Posted by truecap
But if you play dumb to be successful with women, you're going to continue to be disappointed in finding someone for a long term relationship. You're not going to be happy with any woman you date. Besides, the more dumb chicks you date, the less likely a smart woman will be attracted to you.
Still better to be yourself and find someone perfect for you.
I find it funny to find an article like this directed to men, advising men to play dumb. Women have dealt with the issue all our lives. 'men don't like smart girls' momma said. Momma was wrong!
Posted by LIb4Life
Well, it only takes a few minutes into a conversation to gauge a person's intelligence, and once you figure that out, you decide to continue on or move on. However, if you're in it for sex, then you're thinking with the wrong head resulting in a not so intelligent decision made by the man.
Wow @ Virgoking..have you personally entertained that many HOT GIRLS" in your young years to come up with the analogy that intelligent women are easier to sleep with resulting in more one night stands? You don't appear too be that old to have that many experiences or you just have a baby face..LOL.
Like Truecap said..it's better to be yourself and let intelligence seek you out. One should never dumb themselves down to make a point. I am a firm believer that you are what you are attract.
Posted by honeejrPosted by virgoking
Also I think the person who wrote this article was talking about women that are 10 and higher. Now as you date more attractive women they do seem dumb some are really dumb and superficial some are not and are pretending to be dumb because they think that's what men like. I don't know where that myth came from.
Look at Society..Media...men flock to women with big boobs and butt...with all the extra's..So women see this and see what "attracts" a man and grows up with this mentality. I have my granddaughter who is 14 tell me she needs to get fake boobs...I mean really. I had a long talk with her and will continue because her feelings were what she saw around her and on TV. We need to emphasize intelligence is sexy to our young girls. Negativity is easy to spread. It is easy to maintain and easy to believe. Men need to outwardly emphasize that they actually like women who are more than just a body. Sex is in demand...it sells...if intelligence was in demand..guess what would happen? It all begins with change......click to expand
Posted by honeejrPosted by virgoking
Also I think the person who wrote this article was talking about women that are 10 and higher. Now as you date more attractive women they do seem dumb some are really dumb and superficial some are not and are pretending to be dumb because they think that's what men like. I don't know where that myth came from.
Look at Society..Media...men flock to women with big boobs and butt...with all the extra's..So women see this and see what "attracts" a man and grows up with this mentality. I have my granddaughter who is 14 tell me she needs to get fake boobs...I mean really. I had a long talk with her and will continue because her feelings were what she saw around her and on TV. We need to emphasize intelligence is sexy to our young girls. Negativity is easy to spread. It is easy to maintain and easy to believe. Men need to outwardly emphasize that they actually like women who are more than just a body. Sex is in demand...it sells...if intelligence was in demand..guess what would happen? It all begins with change......click to expand
Posted by tiziani
I think the article was playing dumb. Irony. A lot of stereotypes that aren't backed up by credible experience.
Posted by honeejr
Some days, and I'm being candid, I really wish I was plain jane.....
Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by virgoking
It??s a common misconception that intelligent guys find it easy to sleep with stupid girls. This couldn??t be more wrong. Actually, intelligent women are much easier to sleep with because you can have meaningful conversations, relate to them and easily impress them with your intellect and knowledge. They??re also going to be more free spirited and less influenced by their friends, which tends to mean more one night stands. On the other hand, less intelligent girls are easily impressed by good looks and drama.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by honeejr
Well typically with me because I am good looking I automatically get put in the "shes dumb as a doorknob" category. I am an accountant, getting a degree in Psychology, play chess, know about physics, literature, etc. I get passed over by the men who I am attracted to..smart nerdy ones. I have to go chase men and that isn't in my DNA..I end up with losers who pretend they are more than they are. Then I have a situation where I need to RUN!
Thus I've been single since 07...dating here and there and recognizing these losers and not getting involved anymore. Some days, and I'm being candid, I really wish I was plain jane.....the best we can be is ourselves and trust the right person will enter our lives to enhance it.
I have never read so much BS on a post. Men don't date me cause i'm too hot.
oh sheet....click to expand
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