VirgoMerlot
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Posted by RomancingA
If he didn't ask for it......he'll weigh the pros and cons about calling you, and the quality of your ass of course.
After that he'll try to find out stuff about you, and when he's satisfied....he might call you, or text. Virgo guys like to text, rather than call.......
Soooooo by the time he gets through all of that, you are looking at a solid 8 months.
hahahahaha
Cancers are full of vengeful venom, especially the cancer women I know of, and they're usually extremely toxic when slighted in the tiniest way. The men are usually genuinely wonderful.
Virgos are brilliant people, CC. They see through your facade; they see your strengths, weaknesses, insecurities, flaws... everything. They will deduce from that information, whether you've volunteered them or not they will notice, and will determine your worth from there.
If you're not worth it, they will give you the push-pull thing until they are done with you.
All the Virgos I've known in my life when they know you've got what they want and they trust you - they really do love you to a fault. However, I'll admit they have flaws like elusiveness and indecisiveness, among others like selfishness, but they are truly not done out of maliciousness. They're quite oblivious to how their behaviors affect their loved ones without any evil intent. They're quite interchangeable and flexible in relationships and CANNOT cope with really emotionally-heavy females who's self-worth and happiness lies in the palm of their hands, they HATE that responsibility and find it exhaustive; hence, they cannot be with someone who's insecure and a lot of Cancer women are insecure and needy.
It's harsh but you've got to face it. In his eyes, you're just simply not worth the trouble and you have proven that to him without having to tell him, AND, you've proven that to everyone here on DXP as well - you're just "too much" of a mess for a Virgo's sentiment.
Virgos are brilliant people, CC. They see through your facade; they see your strengths, weaknesses, insecurities, flaws... everything. They will deduce from that information, whether you've volunteered them or not they will notice, and will determine your worth from there.
If you're not worth it, they will give you the push-pull thing until they are done with you.
All the Virgos I've known in my life when they know you've got what they want and they trust you - they really do love you to a fault. However, I'll admit they have flaws like elusiveness and indecisiveness, among others like selfishness, but they are truly not done out of maliciousness. They're quite oblivious to how their behaviors affect their loved ones without any evil intent. They're quite interchangeable and flexible in relationships and CANNOT cope with really emotionally-heavy females who's self-worth and happiness lies in the palm of their hands, they HATE that responsibility and find it exhaustive; hence, they cannot be with someone who's insecure and a lot of Cancer women are insecure and needy.
It's harsh but you've got to face it. In his eyes, you're just simply not worth the trouble and you have proven that to him without having to tell him, AND, you've proven that to everyone here on DXP as well - you're just "too much" of a mess for a Virgo's sentiment.
I've dealt with too many female Cancers in my life to fight with you all. But I've seen the worst of your vengeful tendencies to scare me for life - cancerous is a good way of describing the women.
The men? Sweethearts.
The men? Sweethearts.
I have a long time Virgo friend with whom I've never contacted for a year.
He suddenly popped in asking if I still want to have a chat with him, but I was unavailable that time and I said maybe sometime when its convenient for me to talk to you. He asked for my number because he has changed his, and we agreed to talk some other time, that he'd text or call me. So I was expecting him to text me since I don't know his number.
It took him a week to text me.
He never did call.
I ended up calling him after a month when we got to talk again, and we talked for an hour.
Ha! He was a bit shy(I can tell) but he at least tried to share a bit of his life happenings to me since we just got to talk again after a year.
We were apart from each other though. Long distance friends I can tell.
He suddenly popped in asking if I still want to have a chat with him, but I was unavailable that time and I said maybe sometime when its convenient for me to talk to you. He asked for my number because he has changed his, and we agreed to talk some other time, that he'd text or call me. So I was expecting him to text me since I don't know his number.
It took him a week to text me.
He never did call.
I ended up calling him after a month when we got to talk again, and we talked for an hour.
Ha! He was a bit shy(I can tell) but he at least tried to share a bit of his life happenings to me since we just got to talk again after a year.
We were apart from each other though. Long distance friends I can tell.
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by takahashi09
I have a long time Virgo friend with whom I've never contacted for a year.
