how quickly do virgos get over Crushes???
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by aquatar1 on Tuesday, December 18, 2018 and has 7 replies.
A virgo in question seemed to be into me too, receptive, would try to talk to me etc. etc. And then one day I had a pretty heavy workload day and so I ignored pretty much everyone and just focused on me and after that he's been distant and just meh *this was in a span of 72 hrs lol*, I'd approach him to talk about topics he used to be excited to talk to me about and he'd be kinda "whatever" about it attitude wise.... How quickly do y'all get over someone you're interested in, damn?
72 hours is 3 days.
So you left him hanging for 3 days without a word? Anybody would feel neglected if they are your partner.
How would you feel in his shoes?
So you left him hanging for 3 days without a word? Anybody would feel neglected if they are your partner.
How would you feel in his shoes?
I can't speak for him.
But as for me, externally, I'm always calm and poker faced.
Inside, I'm a whirlwind of emotion. I can get over a crush as quickly as I fall for one. With that said, I'm highly selective in choosing a partner, so if I'm crushing, you met all of my high criteria. I won't feel you're worth losing, so I'll dig in. When I feel I've found a high caliber mate, I tend to stick it out long after everyone else would have given up.
I would definitely feel burned, and I'd be a mix of pissed and hurt, and I'd likely take a long time to make a move on you again if left to deal with it myself.
But if you were to flirt or initiate with me, and put in 100% of the effort to set it right, you'd win me back instantly like it never happened. The onus is on you after you burn me (intentionally or not).
But again, that's me. It could just be my proud Leo venus talking. Idk. But I do consider myself to be a pretty standard Virgo.
But as for me, externally, I'm always calm and poker faced.
Inside, I'm a whirlwind of emotion. I can get over a crush as quickly as I fall for one. With that said, I'm highly selective in choosing a partner, so if I'm crushing, you met all of my high criteria. I won't feel you're worth losing, so I'll dig in. When I feel I've found a high caliber mate, I tend to stick it out long after everyone else would have given up.
I would definitely feel burned, and I'd be a mix of pissed and hurt, and I'd likely take a long time to make a move on you again if left to deal with it myself.
But if you were to flirt or initiate with me, and put in 100% of the effort to set it right, you'd win me back instantly like it never happened. The onus is on you after you burn me (intentionally or not).
But again, that's me. It could just be my proud Leo venus talking. Idk. But I do consider myself to be a pretty standard Virgo.
Posted by IceVirgWat they said.
I can't speak for him.
But as for me, externally, I'm always calm and poker faced.
Inside, I'm a whirlwind of emotion. I can get over a crush as quickly as I fall for one. With that said, I'm highly selective in choosing a partner, so if I'm crushing, you met all of my high criteria. I won't feel you're worth losing, so I'll dig in. When I feel I've found a high caliber mate, I tend to stick it out long after everyone else would have given up.
I would definitely feel burned, and I'd be a mix of pissed and hurt, and I'd likely take a long time to make a move on you again if left to deal with it myself.
But if you were to flirt or initiate with me, and put in 100% of the effort to set it right, you'd win me back instantly like it never happened. The onus is on you after you burn me (intentionally or not).
But again, that's me. It could just be my proud Leo venus talking. Idk. But I do consider myself to be a pretty standard Virgo.
I would feel burned/rejected in someway so yes nonchalant....like ok Watever
But if u 100% effort for awhile all is forgiven. Just don’t do it again
Posted by GemitatiNo no I didnt leave him hanging, i only ignored him that one day, then after that i was back to normal but he was kinda like nonchalant and whatever so I figured I'd not bother him lol
72 hours is 3 days.
So you left him hanging for 3 days without a word? Anybody would feel neglected if they are your partner.
How would you feel in his shoes?
To add on, I'm incredibly understanding, but I'm also HUGE on manners and courtesies.
In your case, if you have to get a lot done for work/school/whatever, and you need to shut yourself in, I'm completely understanding and cool with it....... if...... you give me some kind of a heads up BEFORE it happens. Even something as nonchalant as "blah blah blah, yeah, I've got a lot coming up, so you probably won't hear from me much on wednesday" is adequate. That way I can know it's coming. I can plan on your absence.
If you just go cold one day, I'm gonna draw my own conclusions and theories, and they'll all be worst case. Virgos are quick to doubt and worry. Don't do that. Don't surprise a Virgo ever.
If you try to explain it after the fact, I'll still understand, but there will be a tinge of hurt and anger and disrespect mixed in. Whereas if you just said it beforehand, I'd understand, but I'd also be cool with it, and would not have worried about it.
In your case, if you have to get a lot done for work/school/whatever, and you need to shut yourself in, I'm completely understanding and cool with it....... if...... you give me some kind of a heads up BEFORE it happens. Even something as nonchalant as "blah blah blah, yeah, I've got a lot coming up, so you probably won't hear from me much on wednesday" is adequate. That way I can know it's coming. I can plan on your absence.
If you just go cold one day, I'm gonna draw my own conclusions and theories, and they'll all be worst case. Virgos are quick to doubt and worry. Don't do that. Don't surprise a Virgo ever.
If you try to explain it after the fact, I'll still understand, but there will be a tinge of hurt and anger and disrespect mixed in. Whereas if you just said it beforehand, I'd understand, but I'd also be cool with it, and would not have worried about it.
I had a crush on cancer once. He was so sweet,simple,funny and full of life. I just loved the way he was,just perfect. It took me 1 year to finally let him go and move on. Note: virgos can't let go easily. But virgo man move on pretty quickly then virgo woman. That person i am talking bout,i had 4 years of crush on him, when i finally proposed him, he rejected. So ya,i know he had his feelings but he was sonething i cant forget. His persoanlity was so different,when i talk about him i feel like i am lost in him. Its just the effects of first love tho.
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