Friendship of 7 years with Aquarius is coming to an end, what do you think it’s the reason

Posted by PinsNNeedles

"It's not me, it's you"

Posted by justagirl

this the aqua you had feelings for?

Posted by ladylibra21

Aww why?

Posted by coldwateryvirgo

Posted by ladylibra21

Aww why?

Pretty much I realize I’ve been there with her for everything but she never been there for me . She makes effort to maintain relationships with men and even effort to spend time with strangers.

But when it’s me she makes a bunch of excuses .

A year ago I told her she hasn’t been around . If we completely cut all contact today , it really wouldn’t change anything much since we rarely talked to each other . I see her once a month , mind you same city same university . She didn’t say anything or felt like damn , maybe my friend needs me when I said that . The comment was pretty much ignored.

But somehow when we go out she has a million stories of her having tried this restaurant with so and so . But when I ask her she’ll be like, nope I don’t feel like eating . Etc . With other people she makes effort but it seems like with me she takes me for granted

So once I stopped the one sided effort , the friendship died.

And she still say I’m her friend , so close that I’m family.

I would always make excuse that She’s just busy or hate texting , or has hw or being an aqua etc

But actually, she does stuff with her bf n his friends , her work friends etc .

Now that I step away and looking at her , I’m not sure if I know her anymore .

Me , personally though , I no longer find value in a friend that’s never there . Even if I values the people I let in and been friends with me for years , and once told each other everything and have great memories, sometime all those years aren’t worth saving and easier to just move on and find new friends who are on the same level of what you expect in a friendship .

And seriously when a Virgo move on , we move on .

Maybe she’ll miss me one day , maybe she’s indifferent .

Either way I gave her a year to ask if I was okay . Or say sorry I haven’t been around . But nothing always thought aqua and Virgo could be friends forever , guess not

Done with my rant lol 😂 thank guys

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Posted by Onimusha01

Yeahh... here goes my story with My friend Virgo.... And dont take it in a bad way...

My Virgo friend is annoying, he is just like you, he wants to be with me like gum on my shoe, we aquas, we are your friend but when we feel someone is suffocating us, or someone is too intense, or too negative, or too much of whatever... we can love you dearly but we will not want you around all the time.

My friend he acts better than a boyfriend, and he will be there for anything even when I dont need him, or want to... He feels bc he is there for me all the time, I should be with him better than the rest of my friends, bc as he does so many things for me just for the sake, he assume he is my only best friend. and The rest of my friends dont care about me. So, Now I keep him on the edge.... I dont see him as much, I dont answer his msgs for days, I make plans with my other friends, and I make excuses not to see him sometimes even tho I will just be home doing nothing.

Other thing is, if we consider you our friend, no matter if we dont see each other regularly, I will be there for my friends if they need me. Of course, for my real friends. Not the ones who just reach out to me when they need me.

Posted by STILL

I'm guessing you've grown apart.

Otherwise think back. Have you behaved in a jealous way, passive aggressively, vindictively, or broke the the girl code?

Constantly for the first two. For the last two, it only takes one time.

Posted by Sleepyquantro

Aqua here 🙋🏽

Just created this acct and my very 1st post..I just could not resist!

I have a virgo best friend and what u describe has always been the other way around for us.

I’ve been the complainer for yrs, not feeling appreciated, neglected, and stuff like u describe. Virgo’s are usually concerned with relationships, and aqua with friendships. I walked away from the friendship a few times but she almost always came back. The longest period was just under a yr, I walked away with not a word bc in the past I’ve always had these talks about her treating like a friend that matters, so I just stopped all contact one day. I got a call a 11 months later with her crying on my vm, because I didn’t pick up, and she was in the hospital. That’s how we became friends again.

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Posted by coldwateryvirgo

Posted by ladylibra21

Aww why?

Pretty much I realize I’ve been there with her for everything but she never been there for me . She makes effort to maintain relationships with men and even effort to spend time with strangers.

But when it’s me she makes a bunch of excuses .

A year ago I told her she hasn’t been around . If we completely cut all contact today , it really wouldn’t change anything much since we rarely talked to each other . I see her once a month , mind you same city same university . She didn’t say anything or felt like damn , maybe my friend needs me when I said that . The comment was pretty much ignored.

But somehow when we go out she has a million stories of her having tried this restaurant with so and so . But when I ask her she’ll be like, nope I don’t feel like eating . Etc . With other people she makes effort but it seems like with me she takes me for granted

So once I stopped the one sided effort , the friendship died.

And she still say I’m her friend , so close that I’m family.

I would always make excuse that She’s just busy or hate texting , or has hw or being an aqua etc

But actually, she does stuff with her bf n his friends , her work friends etc .

Now that I step away and looking at her , I’m not sure if I know her anymore .

Me , personally though , I no longer find value in a friend that’s never there . Even if I values the people I let in and been friends with me for years , and once told each other everything and have great memories, sometime all those years aren’t worth saving and easier to just move on and find new friends who are on the same level of what you expect in a friendship .

And seriously when a Virgo move on , we move on .

Maybe she’ll miss me one day , maybe she’s indifferent .

Either way I gave her a year to ask if I was okay . Or say sorry I haven’t been around . But nothing always thought aqua and Virgo could be friends forever , guess not

Done with my rant lol 😂 thank guys

I'm a Virgo moon and I had this same issue with an Aquarius moon friend of 20 years that I recently ended a friendship with. Good riddance. 👏

Edit: I just realized you're an aqua moon not a poke at you lol. Just funny how these two energies don't mix well. My aqua venus is also not fond of virgo venus long term.

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Posted by coldwateryvirgo

Posted by Onimusha01

Yeahh... here goes my story with My friend Virgo.... And dont take it in a bad way...

My Virgo friend is annoying, he is just like you, he wants to be with me like gum on my shoe, we aquas, we are your friend but when we feel someone is suffocating us, or someone is too intense, or too negative, or too much of whatever... we can love you dearly but we will not want you around all the time.

My friend he acts better than a boyfriend, and he will be there for anything even when I dont need him, or want to... He feels bc he is there for me all the time, I should be with him better than the rest of my friends, bc as he does so many things for me just for the sake, he assume he is my only best friend. and The rest of my friends dont care about me. So, Now I keep him on the edge.... I dont see him as much, I dont answer his msgs for days, I make plans with my other friends, and I make excuses not to see him sometimes even tho I will just be home doing nothing.

Other thing is, if we consider you our friend, no matter if we dont see each other regularly, I will be there for my friends if they need me. Of course, for my real friends. Not the ones who just reach out to me when they need me.

Hey there , love the other perspective . For me i think in ny case is different friendship needs . For example, if I need a friend who is around more . I would go and find a friend that would be around more . The only reason I stayed around with this friend is that we were on the same page and great friend for the first 5 years or so . So I stayed and try to make it work since bond already formed .

If I was making new friend n knew that friend has a high affinity for person space from the beginning , I wouldn’t have allowed myself to get close to where I would hope I could count on them when I needed them .

On a side note , Virgo don’t cling to people , they tend to be quite independent. If your friend is of the opposite sex, I would suspect that he secretly likes you

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