Here we go again !

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by OHNOXoxo on Saturday, September 9, 2017 and has 16 replies.
Afterall the heartache and longings for this Virgo guy who had dismissed me or i dare say he did because that's how i felt when he took a sudden interest in ny hot friend ! So he was gone for a week and then called me again yesterday asking how's life and where i have been all these day's .. a little light chit chat over the phone and i got a message in morning asking my plan's for the day! So i told him there are none. He said he's at ny service today ( This sudden charming behaviour gets me every time) and would like to take me out to see few places around town! He was an hour late but still showed up and we spend 4 hour's driving chitchatting laughing and checking out couple of museum's!!

I wonder what's happening???!! The last i heard he was goinh ga ga over my friend he met and was gone for a week or more and this sudden care and loving gesture is driving me mad with the same hope i had ten day's back!

Is it a sign that he still likes me or just being friendly?!
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@ Drogan !!

I had read your post but was too caught up the entire day so couldn't reply earlier ! About the incident you shared .. The girl the sister and the Virgo man. I really dont understand how can thet flirt with others so openly if you are beginning to develop feelings for the person who are also being extra nice and creating confusions! Yes its true nothing has been said or declared upfront and its still under debate if he actually likes me or is just being sweet! If its the latter part then the extra xheesyness and the overly scrutinizing questions about my whereabouts shouldnt be there ! But at time's he acts all crazy if i decide to have some fun without him. And at time's he himself is lost for few day's straight! Coming back to hitting on my hot friend .. he was in touch and still is but not as much since my friend herself is not that interested in him or is also weighing her other options ( is what i heard from few birds )

So is he back again because she doesn't seem too interested in him or he genuinely Likes me so is making time to take me out for day trips and acting jealous to see me having fun without him ?!!

Last but not the least question to All Virgos Out There !!

I'm sure you guy's take your sweet time and diesnt confess feelings until you are absolutely sure of them ! But do you also knowingly just create false curiosity and false feelings in someone by being in touch constantly and nosing around in the persons personal space showing you care .. while you still also keep the line of option or your eye's on every girl who you deem hot ?! Or it's just your nature to be overly friendly Overly cute Overly nosy about everyone around!

Thank you.

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side


Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
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Posted by drunkghost
who knows, just straight up tell him 'i thought you were interested in my friend so you hmu caught me off guard'
I had casually asked him !

" So whats up with Diana ?! " and he had replied " Oh she's cool . We talk. It's good !"

I said okay ! And he changed the topic.
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who knows, just straight up tell him 'i thought you were interested in my friend so you hmu caught me off guard'
I had casually asked him !

" So whats up with Diana ?! " and he had replied " Oh she's cool . We talk. It's good !"

I said okay ! And he changed the topic.
sounds like a yikes but then also like a not interested in her like that since i feel like he'd try to dig deeper into it if he was

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What about may be he wants to keep the details to himself only

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side
Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
Have you gone out with the guy?
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We have had couple of dates but no talks about love or dating or touching eachother! It was all subtle and careful from both side's
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Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side
Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
Have you gone out with the guy?


We have had couple of dates but no talks about love or dating or touching eachother! It was all subtle and careful from both side's
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What i mean is.. we both are not totally open with eachother about feelings im guessing its the same with him because thats exactly what it is eith me!

But you / one get this feeling that the liking is there in the air. But all too cautious.

I have been told here on occasions that i should ask him straight .. but i don't want to jump in until im absolutely sure he likes me.. hence these posts and these questions
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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side
Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
Have you gone out with the guy?


We have had couple of dates but no talks about love or dating or touching eachother! It was all subtle and careful from both side's
....but hes doing this with your friend also, right? hes getting his cake and eating it too.

tell him if he gonna go out with her also, then he will have to write you off his list.

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side
Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
Have you gone out with the guy?


We have had couple of dates but no talks about love or dating or touching eachother! It was all subtle and careful from both side's
....but hes doing this with your friend also, right? hes getting his cake and eating it too.

tell him if he gonna go out with her also, then he will have to write you off his list.

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May be its time. Its been going on since 30 40 day's..

But then again people also say Virgos take long to confess their true feelings if its about love!

