Flirtatious Virgo

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lookingforlove
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17 Years

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I just had a talk with my Virgo interest and I told him that we can only be friends without any physical contact due to his unresolved breakup with his gf. Maybe a better term for this is "seperated" because they are not completely broken up yet. My confusion is, why is he still flirting with me after we had just discussed just being friends? I reciprocated the flirting back because obviously, I am interested in him and I have confessed these feelings to him - and I'm not a very flirtatious woman. I also told him that I am seeing someone (which is partially true - we just went out to the bars/a few dinners, not sure what the correct term for that) and he asked, "how is he like?" I briefly described "how he's like" and he sounded uninterested after my description of him. He proceeded the conversation with more flirting. The next day, he saw me online again late at night and initiated a conversation and same thing happened, more flirting. I've known tHis guy for a year and he is reserved, respectful, seems genuinely nice, and he usually speaks very proper. So I don't know what is going on because all of a sudden he is showing me the freaky side of him. My friend said he sounds like he just wants one thing, my other friend said, he is in between me n his xgf, but I want to get more opinions. Also, some of our mutual friends said his relationship with his xgf has always been rocky. Opinions please on what I should do and what he possibly wants/thinking or an outcome to this situation.
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FYI: He showed interest to me first, but he got back together w/ his gf last year. When I first met him, I thought he was boring, uninteresting, not attractive, but my feelings for him developed overtime after hanging out a few times. I don't know what he said or did, but I suddenly fell for him. I think it's when he came running back to my car when my alarm started going off and wanted to help me and made sure I was ok. :/
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Yeah ... you are gonna need some good luck !!! ... And I am the last person that should give anyone advice about a Virgo ... but my humble opinion is ... he is gonna pull you in with his charm and his subtle flirting ... BTW ... some virgos flirt with every female regardless of looks and age within reason ... then when the girl falls for them they say ... that's what I get for being a nice guy ... when in fact they send out mixed messages ... or worse yet ... they send out the message ... I really like you ... come to me ... yadda blah blah ... then act shocked when you are smitten ... just ask him straight up questions and hope he is truthful with you ... of course if you are smitten ... you probably will not hear what you need to hear !!! most Virgos are truthful ... you just have to ask the right questions !!!

And to protect yourself you would be better off waiting until you see what he is going to do with this old GF !!!

So "stay away until she is out of the pic" and that is resolved is really good advice oddball73 !