Has any Virgo Male here been in love with a Cancer

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Hi CB, Qbone
CB I am not looking for any substance in a man much younger than me..virgo or no virgo. If I am more excited about him, it is bcos I get along with virgos very well. I will definitely keep on posting all of you regarding my experience with him at a deeper level.
Qbone Hi. Your comment about Alana sounds rather sarcastic!!!! 😛
Alana tell me how many virgo men you have had intimate encounters with? It would be very interesting to know. I do second Qbone's comment that you are a hell of a lady. Now this comes from the bottom of a cancerian heart. 🙂
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Hi Loony and thank you for your so nice comments about me - what can I say...you and Q-bone say I am one hell of a lady!!!!others have called me the lady from hell:-)!!!:-) And I know you have a great cancerian heart.....that comes thru in all your writings.....you're one spunky lady - you've set your sights on someone and come hell or high water you intend to snare him:-) - Good for you....

That Q-bone is second to nobody!!! and massively attractive:-) and that's for sure..........I choose to call him a "redeemed" virgo:-)

To answer your question Looney, I have only had "intimate encounters"! with ONE Virgo. And believe me hon, when you've had it with a V, it's hard to go back to anyone else - no-one compares - anyone else I have been with up till now - well, twice per nite was the average. With Mr. V. - an average is - say if I was staying over the nite with him - twice while we watch a movie on t.v. - retire to bed and twice more before sleep and on waking in the morning twice again.....in the beginning I would go home shattered, fazed, jaded from all the jiggy-jiggy.....now I'm used to it and expect it from everyone but alas!!!! His nice long pony-tail gives good leverage also!!!! (and I'm talking ponytail on his head here...not what you think Missy!!!!:-) And one of the bestest things about Mr. V. in the bed was that unlike others after passion is satisfied...he never rolled over to go asleep....he always took me in his arms the whole night - to wake up in those arms was heavenly.....sometimes I would just lie there for ages in the morning before he awoke just looking at the face - it was truly beautiful and mesmerizing.........

But there's a dark side to the Virgos as Cancerbuddy and I also discovered......of course everyone has a dark side......but the virgos is just so unfathomable....but let's not go there.....for now we are going to enjoy your heady, bubbly, seducement of your Mister Virgo - so let the pages unfold:-)

Gotta leave now for the weekend - as V-squared said....keep your distance for now but at the same time, keep the door a tiny bit ajar.....

Bye to all the Duncan gang for now.

A x
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loonybird
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Hi CB
& Thanx Alana, your post on virgo has increased my determination to seduce my beloved Mr. Virgo.

CB from your posts which i ve read and on cancer message board reveals how truly cancerian you are. So tell me, being a gay how do you fulfill your strong nurturing instincts. I know many cancerians who may go around life wondering why they don't feel fulfilled inspite of having great love and lots of money and good status. Later they realise that it is being a parent that they are missing out on. They did try to compensate by adopting pets and being the indulgent aunt/uncle or neighbor. Then they give in and either adopt or have their own biological chidren.And after becoming a parent the glow on their face is something ot behold.
My friends too say that with each child my vivaciousness has increased.
Will you throw some light on whether gays have parenting instincts? how they try to fulfill that part? Hope I am not being offensive. Incase I am being...accept my apologies.
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Hello everyone.

Alana, I read some of your post about your Virgo friend. I'm curious. Do you feel he ever really opened up to you? If so, about how long did it take? I guess I'm asking was there a specific point where you noticed an openness that wasn't there before? Like a breakthrough conversation or an action that pulled down the barriers. If so, and if it's not too private, you mind sharing what it was?

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Dont worry q-bone or loonyb - I knew what you meant all along my pals:-)

To answer your question Virgosquared - when did I see the real virgo heart—...I think the defining moment arrived when last Christmas Mr. V. went home to his country for 3 weeks and didn't phone once!! I planned my revenge to the last (typical aqurian that I am:-)....day he came back, I pretended all was so fine...we had party etc., stayed overnight and then the following morning dropped my bombshell that I was leaving him. I didn't act the drama-queen like I ususally do or demand any explanations etc. from him...just called him to the bedroom, sat him down, explained why I was leaving, gave him a hug and pointed out his good points and highlighted mine:-) and then left!!! It was all quite dignified looking back. It must have effected him badly enough because when my friend (who was going with his cousin at the time) called later that day to his house, he talked and talked for hours how he couldn not believe I had left him (nobody had ever left Mr. V. in his life - it was always him that left!!! That nite he phoned and said he had made the mistake of his life (in not phoning - another copernican moment!! he never admits to making mistakes..always everyone else's fault!), what did he want me to do to get back together??....only then did he admit to how deeply he felt about and loved me.......he rang and rang for about a week after that....I said I needed time (and boy did I milk my time!!).....eventually we got back together but it was all on my terms:-) and from that day on...things were at another level so to speak...he knew I could live and be without him....as I am sure he can do with me (I am not that naiive).....when he returned home in June to his sister's wedding for 10 days....did that man phone me every day and more!!!....you bet he did!!!! I was all-phoned out:-)

The barriers still go up now and then on his part and usually I manufacture an argument to get an emotional reaction from him and it always works for me😉 I know I sound like a scheming btich....I'm not really.....it's just I like to be one step ahead of Mr. V. all the time...

A x