O.K. SO IM REALLY TRIPPING. ONE IM TRIPPING CAUSE Im really attracted to this virgo guy for a while now. And we have been friends. But we both do little silly head games with each other I believe. And I need help trying to make a move, but scared of the rejection and scared of running him further away. We worked together, and at first I really paid him no attention, till he invited me to a party and was all over me. Then I looked at him a bit differently, but before the night was over he said he's sorry cause can't mix bus and pleasure. But he call me and I call him on a friendship basis, and he lets me know about his work, and I let him Know about mine. Then another incident where he tried to kiss me, but had another chick with him so I pushed him away. But always ask me to come and have a drink with him and I do. Our birthdays are very close together. So this birthday I get a picture in the email of him, not your normal picture. Well I didnt recognize the picture till 3 months later, then replied to it, Nice. But kept it friendly. Well I have some work in the city he is working in , and so I asked to see him, he said yeah, but now Im speechless of what to say to him. I don't have a place to stay, but wanna ask him can I stay with him for a day. But so scared of the rejection and feeling stupid when he tells me no. But tripping cause of the effect this guy has on me. Help!!!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"Well I didnt recognize the picture till 3 months later, then replied"
"But tripping cause of the effect this guy has on me."
Wow .. he must have really blown your socks off !!!
"so scared of the rejection and feeling stupid when he tells me no."
You mean this kind of rejection ......
"he tried to kiss me, but had another chick with him so I pushed him away."
People tried to tell you earlier in the month that this guy is just a friend .... but, you didn't hear anything other than what was in your own head. So, I guess what you should do is what you want.
i know he is just a FRIEND!!!, and in my last message i didnt ask if he love me or not. I didnt ask how to make him mine or anything. I asked how to talk to this guy and what is on the guys mind. Advice how to hook up with him and kick it. He calls and some times does not say anything, so i do the same to him. Show up at my job, then when I get a break leave. Or should I ask how to deal with a virgo man. How do virgo men friends think?
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
VLC,
If you asked me if you could stay at my place when I consider us just friends, it would freak me out; however, I might say YES just to be nice.
If you want to stay with him, ask him, and see how he responds.
I dated a VirGirl way back in high school. We taunted each other a lot before we started dating - and then we got real serious, real fast...