how often do u like to meet? ME,Once a month

How often do you like to meet the one you're dating or your bf/gf?

I can't meet every week, it's too much for me as I like my space. Once a month is fine for me. Once every 3weeks if the guy insist on meeting me more often. I had to meet often in the past and felt suffocated. I have left a few men in the past because they wanted to meet me more often (understandable) and couldn't understand why I didn't want to meet often. So now I am with a super busy man who has to travel overseas often for business meetings. I prefer quality over quantity.

Is it normal for virgos to want this much of space in a relationship or am I just weird? How about you. What's your frequency? I know that in the dating phase we'd like to meet often to get to know the person & the passion you feel initially, but I need weeks to reflect on the last date and want to meet the man again.

Posted by CluelessCancer
OMG.

Throws the mic on the floor and walks out.

This is ridiculous.

I thought Virgo women were better?

*picks up the mic

"i love you clueless cancer!!!!"

haha youre so funny baby girl you say the funniest things

Posted by xdimplez
i would like to meet him, in my bed, every night. not just for sex, but to cuddle with. i like cuddle time

i wouldnt mind seeing them every day... or even three times a week. as long as we get to spend time quality time with each other, but also give each other our space...thats perfectly fine with me

i like the sound of three. we cant not see each other for more then three days, we cant not speak to each other for more then three days...someone has to reach out to one another

same here...why be with someone when you dont want to be with them evetyday?

I don't know but you sound more like a Scorpio to me. Some scorpios are like that in the beginning phase (some are clingy since the beginning) it will change months from now. you do have a scorpio placement don't you.

"He loves his space and hates being around people too much, I asked him why he see's so much of me. He said "you are not people, you are half of me" awww"

how sweet

This would typically apply to me. A Virgo female here ...

This too applies

"i would like to meet him, in my bed, every night. not just for sex, but to cuddle with. i like cuddle time

i wouldnt mind seeing them every day... or even three times a week. as long as we get to spend time quality time with each other, but also give each other our space...thats perfectly fine with me

i like the sound of three. we cant not see each other for more then three days, we cant not speak to each other for more then three days...someone has to reach out to one another"

but I would love to talk to them every day ... at least twice, once in the morning when I open my eyes and right before I go to bed

If we just started seeing each other..and I dig you, then about 3 times a week
If longer and Im in love with you, then every other day if not every day (for a couple hours at least)

I used to be like that; want TONS of space to reflect (maybe not 3 weeks; more like 2 weeks) but with this current guy I can't really get enough of him. I find myself a bit confused by this since it's so outside of my norm and trying to make myself not see him for fear I will rebel at some point...lol

Even with The Leo, once a week was enough. We're at like 3-5 times a week at this points...It's soo cliche'

@cluelesscancer you are friggin HILARIOUS! Pick up that mic woman; we don't allow messiness in the virgo forum!

Thx for the response, I will respond more over the weekend when I'm a lil free.
I do need lots of space in the Beginning, a week to you feels like 1 day only to me. Space seems foreign to most of you. It makes me wonder if this is the reason most women have problems with virgos.