He suddenly popped in asking if I still want to have a chat with him, but I was unavailable that time and I said maybe sometime when its convenient for me to talk to you. He asked for my number because he has changed his, and we agreed to talk some other time, that he'd text or call me. So I was expecting him to text me since I don't know his number.
It took him a week to text me.
He never did call.
I ended up calling him after a month when we got to talk again, and we talked for an hour.
Ha! He was a bit shy(I can tell) but he at least tried to share a bit of his life happenings to me since we just got to talk again after a year.
We were apart from each other though. Long distance friends I can tell.
and maybe in 10 years you'll go out on a date.
LOL.. From what I've read maybe it's better he doesn't call.click to expand
CC, it's not that calling is a big issue, it's not really the usual norm here in our country,
friends usually do more texting and chatting than calling unlike in America where calling is like the major way of contacting friends and acquaintances or whoever. In terms of dating, and of course the whole bunch of thinking and deciding, yeah they tend to take so much time... but you'll never know. After all, they're Virgos. 😉
PinkCancer, yeah I guess so... and he might be uneasy to talk over the phone for long conversations, given that Virgos are not that expressive and talkative people.. nevertheless they are such great friends.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Nebulous_Cloud9
I've dealt with too many female Cancers in my life to fight with you all. But I've seen the worst of your vengeful tendencies to scare me for life - cancerous is a good way of describing the women.
The men? Sweethearts.
LMAO BS have you been to the Cancer forums lately, all the threads are about women complaining about the cancer man and his disappearing acts, etc etc.
we never get threads made about us. I mean i only know the one's who are my friends in real life, they aren't sweethearts, but they're real and genuine, and underneath it all saccharin...but they do play tough on the outside.
I don't know what kind of girls you been dealing with.
I don't feel vengeful towards the Virgo at all, in fact all i want to do is cuddle him and kiss his worries away.
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You are bitter because your Virgo doesn't want you. Quit raining on other folks parade and just accept that you won't be with that particular Virgo.
Posted by GemStar05Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Nebulous_Cloud9
I've dealt with too many female Cancers in my life to fight with you all. But I've seen the worst of your vengeful tendencies to scare me for life - cancerous is a good way of describing the women.
The men? Sweethearts.
LMAO BS have you been to the Cancer forums lately, all the threads are about women complaining about the cancer man and his disappearing acts, etc etc.
we never get threads made about us. I mean i only know the one's who are my friends in real life, they aren't sweethearts, but they're real and genuine, and underneath it all saccharin...but they do play tough on the outside.
I don't know what kind of girls you been dealing with.
I don't feel vengeful towards the Virgo at all, in fact all i want to do is cuddle him and kiss his worries away.
You are bitter because your Virgo doesn't want you. Quit raining on other folks parade and just
accept that you won't be with that particular Virgo.click to expand
LMAO
The last woman i slept with gave me her number first. I didnt txt or call for 2 days and she saw me on the 3rd day and let me hear about it. I think I wouldve sent a txt on the 3rd day had I not have been caught. If youre concerned just text him a "Hi 🙂". I always respond to those since the smiley in my mind means she wants to get physical
Posted by PinkCancer10
The only reason I have any feelings for him is because we work together. If we were out in the real world he would have no chance.
How deluded can a person possibly be?
He isn't coming on to you, he isn't asking for your number, which means = you aren't It to him.
Yet, in your mind, you think you are .... to say he wouldn't have a chance with you, is a backwards way of saying he wants you to give him a chance, like he's coming at you, as if you're all of that.
YOU are the one who is worried about having a chance with him .... you cannot see that though, your ego has you believing you are more than you are.
::: shakes head :::
Cancer women would continue to argue with a WALL if the wall had ears at all.
Some of the most annoying women are Cancer women, you're all too darn emotional and self-interested and manipulative to listen to reason. Virgo men are ALL logic. Find someone else who would actually would play feelings with you.
A Cancer girl I knew in college dated a Capricorn (who later became a good friend of mine). She would ALWAYS "play sweet and innocent" with this Cap. Build up his confidence with promising words, actions, and tenderness... Was it genuine? Yeah, right. Her actions were FILLED with motives to try to get him to commit. While she presented herself as this demure, fun, and secure girl, she would do things like attend the church he attended with a "male friend." (how coincidental) When she received birthday flowers from her ex she was all too glad to announce to the Cap that "a bouquet of flowers arrived today and if they were from him." He caught on to her antics so fast he completely cut her off without a word of explanation.
