We met on tinder in February. We went on a couple dates , he’s always been really quiet (unless he’s had a beer then he’s a chatter box) and honestly didn’t think he was that interested in me cause he is always so quiet but ever since then he’s always hit me up to hang every week since we’ve met. We became FWB over time, were actually exclusive FWB per his request and we even hang out without having sex. I’ve met his brother and closest friends. At first I didn’t really like him as more than a friend cause I didn’t really know him all that well cause he took a long time to open up to me (he also has a Scorpio moon) but over time he did and I caught the feels and I told him but he’s told me right now isn’t a good time for him to be in a relationship . ( he got out a long term relationship last year in December ) . I took that as a rejection when he said that but regardless I like him as a person and really do wanna keep him in my life as a friend but I can’t help but have hope that one day he’ll see me as more than a friend . He told me he’d rather be friends with someone first before trying to make things official and make sure they’re the right person so that gave me a little bit of hope. However I don’t wanna get too hopeful and am still gonna casually date and also hook up with him cause sex lol . Eventually if I feel like we are just friends I’m gonna cut off the sex all together cause it’ll get too complicated down the line for the both of us when we start seein other people... Are Virgo guys usually like this ? Should I hang up the towel and drop any idea of being more ? Thanks 😩
