Hello All!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ladybuglm2 on Saturday, April 13, 2013 and has 7 replies.
So I am new to this site! I have been reading up a little on Virgos, but I haven't been able to figure out what to do next with my Virguy. We met a few years ago and started "talking" to each other about 4 mos. ago. So he was practicall chasing after me before, now it is hard to get him to pin down a time to hang out. It is always "Just call me." To me, that seems flakey....like possible waiting for something better to come along. I know he gets busy, but I told him how I felt and he told me he wasn't trying to make me feel like that and that he didn't like to make plans because he didn't want to have to chance breaking them. I can respect the thought behind that, but to me screams FLAKE!!! So haven't seen him in about a week (just fine by me), but I let him know in the beginning that I didn't want to just be having sex with someone, like I wanted something more substansial with it. So things are moving slow (fine with), but I wanted to know where I stood so I asked him the other day what he wanted with me. He said he didn't know and the conversation ended. So, I havn't called him and I haven't heard from him. Do I say something to him? or do i let him think it over more---let hime get ahold of me? i don't want to lose him, but i know that i would eventually like something more serious.
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^^^ exactly.
Let him lead. If you lead, then he won't have to. If you chase him, then he doesn't have to chase you. If you do the man's job, he won't have to....
Do no more initiating contact for a while. Im sure you really want to check on him, but you must take a step back to see if he'll take a step forward. Good luck smile
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Ok. Thank you both. Now it looks like on here people have said stuff about ignoring there calls if they actually call???
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Hopefully you will have more patience than I did. Good luck to you and your Virgo! smile
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LOL. At least your's call you ;-. Mine must be frugal LOL. Unless it's from the work phone *wink*
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Did you have sex with him or not? I just re-read what you wrote and want to confirm.
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Posted by LetltB
Did you have sex with him or not? I just re-read what you wrote and want to confirm.


Yes. Twice. We have hung out a few times since then. We both are busy too. I work two jobs and go to school and he works, plus is the person that his family runs to for everything and looking for a new job. Not trying to make excuses, just trying to share how our situation Id. Oh yeah, plus we live about 40 min away from each other.
I feel like I have been having to do chasing more and once I asked him that question I haven't heard from him.
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