How do I react to this virgo female?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by RoosterSpade on Thursday, September 10, 2015 and has 19 replies.
We only met once at a party and she added me on Facebook and Snapchat right after.

Not really any contact since but I did message her on Snapchat with something a few days before her birthday and she responded well to it (no dead replies or anything lol)

I wished her happy birthday by posting the message on Facebook (as did many of her other friends) and she liked and replied to EVERYONE else's post except mine...

Like I said, we've had little to no contact so I have no idea what I could have done wrong? What am I missing?


Sidenote: D.O.B: 20th July '95 but I should add that the only main qualities of a Cancer I possess is my over emotional nature
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I think you've mistaken my intent. I know she won't be all over me and I'm not that bothered by that at all to be honest with you.
I'm just wondering why she singled me out? If she took the time to like and reply to all the other people who posted on her wall except me there's clearly something wrong but if I haven't even had a decent conversation with her, what could I have done wrong?

I know virgo females can tend to be harsh and rude but what would make more sense is if she didn't even acknowledge anyone instead of just choosing to ignore me.
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Your taking it a lil too serious for something so trivial.. your letting your mind be overwhelmed by assumption.
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If she singled you out because she was interested (if), then you may have appealed to her in some way.. thats what I would do.. if I was interested. Hm..

If you dont keep up with it though, we cut our losses.
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Ahh you guys it wasn't a separate message or anything! I posted on her Facebook wall like most people do! She thanked everyone by commenting and liking their posts and only singled me out by not doing so. She never thanked me for the message because she basically ignored it.
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Posted by libraqueen
Posted by BlackMamba
i would delete the message and zoned her the fuk out....crab style. You're weak.

I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up ignoring her after this just to get back at her lol. Cancers, man. So sensitive but not in that cute way either. They're like the younger brothers that will instigate BS, but as soon as you say something back they get all sensitive and crabby and make you look like the bad guy.

cut this crap out, dude. she doesn't owe you a message. and stop stalking her
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I agree she doesn't owe me anything but that doesn't mean I can't help wonder why she'd do that... It's the reason I'm on this forum, to help shine some light on Virgo females. I'm not stalking her or instigating anything, I'm simply asking for the opinions of others who I thought were a lot more educated in this area than I was but if all you're going to do is pull some "all cancers are the same, wow you guys suck" bullshit then I'd rather you didn't post your opinion seeing as it's not what I'm after.
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Posted by Vanish
OKay, I think I know because I'm doing the same thing. She didn't respond to you because she knows you'll talk back and she doesn't want to talk to you. You should respond by pressuring her into hanging out with you. Otherwise, she wont hang out with you.

Negative. Thanking me the way she did everyone else wouldn't cause me to start a conversation with her and I'm pretty sure she knows this. We met at a party in June (I was super drunk though and could hardly remember her until she added me on Facebook) and I had spoken to her once since then and then posted on her Facebook wall with a birthday message. That's all the communication we've had excluding snapchat but that doesn't really count.
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Posted by Weeds
Your taking it a lil too serious for something so trivial.. your letting your mind be overwhelmed by assumption.

Yeah I tend to do that a lot but I like being reassured by strangers that things aren't my fault - I'm super sensitive like that
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Posted by BlackMamba
Posted by libraqueen
Posted by BlackMamba
i would delete the message and zoned her the fuk out....crab style. You're weak.

I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up ignoring her after this just to get back at her lol. Cancers, man. So sensitive but not in that cute way either. They're like the younger brothers that will instigate BS, but as soon as you say something back they get all sensitive and crabby and make you look like the bad guy.

cut this crap out, dude. she doesn't owe you a message. and stop stalking her

who cares dude, stick to your virgo, don't worry about Crabs.

anyways if that was me, id delete the birthday message and act like it never happened.
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I like your thinking except I feel like that's kinda childish. Just because she refused to acknowledge my post doesn't mean I don't still wish her a happy birthday! Haha
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Posted by whitedream
If she singled you out because she was interested (if), then you may have appealed to her in some way.. thats what I would do.. if I was interested. Hm..