Cancer women...
Some of the most annoying women are Cancer women, you're all too darn emotional and self-interested and manipulative to listen to reason. Virgo men are ALL logic. Find someone else who would actually would play feelings with you.
A Cancer girl I knew in college dated a Capricorn (who later became a good friend of mine). She would ALWAYS "play sweet and innocent" with this Cap. Build up his confidence with promising words, actions, and tenderness... Was it genuine? Yeah, right. Her actions were FILLED with motives to try to get him to commit. While she presented herself as this demure, fun, and secure girl, she would do things like attend the church he attended with a "male friend." (how coincidental) When she received birthday flowers from her ex she was all too glad to announce to the Cap that "a bouquet of flowers arrived today and if they were from him." He caught on to her antics so fast he completely cut her off without a word of explanation.
Cancer women...
I'm unconvinced. I have encountered way too many Cancer women that I've chosen to avoid them all. I even knew a Cancer for 8 years and she betrayed me without a morsel of guilt or remorse. Disgusting.
Funny thing is that it has only ever been Cancer females who I've ever had problems with.
Funny thing is that it has only ever been Cancer females who I've ever had problems with.
Nope. I witnessed it all. While she "dated" the Cap, she was still on the phone late into the night with her ex.
Good thing the Cap got out. Good for the Cancer because her ex took her back and now they're married.
All a scheme filled with contingencies.
Good thing the Cap got out. Good for the Cancer because her ex took her back and now they're married.
All a scheme filled with contingencies.
CC are there some underlying tensions brewing? Are you a bit jelly? Because you sound that way unless you just have that love/hate relationships for us lovely Virgos?
Let's just say she was a two-year undergraduate who still worked in retail and had no real work experience. I referred her into my company so she can get some real corporate experience to build her resume. She was my peer and joined my team.
Well, "her idea" of planting her seeds and building relationships and trying to get along with other people was to "badmouth me" and my work (I was always top performer).
I forgave her. Brought her into my apartment a year later so she can pursue another job opportunity in the area. She was a roommate with my other university bestfriends, she then went to "badmouth me" to them... She was always filled with jealousy and negativity and full of cunning schemes to manipulate people to choose her side and see her views. If anyone ever objected her opinion, she'd sure enough turn around to badmouth you to someone else. A venomous soul.
So scary how you never truly know how "SWEET" and "FUN-LOVING" a Cancer friend is until you confront them on their b.s and slight them in any way, even if it's their fault.
Well, "her idea" of planting her seeds and building relationships and trying to get along with other people was to "badmouth me" and my work (I was always top performer).
I forgave her. Brought her into my apartment a year later so she can pursue another job opportunity in the area. She was a roommate with my other university bestfriends, she then went to "badmouth me" to them... She was always filled with jealousy and negativity and full of cunning schemes to manipulate people to choose her side and see her views. If anyone ever objected her opinion, she'd sure enough turn around to badmouth you to someone else. A venomous soul.
So scary how you never truly know how "SWEET" and "FUN-LOVING" a Cancer friend is until you confront them on their b.s and slight them in any way, even if it's their fault.
I've never known any Cancers to be backstabbing or manipulative--only whiny. I've never known any Scorp females to be that way either--towards me. People say this a lot yet I haven't witnessed it. Hmmm think I'll make a post on this, lol!
I hope you never, GemStar05.
CC, yes. I couldn't stand her anymore (just imagine I was home maybe a few hours a week because she never went out and I refused to see her at home. I couldn't even look at my bank statements during those months because the money I spent to go out to be away from the apartment was astronomical). Whenever I came home to her presence, it always made me so tense, I was so stressed my hair shed. I moved out of the apartment even though those roommates are my bestfriends! I just simply couldn't wait for her to find a place and move out to so I took the privilege to leave first.
CC, yes. I couldn't stand her anymore (just imagine I was home maybe a few hours a week because she never went out and I refused to see her at home. I couldn't even look at my bank statements during those months because the money I spent to go out to be away from the apartment was astronomical). Whenever I came home to her presence, it always made me so tense, I was so stressed my hair shed. I moved out of the apartment even though those roommates are my bestfriends! I just simply couldn't wait for her to find a place and move out to so I took the privilege to leave first.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh man she sounds like a real treat. I have a Libra in the office like that, total Drama chaos. Can't stand her. I just stay away!!! Talks badly about everyone. Thank god you got rid of her. She sounds highly insecure.
