He wants to try again

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Antero on Sunday, January 29, 2017 and has 5 replies.
After 4 months we get to know each other, he said he is not ready in relationship. He contact me again after 3 weeks and I met him 3 tines now and last night he was another person. He told me everything about his family and why he broke upp with the before relationship that I never heard before. He wants to try again and he knows that we both like each other. He doesn't have kids and he is 54 and I have 2 kids. He told me he wants to meet my kids and he said he feel safe to be a father for my kids,as they lost their father . & he need my support as the before relationship he has, her ex children keep a distance with him and he doesn't feel comfortable with that and feels that they don't like him. My kids is 14 and 12 years. Does he really mean it want to try again?.. I told him we need a better communication. What ever how he feel, be open and talk. He told me I was smart compare to other women that he met. I have a brain, and it's not only that, I'm beautiful and sexy and we both have the same view about sexual relation. I'm gemini by the way. I told him to think about it seriously as I don't want to waste my time as I know what I want. I had a very strong chemistry with him that's why I wanna try again but a bit worried if he said again he is not ready. Do virgo comeback forever or just for short time as he feel lonely? Thank you for any answer from all virgo in this forum.
In my opinion I think you should take it slow with this relationship and get to know him longer before introducing him to your kids.

My only experience with a Virgo was a constant push and pull. He will be in contact full on for a couple of weeks then there would be weeks in between when he doesn't make contact. If you can live with this then continue. If not then find someone else. I just find the one I was with hard work and don't like being the one to put more effort in The relationship.

Has he been married? If not at the age of 54 I would be worried. He comes across as a commitment phobic or unable to settle down with one person for the rest of his life.

Ps..If he said he's not ready then take him at face value. He may never be ready to give you what you want.

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Posted by Antero

I told him to think about it seriously as I don't want to waste my time as I know what I want. I had a very strong chemistry with him that's why I wanna try again but a bit worried if he said again he is not ready.



Posted by Antero

He is ........

push and pull whenever he wants..

doesnt make effort in a relationship

i'm the one who make the effort.

As soon he has lots of work he dissapear ..... even text me if i text him but it's cold text.

when he doesn't have lots of thing to do, he is busy to find me.

Seems like I'm the women when he feel lonely.

he will never be ready to give what I want

Difficult to deal with this person.



lol


It doesn't take a brain surgeon to realize that the only reason you are making these foolish comments about wanting a man to whom you describe so horribly is because .....



Posted by Antero

He told me I was smart ..... I have a brain ..... I'm beautiful and sexy


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Thanks for ur advice @Seraphlight.
I can't trust someone who needs to disappear for 3 weeks and later realize they want me. It makes me wonder who they disappeared for 3 weeks to see.