Frozen
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by cappysweetie on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 and has 5 replies.
Okay, I made some observations for the past two weeks . I only lightly participated in the discussions because I wanted to focus more on what every one else. I have a series of questions, based on my observations ? yes they are vague but there is a point to my madness .......
Being so consumed with hate and regret , is it possible to become excessively cold towards your own emotions along with others? If a person?s emotions are FROZEN, can their heart ever be open again? Can life ever truly be what you want it to be .....if their heart?s NOT open? Some may consider people who are FROZEN as strong, but are they really just broken?
What could melt the ice built around a jaded heart? Could a person cause the meltdown ? Or will he or she only aid in the process? Could this person hold the key?
Being so consumed with hate and regret , is it possible to become excessively cold towards your own emotions along with others? If a person?s emotions are FROZEN, can their heart ever be open again? Can life ever truly be what you want it to be .....if their heart?s NOT open? Some may consider people who are FROZEN as strong, but are they really just broken?
What could melt the ice built around a jaded heart? Could a person cause the meltdown ? Or will he or she only aid in the process? Could this person hold the key?
In addition ...
So once a person is frozen, will there always be permanant scarring around his/her heart? Well, I have another question for you ... could those scars be reminders but also hold special meaning -- such as you can be reminded of the love you lost but also of the love you've gained? As a result, if that person melts the ice around your heart ... the emotions could be stronger? However, this can only occur if you allow your heart to flourish after the meltdown?
So once a person is frozen, will there always be permanant scarring around his/her heart? Well, I have another question for you ... could those scars be reminders but also hold special meaning -- such as you can be reminded of the love you lost but also of the love you've gained? As a result, if that person melts the ice around your heart ... the emotions could be stronger? However, this can only occur if you allow your heart to flourish after the meltdown?
I had decided that it was a necessary part of growing up, but if you find a different answer, let me know because I've had to deal with this personally. It is an odd state to be in.
I had a good friend wrong me. Later, they apologized for it, but I couldn't believe she was sincere. Ever since, anything anyone says to me gets filtered through some sort of weird mental evaluation. Instead of mentally being present where my body is, I am sort of off to the side taking things in and looking for the hidden motivations behind what people say and/or do and I'm willing to "think the worst" of people.
I feel sort of cold and calculating, but I'm not sure that it is a bad thing. Really, I'm just more aware of things I used take in unconsciously.
I had a good friend wrong me. Later, they apologized for it, but I couldn't believe she was sincere. Ever since, anything anyone says to me gets filtered through some sort of weird mental evaluation. Instead of mentally being present where my body is, I am sort of off to the side taking things in and looking for the hidden motivations behind what people say and/or do and I'm willing to "think the worst" of people.
I feel sort of cold and calculating, but I'm not sure that it is a bad thing. Really, I'm just more aware of things I used take in unconsciously.
"Ever since, anything anyone says to me gets filtered through some sort of weird mental evaluation. Instead of mentally being present where my body is, I am sort of off to the side taking things in and looking for the hidden motivations behind what people say and/or do and I'm willing to "think the worst" of people."
Hey NOD,
You resemble some of the qualities that I was thinking of when creating my questions. I could just use the data, so I had to do some personal input. I haven't done my conclusion (I'm not were near it, I still getting results from this experiment ... never did an experiment online before ... it's interesting ... I'm use to the lab but this works very well)
On the Cap Board, DB (Dancing Bread) has proven 3/4 of my hypothesis -- it shocked me because I didn't think anyone would because these are some difficult questions. So go to the MY board and see what I mean
Hey NOD,
You resemble some of the qualities that I was thinking of when creating my questions. I could just use the data, so I had to do some personal input. I haven't done my conclusion (I'm not were near it, I still getting results from this experiment ... never did an experiment online before ... it's interesting ... I'm use to the lab but this works very well)
On the Cap Board, DB (Dancing Bread) has proven 3/4 of my hypothesis -- it shocked me because I didn't think anyone would because these are some difficult questions. So go to the MY board and see what I mean
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