How does a Virgo test?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by love4ever on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 and has 16 replies.
I hear a lot of us here have been put on the "famous endurance test" by Virgos. I know they do not hand you a paper and pen and make you tell about your whole life, or use a lie detector on you, but they do treat you like a pupil or a suspect before they fully committ to you. So, what other tests, methods, tools do they use? (Also, when they like someone who is out of their social circle, how do they pull together the necessary information they need about "the center of their attention"?)
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with common questions... you will never realize you been thru it to be honest, or that/when it started or ended,.. virgoes are careful if its about getting information about someone who they are interested in, well, and for myself i can tell you i would not get information from none other than the one i am interested in ( the only way you can be sure its realy true )
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Yeah, just be yourself and be honest, don't lie at all and if you were meant to be it'll jump on sooner or later.. if not, ..let's cut that part and be optimistic for now, k?
Yes, Please be yourself, because if they think you're the one they will take their time and I do mean their time you must be patient and not act crazy and feel that you should be the center of attention, it doesn't work that way just do the things that you enjoy doing and just be who you are..
love4ever
Only dishonest lover will be subjected to test, if a Virgo get suspicious then, there is little chance that you can re-start your love life with him/her again??.EVER..!
Virgos hates betrayal and dishonesty?!!
Only dishonest lover will be subjected to test, if a Virgo get suspicious then, there is little chance that you can re-start your love life with him/her again??.EVER..!
Virgos hates betrayal and dishonesty?!!
My post was more about bringing up & understanding another facet of Virgos, not figuring out ways to pass the test (always nice to get hints though 
). (These days I am digging it deep -partly because of my Gemini nature I guess, I just got to ask, learn and share everything about the thing that I got curious about- but it is also fun to seize & match what are told to the facts I have).
On the other hand, I am getting suspicious of myself starting to show some Virgo traits after I began researching, you think you guys are contagious?
). (These days I am digging it deep -partly because of my Gemini nature I guess, I just got to ask, learn and share everything about the thing that I got curious about- but it is also fun to seize & match what are told to the facts I have). On the other hand, I am getting suspicious of myself starting to show some Virgo traits after I began researching, you think you guys are contagious?
Okay, sorry, since I said I find joy in the whole thing & I joke about it you might think my feelings for the guy are shallow or I am just enjoying to play along but no, I am really very serious about my Virgo. I just want to do the best I can for him. He is perfect in so many ways that I sometimes feel inadequate.
Then stop playing with your Virgo's feelings and give him some respect?!! Don't ever make him jealous..!!
ah the test- it involves asking almost every question under the sun. Ok not really. It depends on what you're looking for. And looking at body language and how they react to other people, and under different circumstances. Poke and prod and see what happens. Basically I try to get at the truth. I understand human beings are not entirely "good" or "bad", they consist of both so I try to see both and see if i can deal with the bad. I try to evoke the worst and see if I survive. It's hard to explain.
I would like comment further on my post about "starting to show Virgo traits". Do you think as they spend more time together, Virgos can make their mates more meticulous, orderly, frugal, thoughtful, steady, pet lover etc.? In my experience, their good nature makes you believe in goodness, and bring out the better in yourself. To me, they set a good example not only for their kids, but also for their mates. So here I say, "If you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas, if you lie down with Virgos, you will get up with all the good things".
If you can stand us being so thoughtful and then hurt when you are NOT...then you might wake up with some REALLY good things. We take from you as much as we give though. We absorb the goodness from others and hand it out elsewhere where it's needed. We often stay deep in thought about a subject, sometimes too confused on how to properly handle it with tact and compassion. I do tend to rub off on my close companions. I think mostly because I don't want to be around insensitive or boorish slugs, or self centered drama queens. I also care deeply for my friends and will always lend a hand if I can. It all comes back. I hope that my goodness will be transferred to others, and theirs to me..CHEERS
Virgos can make their mates more meticulous, orderly, frugal, thoughtful, steady, pet lover etc.?
o_O what?
