How do virgo's WANT you to take their critisim?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by scorpio24 on Wednesday, June 19, 2013 and has 15 replies.
Just wondering, how do you virgo's expect people close to you to take your critism? I know most of the time when you guys critisize it's cause you actually mean well.
What kind of reaction from someone close to you is ideal to YOU when you critisize?
I personally agree with my virgo or my virgo friends if i honestly believe their critisizm is valuable, otherwise i will just disagree with a valid point of why i disagree but sometimes this frustrates them that i dont agree... what the? haha
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p.s for my usual virgo HATERS if youre going to comment on this thread can you please just respond to it without being a fuckhead? smile thanks
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Posted by MellyMel909
Are you serious?


LOL
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Posted by RomancingA
How about you trust their advice and use it....if they give it, they care.


i know they care! thats why alot of the time if i honestly think it's good advice i do take it!
also, ive noticed sometimes how they deliver the critisim can be in a aggressive or "know it all" way, - why?
why cant they say things more nicely cause sometimes it just comes out so rudely and in the past i would react to the fact that they were being aggressive/rude (i've stopped that now cause there is no point)
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Posted by MellyMel909
Are you serious?


Wanna try lol!!!
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If the person is super close to me, I'll say it straight without sugar coating my words cos I know they will understand.
But if the person is just an acquaintance, I'll try to be nicer say like "u know ur lipstick is cute but I think this color suits you best"
If they listen fine but if they don't it's fine also. I don't impose, they have their own will. I've done my part now it's their fault if they look like a clown roaming around with that shade of lipstick on (just an example).
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Posted by virgosagscorpio
If the person is super close to me, I'll say it straight without sugar coating my words cos I know they will understand.
But if the person is just an acquaintance, I'll try to be nicer say like "u know ur lipstick is cute but I think this color suits you best"
If they listen fine but if they don't it's fine also. I don't impose, they have their own will. I've done my part now it's their fault if they look like a clown roaming around with that shade of lipstick on (just an example).


Yeahhh i see virgos are too sensitiveTongue
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Taking others criticism is another story. I will listen if the criticism will do me good but if it's just for the sake of criticizing without meaning well, then fuck you!!!!!!!!!! The nerve of that shit to criticize me!!!
Do you know me?!?!?!
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Posted by LoveSeeker
Posted by virgosagscorpio
If the person is super close to me, I'll say it straight without sugar coating my words cos I know they will understand.
But if the person is just an acquaintance, I'll try to be nicer say like "u know ur lipstick is cute but I think this color suits you best"
If they listen fine but if they don't it's fine also. I don't impose, they have their own will. I've done my part now it's their fault if they look like a clown roaming around with that shade of lipstick on (just an example).


Yeahhh i see virgos are too sensitiveTongue
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*Guilty* Tongue
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Posted by scorpio24
Posted by RomancingA
How about you trust their advice and use it....if they give it, they care.


i know they care! thats why alot of the time if i honestly think it's good advice i do take it!
also, ive noticed sometimes how they deliver the critisim can be in a aggressive or "know it all" way, - why?
why cant they say things more nicely cause sometimes it just comes out so rudely and in the past i would react to the fact that they were being aggressive/rude (i've stopped that now cause there is no point)
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I dont like speaking for a entire group so I'll speak for myself, Im practical. What women usually misconstrue as 'rude' is usually just blunt and nonsugar coated. I dont feel like I should have to sugar coat with an adult so when I give advice to adults I do it different than I do with children. Dont expect someone who holds practicality and logic above sensitivity to phrase their words in a more palatable way just to make you feel better. True you get more flies with honey or however that goes, but Im just saying dont expect a virgo to care much about HOW they deliver the message as long as they feel its delivered.
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My Virgo has an Aries Moon .... so I will likely be watching you, Mr. Hung .....

Posted by HungVirgo
..... Im practical. What women usually misconstrue as 'rude' is usually just blunt and nonsugar coated. I dont feel like I should have to sugar coat with an adult so when I give advice to adults I do it different than I do with children. Dont expect someone who holds practicality and logic above sensitivity to phrase their words in a more palatable way just to make you feel better. True you get more flies with honey or however that goes, but Im just saying dont expect a virgo to care much about HOW they deliver the message as long as they feel its delivered.




Look at where the finger is pointing ... NOT the finger !!!!
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Posted by P-Angel
My Virgo has an Aries Moon .... so I will likely be watching you, Mr. Hung .....



Thats fine with me, since before I registered I've taken things from your posts and things youve said about your husband before and applied the suggestions myself. It helped eliminate some of that lack of self awareness.
aries moon and mars btw
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Posted by scorpio24
critisize


It's CRITICIZE fuckhead. smile
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There were times when my friend Virgo would tell me bluntly what he thinks about me when we're in the middle of a conversation. He could really be negative in the way that he criticizes me, and i become defensive as an initial response and we would argue about it. I sometimes get stubborn because I disagree... but for him it's always up to me to decide on how to take his criticism... Then after some time I would ponder on what he thought about me and I think to myself maybe he was right and I just couldn't notice it. Until it dawned on me oh he was right about that. Other times that he was about to tell me something he would directly say to me he's hesitant to say it because I might get upset again. Sometimes he wouldn't just tell me, sometimes when I really insist, he would.
I appreciate his honesty and concern. Because, yeah, who does that? Only those who truly care about me.
But I must admit I still have to work on it. Good luck to me then.
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