This is the only thing making me think twice whever the stop the contact tgought crosses my mind . Im feeling so hopeless right now.

Should i wait to see if he actually got hots for me or should i give up and turn my back on him !?!!

I like him ?
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I know there's no easy way out unless i straight up ask him !

But im here because I dont want to ask him straight. And am trying to ask you guy's about his behaviour . I know everyone is different but these zodiac signs they still matter! Even if its only a bit.. for me itll still be a great insight on what kind of Virgo he is.

His Sun Virgo and Moon Leo

Im Sun Taurus and Moon Aries.

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Personally, I'm lost with this guy. If we were talking about me then the fact that I'd flirted with your friend, right in front of you, is the clearest sign possible that I think of you as one of the guys.

But the fact that he called you up and wanted to hang out seems to imply otherwise.

But the fact that he was an hour late seems to imply that he thinks very little of you. Which makes no sense at all, since he initiated.


I have been told here on occasions that i should ask him straight .. but i don't want to jump in until im absolutely sure he likes me..

Why not? I get that you're shy, but seriously, why is the man always the one expected to take the risk of looking stupid?

If he says he's not interested then you won't lose anything. You'll be embarrassed for a few minutes, but that's better than fawning over a dude that's not interested for months on end. Believe me... been there, done that!

If you just absolutely can't do that, my next advice would be to step up your flirting game. Call him pet names like "sexy" and "gorgeous", see if he reciprocates. Give him some bedroom eyes. Just do something!
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Posted by greylatern
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
tell him to pick a side
Its not easy to ask that question straight until i know if he was really interested in me emotionally!

I would only look like a fool.
Have you gone out with the guy?


We have had couple of dates but no talks about love or dating or touching eachother! It was all subtle and careful from both side's
Careful how? What is his relationship history? Virgo's are mental people and base our logic from life experience and incorporate it into our world view. This case always been the case with every single Virgo I have met.

Personally I'm a libra venus I get along with everyone and will mirror and respond to people. I love to firlt especailly verbally without being crud BUT if I really like you I'll keep my distance from you to find out what you mean to me and how strong the connection is because I value you. Guys who prefer female friends have it really rough.

He could also be a closet man slut. try asking your friend what they talked about. He should knew better then to sleep or try to with your friend if he is interested in you unless he is young or immature. Who his friends are and past relationships will clue you in on him a whole lot. Don't nit pick either look at it has a puzzle book. =)

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I honestly dont know muchabout his previous dating history. But i have heard he was in couple of relationships but nobody knows what happened. This guy is funny but also very mature ( may be because og life experiences and stuff as you said ) one moment he's cracking up the next he's into some deep thought but always aware of his surroundings. Not a day dreamer i mean.

Yes , he's sweet to everyone he meets! Flirting i havent witnessed apart from my hot friend incident. And i may be exaggerating .. i mean he was totally cute funny and trying to make her laugh complimenting on her choice of food and the travel experiences she was sharing and blah blah .. but i felt he was flirtingwith her. I could sense it.

""""Personally I'm a libra venus I get along with everyone and will mirror and respond to people. I love to firlt especailly verbally without being crud BUT if I really like you I'll keep my distance from you to find out what you mean to me and how strong the connection is because I value you. Guys who prefer female friends have it really rough. """"""

He keeps a distance from me too . I mean when we sitting or walking talking!

With my friend it was exactly how it was with me . Morning afternoon night f

Greetings with how's your day going enquires and stuff. But i don't know what happened after that but one thingi know is thet didn't sleep together because she's still on and off with her ex boyfriend. And i think by now even he knows it.

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Posted by csdude55
Personally, I'm lost with this guy. If we were talking about me then the fact that I'd flirted with your friend, right in front of you, is the clearest sign possible that I think of you as one of the guys.

But the fact that he called you up and wanted to hang out seems to imply otherwise.

But the fact that he was an hour late seems to imply that he thinks very little of you. Which makes no sense at all, since he initiated.


I have been told here on occasions that i should ask him straight .. but i don't want to jump in until im absolutely sure he likes me..

Why not? I get that you're shy, but seriously, why is the man always the one expected to take the risk of looking stupid?

