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Jul 09, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1112 · Topics: 21
Is there actually a distinction? One you can decipher in the moment.
I'm asking only because I can't get out of my head the look on the face friend of mine who is a male Virgo. It was a look I've never seen prior, so I am conflicted as to what his eyes were actually saying.
The only way I can describe it is that when I walked up to him, he gave me this look that was intense, but at the same time, it made me feel very uncomfortable. It certainly wasn't something I expected from him.
His brown eyes nearly turned black and he came across stern but to me, it felt somewhat cold. Whatever it was, I could definitely sense his underlying emotion. He was very concise in his comments; his behavior and eyes didn't change for one second. Then he quickly turned away and never spoke again.
For those who are more experienced with Male Virgo's, whether as a close friend or in a relationship, would you be likely to believe my friend was in some type of emotional pain, angry or perhaps feeling intense emotions that were conflicting to him?
Remember, he is a dear friend only. I wish I could have done something to help him, but as you all know, Virgo men are the last people on the planet who seek help, especially from a woman. He isn't the type of man to disclose anything that would make him appear weak.
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Dec 01, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 3848 · Topics: 46
He did that to feck with you. I make you feel exactly how you are feeling now.
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Jul 09, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1112 · Topics: 21
so you're saying he wants me to think of him and be conflicted, correct?
I get the mental thing, being a Gem, we are too. but I'm not one to act cold and intense for a minute coming across completely opposite of what you normally are simply to make a long lasting impression.
so he got me thinking of him, i know he thinks of me too. big deal. what's the overall gain in this?
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Apr 07, 2011Comments: 1685 · Posts: 9901 · Topics: 213
Reminds me how my Gemini ex often became shy/uncomfortable with the way I looked at her at certain moments, she said it was "too emotional" for her and would try to look away. Virgos express a lot of emotion through their eyes
Im so sick of this game. He wants you to sod him, obsess, they want you to think he is in love with you (but for some reason the universe is holding you back).... No. He wants sex. Attention. Gemini do not fall for it. use yur wit and insult him.
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Jul 09, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1112 · Topics: 21
I know CC, I know. trust me. I've tried. I've emailed him asking him to meet up for coffee and let's chat. he hasn't accepted nor responded to that offer. being that we're both married, it's hard to do anything more. I've never really gotten to know his wife. I honestly don't know the entire dynamic there, but don't think interjecting my concerns into their life would be appropriate.
you better than most understand that when a virgo makes up their mind, it's pretty much done. he's like an immovable object.
i don't expect him to make some emotional type of confession. i'm not that type of person. a life time of a mutual friendship is a hard thing
to let go when you had no say in the matter.
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Jul 09, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1112 · Topics: 21
that's ironic you said, "find him where his wife won't be" because that's exactly what the scenario was when i approached him and got the cold look and silent treatment.
I know the mystery needs to be solved because you just don't pull this to someone who has been a close life long friend. at least not in my book. i wouldn't have done this to him even on my best day, but then again, i'm not a secretive virgo.
If there's an opportunity in the future where I run into him, i will definitely approach him, even if he's with his wife. I will do it tactfully, however.
I do appreciate your insight and advice CC. I think the big difference in this equation is that your connection with your virgo guy is in a relationship. Mine is a connection via friendship, so there are different dynamics at play.
I have even considered that maybe he was going through a divorce, but I'm pretty certain that is not the case. Time has a way of healing things. It's just that I'm not good at being patient.