RT nah not envious, sad, cause virgos and i get along so well, especially the women, yet i notice things that make me not be able to completely trust. Sucks. I really do want too.
By the way congrats on your moving in with Gemini. It's all Jupiter in Cancer...people moving in together, families getting closer, marriages, babies🙂
Well i'm sure you had to do with it too🙂
Thanks. Jupiter in Cancer eh? My sis got married last month she can't have any more kids so I wonder who will be preggo— Not me!! Well at least not yet.
BTW, my Gemini is totally a homebody. He's knocked out right now. 😛
Posted by CluelessCancer
And when i say super sweet i don't mean Virgo men are sweet...well sometimes..but their sensitivity and inner emotions are very sweet. In retrospective i should have been nicer to Virgo, he was extremely sensitive.
True, and thats why youre fucked. When he heard the dude in the background it put a black mark on whatever part of his heart was attached to you.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Hung Virgo...by the way that's very suggestive.hung. How Hung?
rofl. I was wondering if people didnt catch that or what, or if everybody was just too uncomfortable to comment.
Posted by PinkCancer10
He has been coming on to me in an indirect way. I know when a guy like me and he definitely does. If he doesnt call it's because he is insecure or he thinks i'm still married.
Hun..you are clueless about Virgos. Trust me on that.😉
agreed, LIB ^^^^^^^
so, if a guy doesn't call her then it's because he's insecure
::: shakes head :::
I'd like to know why she was developing a flirty dance with a guy while married
so, if a guy doesn't call her then it's because he's insecure
::: shakes head :::
I'd like to know why she was developing a flirty dance with a guy while married
Posted by P-Angel
I'd like to know why she was developing a flirty dance with a guy while married
Nothing like watching someone like this ^^ and their "grass is greener" illusion turn to brown and dried up hay. It's quite entertaining.
You're married!
I'm sure your husband would just love that you give your number to other men...you should ask his advice on the situation. SMH!
I'm sure your husband would just love that you give your number to other men...you should ask his advice on the situation. SMH!
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by LetltBPosted by PinkCancer10
He has been coming on to me in an indirect way. I know when a guy like me and he definitely does. If he doesnt call it's because he is insecure or he thinks i'm still married.
Hun..you are clueless about Virgos. Trust me on that.😉
Your probably right. I have been married for the past 8 years so to be honest with you i'm clueless in general. I dont mean he is insecure in himself. I mean that he is insecure about the situation. I'm alot younger then him and I hage him my number. From what I've read about virgos he might think I have some ulterior motive. But I really just like himclick to expand
Posted by PinkCancer10
.... or he thinks i'm still married.
Posted by P-Angel
I'd like to know why she was developing a flirty dance with a guy while married
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Posted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancer
Oh man she sounds like a real treat. I have a Libra in the office like that, total Drama chaos. Can't stand her. I just stay away!!! Talks badly about everyone. Thank god you got rid of her. She sounds highly insecure.
RT nah not envious, sad, cause virgos and i get along so well, especially the women, yet i notice things that make me not be able to completely trust. Sucks. I really do want too.
By the way congrats on your moving in with Gemini. It's all Jupiter in Cancer...people moving in together, families getting closer, marriages, babies🙂
Well i'm sure you had to do with it too🙂
Thanks. Jupiter in Cancer eh? My sis got married last month she can't have any more kids so I wonder who will be preggo— Not me!! Well at least not yet.
BTW, my Gemini is totally a homebody. He's knocked out right now. 😛click to expand
What— did you get back together with your gem? or is this a different one...and you moved in together? congrats RT 🙂
There's nothing indirect about a Virgo interested in you. If he is, he's not.
Thanks LIMM! Nope, it's the same gem. Yeah, we moved in together last week.
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by LetltBPosted by PinkCancer10
He has been coming on to me in an indirect way. I know when a guy like me and he definitely does. If he doesnt call it's because he is insecure or he thinks i'm still married.
