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Jul 15, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 258 · Topics: 18
I met this leo woman 4 months ago. When we first met she had a boyfriend, and we still used to hang out all the time, 2-3 times a week. Now she's recently single and she's all I can think about. Me being a Virgo Im analyzing everything in my head. All my friends say just grow some balls and ask her out. We clearly have chemistry there, I think we can both see it. But Ive read Virgo and Leo arent very compatible in a relationship.
what should i do? I cant stop thinking about this girl.
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Jul 15, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 258 · Topics: 18
She is the complete opposite of me. I feel like she is too focused on her career to start a relationship with me.
But I feel like I will be crushed if I tell this woman how i feel and she doesnt feel the same way back.
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Apr 03, 2013Comments: 18 · Posts: 1149 · Topics: 51
Oh little Virgo...so what if she doesn't like you. Move on. What if she does and you don't take a chance, you could miss out on a lot. Can the union be tough, yes, but if it clicks, it really really clicks.
Words of Advice:
Be DIRECT. Do not be elusive. We can't stand that. We like to deal with what is truth and not wishy washy.
Do not overly criticize her..she will run away.
Be DIRECT. Oh wait..I said that already. Tell her you like her and would like to take her out.
Compliment her at times, stroke that ego.
Loosen up and enjoy the ride.
Grow some balls and go for it. That is the one frustrating thing with Virgos (I love you guys too) is you are to involved with self preservation that you miss out on the grand things in life.
Jynja is correct on what the Le/Virgo relationship can do for each other.
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Jul 15, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 258 · Topics: 18
most of my friends agree that if she doesnt know I like her by now she's an idiot. Whenever we take photos together I make a big deal about them on Facebook. I try to be subtle in my statuses but everyone figures it out. So like I said she probably has some idea.
Sadly my Virgo brain over thinks everything, I cannot just be spontaneous, I dont know how.
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I can't stand aloofness. Sorry, you want to make me question myself and walk away, be aloof with me and I will not give you a second look. I personally don't have time to play guessing games and they get on my freaking nerves. We are adults so lets get over the games and be straight with one another, then the fun can be begin.
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I did however ask her to come with me to a friend's engagement party last week. We went as friends and had a good time. She wanted me to send her all the photos we took. What bothers me is I texted her the next day how beautiful she looked and she didn't respond back. Any thoughts on that?
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This girl is perfect and for a Virgo that's saying ALOT
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I think you're right. I've sent her texts like "I miss you" and she won't respond. But if I text her "what are you up to" she'll respond back.
I should have mentioned she models, so she's used to complements.
Please do not put us Leo's in your view as perfect. Because we are impulsive and run on emotions and are quick at the mouth. We can admit to being wrong when we are at fault. We will let you down. I am with a virgo who is OCD and beyond a perfectionist. I had thought I was too. We have a tendency to be lazy with what needs to be done to be spontaneous which you are not. Please do not put us in the perfect category.
I did not put her in that category. I said she is a perfectionist. she is rarely laxy. lazy for her is cuddling when she knows she can be doing something else. yes my virgo is a she. we are lesbians. nobody is perfect. but shes perfect for me.