If he says he's not interested then you won't lose anything. You'll be embarrassed for a few minutes, but that's better than fawning over a dude that's not interested for months on end. Believe me... been there, done that!

If you just absolutely can't do that, my next advice would be to step up your flirting game. Call him pet names like "sexy" and "gorgeous", see if he reciprocates. Give him some bedroom eyes. Just do something!


"""" Personally, I'm lost with this guy. If we were talking about me then the fact that I'd flirted with your friend, right in front of you, is the clearest sign possible that I think of you as one of the guys. """"

This is true that day i clearly felt like i was the awkward presence for them that day! Because they clearly hit it off. At least him . My friend is too used to men hitting on her all time so she was the same! I saw him trying a little hard. Anyway so you say the flirting is a sign he think of me as just a friend ???

Yes, he called ne aftera week because i didn't contact him either in that week . Was too sad anyway. So he called made plans took me out and we had a great time!

""""If he says he's not interested then you won't lose anything. You'll be embarrassed for a few minutes, but that's better than fawning over a dude that's not interested for months on end. Believe me... been there, done that!"""" If i only admit of having feelings for him I might look like one of those girl's he has who are running after him . Which he boosts about time to time saying oh that girl was hitting on me oh that girl asked me out oh that girl she asked if we could have sex and blah blah

He's a very good looking guy with a great sense of humour and a caring smile. Women gets attracted to him like moths to flame.. Now you guy's know im no different than those women because i too have developed strong feelings for him .. but he doesn't know that yet!

If i tell him before i get a hint or a sign that the feelings are mutual I'll only be an addition to the list. Right now at least we are friends and he hasn't labelled me by calling me one from the line of girl's. That's why i feel i need to wait a little longer to see or get a green signal from him...

I hope you understand what im trying to say! Me being here asking weird questions and popping new queries is only to understand what signs should i look for from a Virgo man who likes you

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Posted by csdude55
Personally, I'm lost with this guy. If we were talking about me then the fact that I'd flirted with your friend, right in front of you, is the clearest sign possible that I think of you as one of the guys.

But the fact that he called you up and wanted to hang out seems to imply otherwise.

But the fact that he was an hour late seems to imply that he thinks very little of you. Which makes no sense at all, since he initiated.


I have been told here on occasions that i should ask him straight .. but i don't want to jump in until im absolutely sure he likes me..

Why not? I get that you're shy, but seriously, why is the man always the one expected to take the risk of looking stupid?

If he says he's not interested then you won't lose anything. You'll be embarrassed for a few minutes, but that's better than fawning over a dude that's not interested for months on end. Believe me... been there, done that!

If you just absolutely can't do that, my next advice would be to step up your flirting game. Call him pet names like "sexy" and "gorgeous", see if he reciprocates. Give him some bedroom eyes. Just do something!


"""you just absolutely can't do that, my next advice would be to step up your flirting game. Call him pet names like "sexy" and "gorgeous", see if he reciprocates. Give him some bedroom eyes. Just do something!"""

Well i do call him Superman and genius ??? at time's! And he always smiles or giggles . I just love him .. he's sooooooooo good

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
I guess my question is, why do you want everyone to do your work for you? No one can tell you exactly that he likes you.

from things you have said he seems to...what extent ? that you should determin bc you are the one with him.
Err ?
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I can't speak for him, just how it would apply to me.

If I'm crushing on one girl, there's no way I'm hitting on another girl in front of her. For the most part, I wouldn't even notice the other girl is there. So that's definitely not a good sign.

You call him pet names, but he just giggles and doesn't reciprocate? That's also not a good sign. I always give what I'm given, so if my crush calls me a pet name then I'm going to reply with maybe a step up (you call me "gorgeous", I'll call you "sexy"; you call me "sexy", I'll call you "love muffin").

He brags to you about all these other women that like him? That's also not a good sign. I would never try to make a crush jealous or make her think she's not important.

Are you absolutely sure that you've never clearly told him that you only think of him as a friend? Personally, I'm not even really friends with girls that I wouldn't consider dating, so the only way you would be in this position with me is if you've made it super clear that we're just friends, and will never be more.

Regardless, from everything you've said, I have to say that I think you've been friend-zoned Sad
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