Hun..you are clueless about Virgos. Trust me on that.😉
Your probably right. I have been married for the past 8 years so to be honest with you i'm clueless in general. I dont mean he is insecure in himself. I mean that he is insecure about the situation. I'm alot younger then him and I hage him my number. From what I've read about virgos he might think I have some ulterior motive. But I really just like him
I'm legally separated.click to expand
Why arent you divorced?
Posted by RealTalk
Thanks LIMM! Nope, it's the same gem. Yeah, we moved in together last week.
awww yayyy...I'm happy for you RT 🙂
Posted by MellyMel909
Advice and enabling are two different things.
You have been given advice. You have NOT be enabled.
Which upsets you more? What you have heard, or what you haven't?
All asked is how long would it take for him to call and 90% of the —advice?? is why I don't deserve him.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
There's nothing indirect about a Virgo interested in you. If he is, he's not.
If you google.. how to tell if a co-worker like you.. He has done all those things. Except ask me out or for my number. He is not the kind of person that goes out of him way to do nice things for people.
If I had a penny for everytime a male coworker does something nice for me, I would think the entire company has the hots for me. Come on, get real. Work place is work demeanor. Don't take their readiness to befriend you as interest, it's rather professional to be friendly with your colleagues and nothing more.
You're reading too much into his actions.
My statement remains, if a VIRGO is interested in you, he WILL NOT hold back. If he is not interested, well, you get this image of yourself asking these dumb questions.
Why don't you chill out? Sit back and stop being so hung up on someone who is not even showing signs of interest outside of a work environment. This is why you Cancer women SCARE THE HECK out of Virgo men. You're so darn needy. You present yourselves as these "confident women" but yet you sit all day pining for a text or a phone call and already expecting him to do certain things, respond to you a certain way when he's not shown any morsel of interest in doing so - this is how one should behave to scare a Virgo away.
P.S. I have had Virgo classmates AND colleagues who are all quick to ask for my number and quick to text/call. Virgo men have NO QUALMS about making the first move quite QUICKLY if they are anything near interested.
You're reading too much into his actions.
My statement remains, if a VIRGO is interested in you, he WILL NOT hold back. If he is not interested, well, you get this image of yourself asking these dumb questions.
Why don't you chill out? Sit back and stop being so hung up on someone who is not even showing signs of interest outside of a work environment. This is why you Cancer women SCARE THE HECK out of Virgo men. You're so darn needy. You present yourselves as these "confident women" but yet you sit all day pining for a text or a phone call and already expecting him to do certain things, respond to you a certain way when he's not shown any morsel of interest in doing so - this is how one should behave to scare a Virgo away.
P.S. I have had Virgo classmates AND colleagues who are all quick to ask for my number and quick to text/call. Virgo men have NO QUALMS about making the first move quite QUICKLY if they are anything near interested.
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
There's nothing indirect about a Virgo interested in you. If he is, he's not.
If you google.. how to tell if a co-worker like you.. He has done all those things. Except ask me out or for my number. He is not the kind of person that goes out of him way to do nice things for people.click to expand
Oh dear god....so if google says it, it must be true?! How old are you?
The guy doesnt seem interested...if he was, you'd know it! Virgo or no Virgo
move on..get divorced..work on yourself and then worry about a relationship
Just a fyi, Virgo men are notorious people-pleasers. Many, MANY females have fallen victim to them because these women think that because the Virgo does nice things for them as them being interested, WRONG. Virgos like to be liked. DO NOT take their kindness and attention as interest - their actions will deceive you. Hence, you see a lot of women on here "misreading" their Virgo, went ahead to confess interest thinking that they saw cues that the Virgo is interested too, THEN shockingly, the Virgo always responds with, "I only like you as a friend."
My ex had SO SO SO many women from work who absolutely pined after him. We've had many conversations about him being too friendly and nice and helpful, thus, misleading his friendliness as interest.
My ex had SO SO SO many women from work who absolutely pined after him. We've had many conversations about him being too friendly and nice and helpful, thus, misleading his friendliness as interest.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
If I had a penny for everytime a male coworker does something nice for me, I would think the entire company has the hots for me. Come on, get real. Work place is work demeanor. Don't take their readiness to befriend you as interest, it's rather professional to be friendly with your colleagues and nothing more.
