How much time to know when it's really over? (3weeks , 6months)?? Share your stories on when or if you stopped reaching out to a virgo man and he's returned when effort stopped...
How much time ??
Well for me the whole relationship was a constant push and pull. The last time when he didn't make contact after a week. I didn't bother reaching out anymore.
He started contacting me 8 months after.. but I've moved on with someone else.
He started contacting me 8 months after.. but I've moved on with someone else.
Posted by Pisces1803Wooow, 8 months after?? U're joking! Why would someone do that? Got nothing better to do?
Well for me the whole relationship was a constant push and pull. The last time when he didn't make contact after a week. I didn't bother reaching out anymore.
He started contacting me 8 months after.. but I've moved on with someone else.
It doesn't matter the sun sign, or the moon placement or any other placement ... if he comes and goes, and comes and goes....and then comes some more....he's not really interested in you. You're just the "in between" girl.
It sucks to say that, and it sucks even more to read this, I know!!! Been there, done that...but please, stop torturing yourself.
Be selfish! Is he making you happy right this moment? No? Cut him loose!
Well i was in a relantionship with a virgo man for 5 years. It was a roller coaster all this time. We used to break up every month or two..i was always the one to say "it's over" cause i was tired of his pull&push stuff..but he always used to come back..as he said he loved me..sometimes it took days, sometimes weeks or even months for him to come back.
Virgos are that way, i knew 3 virgo men in my life..all the same..
Virgos are that way, i knew 3 virgo men in my life..all the same..
If that helps i had a hookup with a virguy and after it was over he came back 6 weeks later with his apologies and stuff. He keeps texting me every week since and runs into places he knows i will be in. Can't help more as i am not interested in him anymore, but i didn't know virguys were persistent. I have the feeling that he came back right when he felt i was moving on with my life (i move on fast).
Posted by KikyHow could you do that and not go nuts— So much drama....aren't virgo suppose to be stable? And reliable? Being an eart sign....Also, this is just for virgo sun or other placements as well?
Well i was in a relantionship with a virgo man for 5 years. It was a roller coaster all this time. We used to break up every month or two..i was always the one to say "it's over" cause i was tired of his pull&push stuff..but he always used to come back..as he said he loved me..sometimes it took days, sometimes weeks or even months for him to come back.
Virgos are that way, i knew 3 virgo men in my life..all the same..
Does it ever end with virguys really? All we ever hear about here are virguys disappearing lol.
My first disappeared and came back after the weekend. And then he kept refusing to take me out but was still texting me. One night, I didn't reply to his texts at all because I was out, he called me at 1am, drunk and asking why I wasn't replying. I said I was still out. He said he would call me back in half an hour. I put my phone on silent mode and he called me 10x, left one voice message and 2 texts. Next morning I told him I don't want to talk to him anymore. Like ever. He still texts once in awhile.
My second poured his heart and soul out to me and accused me of being cold and not reciprocating. So I poured my deepest most inner feelings out to him. Poof he disappeared. It's only been 2 days but I have a feeling he won't return. Maybe ever. Who knows?
Do they ever return full on?
My first disappeared and came back after the weekend. And then he kept refusing to take me out but was still texting me. One night, I didn't reply to his texts at all because I was out, he called me at 1am, drunk and asking why I wasn't replying. I said I was still out. He said he would call me back in half an hour. I put my phone on silent mode and he called me 10x, left one voice message and 2 texts. Next morning I told him I don't want to talk to him anymore. Like ever. He still texts once in awhile.
My second poured his heart and soul out to me and accused me of being cold and not reciprocating. So I poured my deepest most inner feelings out to him. Poof he disappeared. It's only been 2 days but I have a feeling he won't return. Maybe ever. Who knows?
Do they ever return full on?
Posted by MishmorecookieVirgos do better around emotionally intelligent and stable people. You poured your heart out and he "disappeared" (this is subjective but that's another topic). You can't do anything other than continue living your daily life and wait to see if/when he returns.
Does it ever end with virguys really? All we ever hear about here are virguys disappearing lol.
My first disappeared and came back after the weekend. And then he kept refusing to take me out but was still texting me. One night, I didn't reply to his texts at all because I was out, he called me at 1am, drunk and asking why I wasn't replying. I said I was still out. He said he would call me back in half an hour. I put my phone on silent mode and he called me 10x, left one voice message and 2 texts. Next morning I told him I don't want to talk to him anymore. Like ever. He still texts once in awhile.
My second poured his heart and soul out to me and accused me of being cold and not reciprocating. So I poured my deepest most inner feelings out to him. Poof he disappeared. It's only been 2 days but I have a feeling he won't return. Maybe ever. Who knows?