If you dont keep up with it though, we cut our losses.

If you could elaborate...
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Posted by Vanish
Says he wants advice from Virgos. Ignores all Virgo advice except for one that makes him feel like she wants him...

I replied to everyone.. And LibraQueen quite obviously isn't a virgo...
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Posted by Vanish
Let me put it this way, every Cancer who comes to the Virgo board asking for advice doesn't take it. I'm incredibly annoyed by it. This is the only conversation I've seen you have and I already think you're clingy and will keep responding if I do.

You must be confusing threads. I've taken into account all decent opinions and have corrected some people who had misunderstood my post.
Of course I will respond if you respond.. it will be rude not to and also, I'm not just going to sit here and let you make weird remarks? Unfortunately I don't have anything better to do this evening smile

I find it very weird how you're already judging me even though this is my first thread. I've made about 12 posts or whatever and they've all been for this thread. How on Earth are you able to jump to that conclusion so quickly lol

P.S. Which sign is the most judgmental and bitchy and what's your star sign?
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I'm annoyed at a handful of cancers so I'm going to take it out on all of them - A-grade logic there my friend
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Posted by libraqueen
Posted by RoosterSpade
Posted by Vanish
Says he wants advice from Virgos. Ignores all Virgo advice except for one that makes him feel like she wants him...

I replied to everyone.. And LibraQueen quite obviously isn't a virgo...

It's not a Virgo trait to not reply. You said in your first post that you snap chatted or something about wishing her a happy birthday and she said thanks. And then you said you posted on her wall wishing her a happy birthday AGAIN and you expect yet another thank you or a response or whatever it is you expected.

Like I said she doesn't owe you anything, so it doesn't mean anything that she didn't show you special attention. Ignoring you doesn't mean anything. As a matter of fact if she "liked" your post that's a way of saying thanks, I saw your message.

I'll say it again: this isn't a matter of astrology. You're overthinking something so trivial and is just assuming it "means something" because you want it. It.Doesnt.Mean.Anything.

That's what pretty much everyone here is trying to tell you.

Typical Cancer. Stop being so sensitive and clingy. I don't understand why you stalked her wall and noticed she responded to everyone but you. She probably didn't even expect that from you so if she wanted to single you out as a hint about SOMETHING she might've been a bit more obvious about it.


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Seriously, I've explained this way too many times for you to still not get it. I messaged her before about something that was irrelevant. I didn't say happy birthday twice, only once, why would I say it twice any way? I didn't notice that she ignored my post until a mutual friend pointed it out (about 1 week after her birthday). I don't get why you keep saying "she doesn't owe you anything" when I already know this. I'm simply asking if what she did is something related to her star sign.

You're also pulling out facts that I never mentioned. She never liked my post or anything BUT she liked and replied to everyone else's. Like I said before, she completely ignored my post which is public and all her friends are able to see. I know this is trivial and to be honest I di
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Seriously, I've explained this way too many times for you to still not get it. I messaged her before about something that was irrelevant. I didn't say happy birthday twice, only once, why would I say it twice any way? I didn't notice that she ignored my post until a mutual friend pointed it out (about 1 week after her birthday). I don't get why you keep saying "she doesn't owe you anything" when I already know this. I'm simply asking if what she did is something related to her star sign.

You're also pulling out facts that I never mentioned. She never liked my post or anything BUT she liked and replied to everyone else's. Like I said before, she completely ignored my post which is public and all her friends are able to see. I know this is trivial and to be honest I didn't expect this to get to this point but I don't know why I've had to explain the same thing around 4 times now and even still people don't seem to be getting it.