You're reading too much into his actions.
My statement remains, if a VIRGO is interested in you, he WILL NOT hold back. If he is not interested, well, you get this image of yourself asking these dumb questions.
Why don't you chill out? Sit back and stop being so hung up on someone who is not even showing signs of interest outside of a work environment. This is why you Cancer women SCARE THE HECK out of Virgo men. You're so darn needy. You present yourselves as these "confident women" but yet you sit all day pining for a text or a phone call and already expecting him to do certain things, respond to you a certain way when he's not shown any morsel of interest in doing so - this is how one should behave to scare a Virgo away.
P.S. I have had Virgo classmates AND colleagues who are all quick to ask for my number and quick to text/call. Virgo men have NO QUALMS about making the first move quite QUICKLY if they are anything near interested.
I am 110% sure he like me. Why does everyone keep bringing it back to this? I've done nothing to scare him away. All I??ve done is give him my number via e-mail. We don't work together anymore but when we did the whole thing made me very uncomfortable.
I feel like there are some (allllot) of things missing in this story...shit is not adding up for me...so until you fess up with the actual story...I'm bowing out.
Why would it make you uncomfortable? didnt you say you liked him while working together and so you gave him your number? Why would he think you're still married? do you even talk at all...or is this a crush from far away?
Why would it make you uncomfortable? didnt you say you liked him while working together and so you gave him your number? Why would he think you're still married? do you even talk at all...or is this a crush from far away?
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by cunninglinguistPosted by PinkCancer10
For a Virgo guy to call when you give him your number. He didnt ask for it..
If he didn't ask for it, he probably wasn't interested. Best to move on and focus on someone who pursues you.
Your probably right. But I'm glad the ball is in his court now. And after months of games I've put my cards on the table first. The only reason I have any feelings for him is because we work togetherIf we were out in the real world he would have no chance.click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
If I had a penny for everytime a male coworker does something nice for me, I would think the entire company has the hots for me. Come on, get real. Work place is work demeanor. Don't take their readiness to befriend you as interest, it's rather professional to be friendly with your colleagues and nothing more.
You're reading too much into his actions.
My statement remains, if a VIRGO is interested in you, he WILL NOT hold back. If he is not interested, well, you get this image of yourself asking these dumb questions.
Why don't you chill out? Sit back and stop being so hung up on someone who is not even showing signs of interest outside of a work environment. This is why you Cancer women SCARE THE HECK out of Virgo men. You're so darn needy. You present yourselves as these "confident women" but yet you sit all day pining for a text or a phone call and already expecting him to do certain things, respond to you a certain way when he's not shown any morsel of interest in doing so - this is how one should behave to scare a Virgo away.
P.S. I have had Virgo classmates AND colleagues who are all quick to ask for my number and quick to text/call. Virgo men have NO QUALMS about making the first move quite QUICKLY if they are anything near interested.
I am 110% sure he like me. Why does everyone keep bringing it back to this? I've done nothing to scare him away. All I??ve done is give him my number via e-mail. We don't work together anymore but when we did the whole thing made me very uncomfortable.click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11
So why would you give your number to someone that made you feel uncomfortable?
I already asked this question lol
this is why you shouldnt try to work and post lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by LostinmyMind11
So why would you give your number to someone that made you feel uncomfortable?
I already asked this question lol
this is why you shouldnt try to work and post lolclick to expand
Sorry, I gave him my number after I found out he was working in this building anymore.
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by LostinmyMind11
So why would you give your number to someone that made you feel uncomfortable?
I already asked this question lol
this is why you shouldnt try to work and post lol
Sorry, I gave him my number after I found out he was working in this building anymore.click to expand
But if you're so close with him...wouldnt that be something he would have told you?
Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by LostinmyMind11
So why would you give your number to someone that made you feel uncomfortable?
I already asked this question lol
this is why you shouldnt try to work and post lol
Sorry, I gave him my number after I found out he was working in this building anymore.click to expand
And you still haven't answer any of my questions
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by RealTalk
Thanks LIMM! Nope, it's the same gem. Yeah, we moved in together last week.
awww yayyy...I'm happy for you RT 🙂click to expand
Thanks! It's been a rough road with him, but I got what I wanted. 😉
Posted by RealTalkPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by RealTalk
Thanks LIMM! Nope, it's the same gem. Yeah, we moved in together last week.
awww yayyy...I'm happy for you RT 🙂
Thanks! It's been a rough road with him, but I got what I wanted. 😉click to expand
LOL 😉
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by PinkCancer10Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
There's nothing indirect about a Virgo interested in you. If he is, he's not.