Do they ever return full on?
When he does return, keep it light and move forward with whatever naturally proceeds in your interactions. Refrain from nagging and mulling over the details of how you feel vs what he did.
In my experience with Virgos, they can and will return 100% if you lead and model the way. But you have to be solid and healthy yourself in order to be effective.
Why do Virgo men hide their feelings?
I'm a virgo female with a virgo guy. He has stuck around for a long time. Keep the sex good and don't try to control him and don't give him shit for his bad habits. This virgo guy has sag rising. He wants to feel accepted and like you love who he really is and won't try to change him.
Posted by Eclipse80Has he ever tried to test you in your relationship? Like to see what will Or won't fly? Like as part of him being himself
I'm a virgo female with a virgo guy. He has stuck around for a long time. Keep the sex good and don't try to control him and don't give him shit for his bad habits. This virgo guy has sag rising. He wants to feel accepted and like you love who he really is and won't try to change him.
Posted by DiddybopPosted by Eclipse80Not that I'm aware of. He's very self-absorbed. I've tested him more than he's tested me. He goes to work and comes home and does his own thing. He's said more than once that if I don't like it, I can leave. As a Virgo myself, I appreciate that he gives me my own space and freedom. However we live like roommates. I don't want the drama of divorce, so I stay. I think he feels the same.
Has he ever tried to test you in your relationship? Like to see what will Or won't fly? Like as part of him being himselfclick to expand
Posted by Eclipse80Posted by DiddybopThat take it or leave it attitude would cut me but maybe since you're a Virgo too you feel the same way towards him? I give the Virgo I'm dating plenty of space and i need the same. But I do feel like he tests me sometimes to see if I care abt him and that he's probably more needy than he lets on.Posted by Eclipse80Not that I'm aware of. He's very self-absorbed. I've tested him more than he's tested me. He goes to work and comes home and does his own thing. He's said more than once that if I don't like it, I can leave. As a Virgo myself, I appreciate that he gives me my own space and freedom. However we live like roommates. I don't want the drama of divorce, so I stay. I think he feels the same.
Has he ever tried to test you in your relationship? Like to see what will Or won't fly? Like as part of him being himself
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From my observations it seems like Virgo men are on their best behavior when they're on the persuit. But once they're settled they just need good sex and to be left alone? lol I guess I understand. Are they faithful?
Posted by DiddybopPosted by Eclipse80Good sex followed with good head , and if you have the right mind set and ambition they'll be faithfulPosted by DiddybopThat take it or leave it attitude would cut me but maybe since you're a Virgo too you feel the same way towards him? I give the Virgo I'm dating plenty of space and i need the same. But I do feel like he tests me sometimes to see if I care abt him and that he's probably more needy than he lets on.Posted by Eclipse80Not that I'm aware of. He's very self-absorbed. I've tested him more than he's tested me. He goes to work and comes home and does his own thing. He's said more than once that if I don't like it, I can leave. As a Virgo myself, I appreciate that he gives me my own space and freedom. However we live like roommates. I don't want the drama of divorce, so I stay. I think he feels the same.
Has he ever tried to test you in your relationship? Like to see what will Or won't fly? Like as part of him being himself
From my observations it seems like Virgo men are on their best behavior when they're on the persuit. But once they're settled they just need good sex and to be left alone? lol I guess I understand. Are they faithful?click to expand
Posted by DiddybopPosted by Eclipse80Posted by DiddybopPosted by Eclipse80It seems like you get him. 😉 Mine has a cancer moon. He is into self-pity and martyrdom. He's very needy. I don't know of they're all like this. I have a feeling it's his moon. I have a taurus moon and tell him to **** off and get over himself daily. He retreats and I get some peace and quiet.
That take it or leave it attitude would cut me but maybe since you're a Virgo too you feel the same way towards him? I give the Virgo I'm dating plenty of space and i need the same. But I do feel like he tests me sometimes to see if I care abt him and that he's probably more needy than he lets on.
From my observations it seems like Virgo men are on their best behavior when they're on the persuit. But once they're settled they just need good sex and to be left alone? lol I guess I understand. Are they faithful?click to expand
We've both been faithful. I can't be bothered to cheat. I think he feels the same way. Cheating=too much drama. He isn't flirty with women in general.
He tells me that he was usually the one to break up his past relationships when people tried to control him. He has Sag rising.
I've stayed years in troubled relationships. My loyalty is pretty strong. I settle for what I have. Although the grass may appear greener, I know there's shit in all the other yards as well.
I respect loyalty, a sense of humour, appreciation, and good make-up sex.
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