Being the mate of a virgo makes you more like them? o_O WHAT?
Well if you think about it realistically, you're always making your own choices. So yeah they can be an example but you always choose your actions. They just don't make you act the way they do. So if you were to consider people in general influencing their mates, anyone could attempt to be a little more like his or her mate if he or she simply chose to follow his or her example.
It seems like we're losing sight of the real virgo..and drifting off somewhere into random circumstances with poeple who happen to be virgos. hmmm
o_O what?
Being the mate of a virgo makes you more like them? o_O WHAT?
Well if you think about it realistically, you're always making your own choices. So yeah they can be an example but you always choose your actions. They just don't make you act the way they do. So if you were to consider people in general influencing their mates, anyone could attempt to be a little more like his or her mate if he or she simply chose to follow his or her example.
It seems like we're losing sight of the real virgo..and drifting off somewhere into random circumstances with poeple who happen to be virgos. hmmm
Could be, but I knew another couple like that. A Virgo gal friend of mine changed her lousy guy into a classy man within months. He changed his haircut, his wardrobe, he found a better job, he changed his manners, eating habits, everything. It was like watching pygmallion. They are still happily married.
R.C. you are right. We can all be influenced by those around us, and I suppose if we turn this around, to where the Virg is a self-centered,slobby,low-life lier, that too could rub off as with any sign. I agree with you. Maybe it would be better said that BECAUSE we are virgo (which basically have virtuous traits)good things (verses bad) rub off on people. I'd like to think that being around me, someone can take something positive away with them....but then I could be Gemini and say the same. It is the nature we share as Virgos that we are trying to relate to the subject, not the point that others can't have an equal part in societies good influence over people.
Reiniba-Chan, I've known others who have made ME more meticulous,orderly,frugal,and steady. lol I'm the worst Virgo ever!! Don't count on me in that department. if it ain't dirty, I don't clean it! if it's what I want, I buy it, but I don't blow my whole check on stuff (sometimes....) 
Although, I will be pretty tough; I'll practically interogate you, untill you crack; I want to know all about you, but I do it in a casual, detached way; if you lie, I will question you intensely why, becuase to me playing games, and lies is underhanded, and low-balling; it's like a punch in the dick to me, and I will leave; I've got no time to play detective with my lover, so I'm not going to check up on you every five minutes to see who you're with, and what you're doing. Got to much pride and dignity for that...besides, it wasn't like we we're going to be married, and even if that we're the case, It's over; what's done is done, the trust is lost, and the relationship, finito.
Although, I will be pretty tough; I'll practically interogate you, untill you crack; I want to know all about you, but I do it in a casual, detached way; if you lie, I will question you intensely why, becuase to me playing games, and lies is underhanded, and low-balling; it's like a punch in the dick to me, and I will leave; I've got no time to play detective with my lover, so I'm not going to check up on you every five minutes to see who you're with, and what you're doing. Got to much pride and dignity for that...besides, it wasn't like we we're going to be married, and even if that we're the case, It's over; what's done is done, the trust is lost, and the relationship, finito.I mean no one acidentally slips, and falls onto another guys junk, so, I hope you enjoyed every inch, becuase you won't see another like mine. Why cheat on someone, if this is who you want to be with?....guess that means you actually don't want to be with me, becuase that's what a relationship is; partnership!!!!! You want out, I'll free ya, just say the word, and you're free as a bird! I don't grovel, I don't beg, I don't plead....you wanna go, go ahead. Besides, being in a relationship is sooooooo grounding!!!!! You have to compromise, share, bargain, be on time, and worst of all, YOU DON'T BELONG TO YOURSELF!!!!!!! NOOOOOO FREEEEEEDOM!!!!!....uuuuughghghgggh!!!! YUCK!! but the love part is cool....:p
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