for QBONE

honestly ive lots of respect for your posts in response to my dilemmas but i totally Dont Get the last one. what xactly do u think is hopeless??....n wat were u talking about wen u sed it.. something.. was difficult to say things.. or sumthing like that, i hope im not rambling, just a bit confused. But on another note i was looking for nsight with my little situation...if its not too much of a bother...

As I said,,.. you are hopeless.. and you are dreamer... not to take it personally...please... there are things that you should know bout love life..

Nothing .. personal...

"...there are things you shood know bout love life.."

sadly, i do agree Q thats the only credible explanation for how i managed to twist myself n2 the latest situation...if only id have known these 'things' but n my defense i must say, living n learning, and bluntly so... but specifically wat 'things'..??.. he was actually the first emotional attachment for me n the whole relationship thing, i used to play around lots, wood that have nething to do with my being on another page this long? imean i didnt think so but apparently me thinking is i duno i guess kkind of whimsical maybe..

Then welcome to the Q's school of loving, in this school you will learn misery.. and how to perfectly suffer the wounds of love and surprisingly surviving it?

You don?t need to move away from your V-man?what you need to know is to how to turn and configure the situations in to your benefit, sometimes a little bit of an effort could and will turn the hopeless situations in to something meaningful and beneficial.

Question is? how much are you willing to offer? ask yourself first then move ahead.. simple as that. You know the saying? easy come.. easy go..?? in this matters?.nothing is easy.

The major problem with American.. and their love affair is?(If I cant get it the way I want it.. then? next one) kind of mentalities? think like a hunter and their patience?and don?t drop the prey for its shadow.

Love and loving is something that must come from the heart if it is not there?then it is not there? you can not create it or pretending to, you'll need to know (in honest way) that you really love this guy..?? or it is just an infatuation, status something..? or simply your loneliness cause this that you wish to be with someone? think carefully ?.then you'll know the answer..


Good luck to you.... and if you succeed?. Send me a kiss..
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