There you go again with your Cancer bashing, I'm not being sensitive or clingy. I asked a question days ago on a forum about zodiac signs NOT a forum about relationships and love or whatever. This obviously shows that I want an answer related to that, not "she's not/is interested in you", "stop being so sensitive and clingy" etc. I appreciate you saying that this isn't a matter of astrology which is good enough for me, I'll just take it as her just being rude, which is fine by me too. Believe it or not, I can handle it!!!!!! Crazy right?!!?!!?

I wanted whitedream to explain what he/she meant because (i) he/she's quite clearly a Virgo and (ii) he/she said "that's what I would do", which was exactly what I wanted to find out.

Also, the only way her singling me out could have been more obvious is if I said happy birthday to her f2f and she ignored me. It's not like I private messaged her and she ignored me or anything like that. She did it in a place where all her friends can see and if one friend was able to point it out I'm sure some other's could too.

I read somewhere that Libra's tend to be lazy. I could easily say something like "Typical Libra, too lazy to even read my posts properly" but I'm not going to do that because I know that it's rude to judge people over something as stupid as this.

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Posted by Vanish
I'm assuming not so maybe say something to her again? Like, how was your birthday? Idk...

Yes, there were many people who wished her happy birthday. She liked their posts and replied to every single happy birthday post except for mine in which she didn't like or reply. It's the only time I wished her a happy birthday and I didn't realise she ignored my post until a few days ago. I'm not going to message her again because if I'm totally honest I'm not interested in her, I just want to know why she singled me out. It annoyed me because I haven't given her any reason to dislike me... she hardly knows me!
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Posted by libraqueen
Idk dude maybe you're ugly?? Girls do that to guys they don't find attractive. Gosh. Maybe you didn't give her a reason to dislike you but you didn't give her a reason to like you either????

Btw I'm NOT a Virgo, but as a girl I've done this plenty of times. And if you say one more time my opinion doesn't count because I'm a libra and not a Virgo, will just make you sound mentally unstable. She's not just that into you, bro. SHE SINGLED YOU OUT TO SHOO YOU AWAY.

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(i) I'm a girl
(ii) I'm in a relationship
(iii) You're opinion doesn't count because not only can you not read my posts properly but you also become abusive when someone doesn't agree with you? And I'm the mentally unstable one? Nice joke, next one please.
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Posted by libraqueen
Posted by RoosterSpade
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Idk dude maybe you're ugly?? Girls do that to guys they don't find attractive. Gosh. Maybe you didn't give her a reason to dislike you but you didn't give her a reason to like you either????

Btw I'm NOT a Virgo, but as a girl I've done this plenty of times. And if you say one more time my opinion doesn't count because I'm a libra and not a Virgo, will just make you sound mentally unstable. She's not just that into you, bro. SHE SINGLED YOU OUT TO SHOO YOU AWAY.

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(i) I'm a girl
(ii) I'm in a relationship
(iii) You're opinion doesn't count because not only can you not read my posts properly but you also become abusive when someone doesn't agree with you? And I'm the mentally unstable one? Nice joke, next one please.

You never even specified you were a female. Now I'm confused. Are you lesbian? Or are you offended that she doesn't want your friendship?
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Nor did I specify I was a male... I didn't think it was relevant seeing as I was asking about Virgo traits, not relationship advice.
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Posted by BlackMamba
Rooster lol you're both female? Omg this is even more reason to delete your birthday wish then delete her ass. Don't block tho. So she knows you ain't with that fukery. Damn all this over some Virgo chick and you're not a guy.. What a waste of time.

But she seems pretty chill, we have a lot of mutual friends but obviously she doesn't seem to like me very much haha.

Posted by BlackMamba
You do not want the friendship of a Virgo female. I'm 100% serious. Keep them at arms length. They're not as bad as libras, but they're extremely disloyal
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Well, damn. I'll keep that in mind. I won't delete the post or remove her as a friend because it's not like I'm crying over this, I just wanted to know why she was being rude. I'll just refrain from contacting her in the future and keep her at bay. Thank you for your response.
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