If you google.. how to tell if a co-worker like you.. He has done all those things. Except ask me out or for my number. He is not the kind of person that goes out of him way to do nice things for people.
Oh dear god....so if google says it, it must be true?! How old are you?
The guy doesnt seem interested...if he was, you'd know it! Virgo or no Virgo
move on..get divorced..work on yourself and then worry about a relationship
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Unbelievable. Some women just honestly don't get it. I completely understand why Virgos are so selective with their lovers, it's to weed out all the nutcases. All the Virgos in my life are deathly afraid of emotional turmoil.
Look, PinkCancer, this is REALLY basic. If he likes you, he would call and you wouldn't be on here pondering.
What we are ALL trying to tell you is that a Virgo is not as passive as many people lead you to believe. If he was piqued by you at all, he would initiate contact.
Here's a story that relates really well with your situation. The Virgo I recently met a few months ago is really VERY handsome, the epitome of Virgo. He said that when he was in college, he had a lot of female admirers. He said women would always mistook his friendliness as "interest". Because he was always very respectful and helpful, this had something to do with sending off the wrong signals. Regardless of the reason, he said whenever he realized a girl would like him, he'd avoid contact. The more they contacted him, the more uninterested he'd be. He said he had no problem initiating, but he would only do so if he was interested as he didn't see the point in talking for the sake of talking.
When I first met this particular Virgo in our company's lunch line (oddly enough, he had been wanting to introduce himself to me for months but was too shy). So when he saw me in front of the lunch line, he ran through a million ways in his head to say "hello" to me. I had ALMOST left the line to bring the food back to my desk when out of the blue, he greeted me from behind. I turned around and there he was, smiling from ear to ear, blushing, and eyes penetrating mine (I immediately knew he was a Virgo, Virgos are the ONLY people who are EVER capable of doing this). We exchanged a quick word out of formality, both being quite puzzled by the attraction and nervousness we smiled and politely left and we said we'd see each other on "chat" - our company has a business-wide chat software we use to communicate with each other. Well, contact was made and there has not been a SINGLE DAY he doesn't talk to me. This is the same guy who will avoid contact at all cost with females he's not interested in.
Take it for what you want, a Virgo KNOWS what he wants. If he's not contacting you, he doesn't want you.
What we are ALL trying to tell you is that a Virgo is not as passive as many people lead you to believe. If he was piqued by you at all, he would initiate contact.
Here's a story that relates really well with your situation. The Virgo I recently met a few months ago is really VERY handsome, the epitome of Virgo. He said that when he was in college, he had a lot of female admirers. He said women would always mistook his friendliness as "interest". Because he was always very respectful and helpful, this had something to do with sending off the wrong signals. Regardless of the reason, he said whenever he realized a girl would like him, he'd avoid contact. The more they contacted him, the more uninterested he'd be. He said he had no problem initiating, but he would only do so if he was interested as he didn't see the point in talking for the sake of talking.
When I first met this particular Virgo in our company's lunch line (oddly enough, he had been wanting to introduce himself to me for months but was too shy). So when he saw me in front of the lunch line, he ran through a million ways in his head to say "hello" to me. I had ALMOST left the line to bring the food back to my desk when out of the blue, he greeted me from behind. I turned around and there he was, smiling from ear to ear, blushing, and eyes penetrating mine (I immediately knew he was a Virgo, Virgos are the ONLY people who are EVER capable of doing this). We exchanged a quick word out of formality, both being quite puzzled by the attraction and nervousness we smiled and politely left and we said we'd see each other on "chat" - our company has a business-wide chat software we use to communicate with each other. Well, contact was made and there has not been a SINGLE DAY he doesn't talk to me. This is the same guy who will avoid contact at all cost with females he's not interested in.
Take it for what you want, a Virgo KNOWS what he wants. If he's not contacting you, he doesn't want you.
Lol @ PotHead.
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