come to terms that i will never see him or talk to him ever again"
vvlv, it's normal for a Virgo to become attached to another person ... much as you are currently experiencing on both ends here.
You can't bear to cut the cord, for fear you'll never see him again.
He can't let go either, and continues to hold on to the end of the string.
There appears to be a gap in the bridge of logic/emotions .... on one hand, certainly you can see that this isn't good for you, to be dependent upon how you feel for him .. while on the other, your emotions pine away for this very illogical dependency because another person gives you a place to attach your feelings to.
What you two have isn't a love at all ... it's a dependency.
There is no easy way .... you just have to severe the cord and walk. It's like dieting, or quitting smoking ... just do it.
You can't bear to cut the cord, for fear you'll never see him again.
He can't let go either, and continues to hold on to the end of the string.
There appears to be a gap in the bridge of logic/emotions .... on one hand, certainly you can see that this isn't good for you, to be dependent upon how you feel for him .. while on the other, your emotions pine away for this very illogical dependency because another person gives you a place to attach your feelings to.
What you two have isn't a love at all ... it's a dependency.
There is no easy way .... you just have to severe the cord and walk. It's like dieting, or quitting smoking ... just do it.
Kick his lying ass to the curb!!!
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