Here I Go....

Ok, so...

About 2 months ago I started dating a Gem. All was good and then we had sex. Since that day he has ignored me. So, its over with him.

Now, I have met a Virgo guy online. (What say you, that Mercury is TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING—)

He tells me I am perfect for him. I'm honest with him and tell him that I am possesive, to not expect too much (since we haven't met in person yet), to not get his hopes up...

He continues with a passion that I loooovvveee!! He keeps telling me that he knows I am perfect for him...He has the biggest crush on me... that I am his princess... That he would do anything to be with me... blah blah blah. I just love how I have gotten this Virgo to 'worship' me in a sense.. It is very refreshing!! He seems to think that everything about me is what he wants. Very tantalising.

The only problem? His pics are horrifying! I just can't see myself being attracted to him.. I told him that we may not click when we meet, and that I would not lead him on if that was the case, that seemed to turn him on more, lol.

I guess I am psuedo falling for someone I haven't even met yet, and I need your prayers that he is at least attractive in my eyes, lol. He acts like what I want, but then he is so unattractive in his pics... Ugh.. I hate not having physical chemistry with someone that is so mentally compatible with me.

Vent Over.

Wish me luck.

I am a Virgo and when Scorpio men have something else on their mind, they disappear however, they usually come back. I wouldn't tell him you don't find him physically attractive. I would just discontinue contact and he will figure it out.

I haven't seen very many unattractive Virgos. However, not everyone is going to be attractive to everyone. If you like his personality, you may want to continue with a friendship.

For a Virguy to be considered unappealing physically is a death knell. Maybe he just doesnt photograph well? But if he's that butt ugly, and you find him a turn-off, be upfront with him by lying, tell him you recently began menopause and are having a yeast problem. He'll be gone in a flash....

I have seen ugly virgos. Its okay. I like to think there are no ugly aquas as well.
Oprah is pretty too.

I am just going by what I have seen. Most of us are at least average... I notice many have a quiet look. We tend to be the calm, neutral looking ones.

"be upfront with him by lying"



::: raises eyebrows :::

I knew P-Angel would catch my sarcasm!

ScorpChick is digging the Virgos devotion. What sign wouldn't?

But unfortunately for him he doesnt meet her need for physical chemistry. In fact, he's been labeld as 'horrifying'. Game over from what I know of scorpio.

No reason for delusional hope. If the guy has a face for radio, let him down nice and easy. No harm done.

Just be careful when and if you reject him. he'll either do two things, from what i'm assuming (so dont take my word lol)

A. be a little sad and poof (the latter of the two)

B. guilt-trip the fuck out of you for making that you're reason for rejecting him.

i know like 5 virgo guys that would do choice B in a flash. but hey i don't know him, you do, sorta.


also, isn't it the virgo sign that has that "attractive even if not" quality?

"physical chemistry"



To have, or not have, physical chemistry ... is something that can only be determined in physical presence, since chemistry is a "feeling" of presence, not a "thought" of judged presence by viewing physicality.


In agreement with you, tollbooth .... already defeated, to meet with him is pointless, except for the ego, which loves to be adored on the superficial level.

Scorpio chick .. do the right thing for him and cancel.