How to deal with Virgo guy

Short version:

Birthday is Sept. 12th 1972

Talked online via FB a few months back. Finally moved to area. We met up about a week ago.

1: The stare Ive read about, seems to be true. Caught him doing it but would look away when Id catch him.

2: Asks me a MILLION questions but trying to get him to open up is like extracting a tooth that dont need pulling.

3: I 'feel' like he is testing/analyzing the hell out of me.

4: He's very sarcastic and likes to see how far he can push my buttons. Does not like being told no. Someone trying to tell me what to do? Hell naw!! Seems very guarded and private. I decided to look at his stats from the beginning and he seems to have a begative view of women and relationships. He is a divorced, single dad.

5: The whole like having the belly played or kisses is VERY true.

6: Met up again last night and midly got into it cause he surely doesnt seem to have a problem expressing himself physically or sexually. While 'fooling aka bumping bodies with clothes on..lol' around he kept asking me if I was his woman, yada, yada, yada and I said whatever. Got highly upset over my saying it. First off, Im not about to have unprotected sex and secondily, Im not going there sexually (oral or 'all the way') with anyone until Im deeply committed to someone. He knew this from the jump but proceeded to say I was playing games. I wasnt about to cause some emotional outburst, so I left.

OMG your avatar is so lovely!




Good Luck with virgo comments.

Thanks Spica

I have all kinds of typos

begative = negative

kisses = kissed

midly = mildly

I\'ve noticed this spica chick has been on here more often and some of the other gals...Interest in a virgo.

You should get a water hoes and spray him down.

Posted by wgamador

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
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5: The whole like having the belly played or kisses is VERY true.

6: Met up again last night and midly got into it cause he surely doesnt seem to have a problem expressing himself physically or sexually. While 'fooling aka bumping bodies with clothes on..lol'

Oh man...is it wrong that I still enjoy dry-humping sometimes? It reminds me of when the machine was a young boy.

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That's so high school. Betta take them clothes off boy.

Im bout to cyber fight yall...lol

Dry humping is safer...lol.

I do know one thing, he is testing my d*mn patience but Im ramining calm, cool and collected. I did manage to get him to laugh last night. That was a first.

Posted by wgamador

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by wgamador

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
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5: The whole like having the belly played or kisses is VERY true.

6: Met up again last night and midly got into it cause he surely doesnt seem to have a problem expressing himself physically or sexually. While 'fooling aka bumping bodies with clothes on..lol'

Oh man...is it wrong that I still enjoy dry-humping sometimes? It reminds me of when the machine was a young boy.

That's so high school. Betta take them clothes off boy.

LOL. Clothes come off. No doubt.

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I'm sure they do with your sexy ass.

Are Virgos more submissive or aggressive? I think he likes to think he's in control.

Yall make it seem like dry humping is such a bad thing. I will dry hump like theres no tomorrow. Yall best get with the program. I have an instructional video Im selling for $ 19.95 on the proper techniques of dry humping. Free shipping and handling.

Posted by MsLovelyLibra


Yall make it seem like dry humping is such a bad thing. I will dry hump like theres no tomorrow. Yall best get with the program. I have an instructional video Im selling for $ 19.95 on the proper techniques of dry humping. Free shipping and handling.

We're just joking. Well, at least I am. That vid sounds like a money maker.

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by MsLovelyLibra


Yall make it seem like dry humping is such a bad thing. I will dry hump like theres no tomorrow. Yall best get with the program. I have an instructional video Im selling for $ 19.95 on the proper techniques of dry humping. Free shipping and handling.

We're just joking. Well, at least I am. That vid sounds like a money maker.

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You werent joking...lol

Im not using real folks...theyre all animated...lol. My momma aint bout to slap me into the middle of next week for making p.o.r.n. LOL!!

Wondering why Im not getting any advice. Virgos must be stubborn too. Runs that way ~~~~>

Posted by MsLovelyLibra

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by MsLovelyLibra


Yall make it seem like dry humping is such a bad thing. I will dry hump like theres no tomorrow. Yall best get with the program. I have an instructional video Im selling for $ 19.95 on the proper techniques of dry humping. Free shipping and handling.

We're just joking. Well, at least I am. That vid sounds like a money maker.

You werent joking...lol

Im not using real folks...theyre all animated...lol. My momma aint bout to slap me into the middle of next week for making p.o.r.n. LOL!!

Wondering why Im not getting any advice. Virgos must be stubborn too. Runs that way ~~~~>

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I was MsLL! Honest!

Cartoons? Love it! So clever. How old are you might I ask? I mean, you don't have to be a grown woman for your momma to slap you into next week but, LMAO...this is too funny!

Im 41. And my momma is Southern. Im talkin' bout deeeep down Southern sooooo, I would like to keep my tastebuds in tact. LOL

LOL @ "keep my tastebuds in tact" and I know what you mean about those Southern mommas. LOL. They are no joke. They will kick your ass so fast and they won't even need a switch to do it. Ahhhh...gotta love 'em.

Posted by 25thDecan
No advice? Some of us work/hustle too....
Anyway, sounds like a dude who's simply eager to hit it with..you...cuz you won't say you're his "girl"...you don't wanna be pushed....remain consistent. Don't wanna have sex without abcondom? I applaud you. Stick to your guns and tell his anxious arse to learn that trojans are wonderful. And be patient. You don't need to "deal" with this man. You need to get to know him. Dealing involves conditions and "guiding" or "teaching" your mate. Quite unnatural and lends to resentment later.

He sent me a message a while ago, apologizing but then went on to say that he doesnt like to be told no and to basically get over it. That it cant happen again. My response - Short version - Boy stop!! Im not a yes type of woman and if thats what hes expecting...not happening. I dont know, my gut feeling is telling me he's testing my character.

I dont think he even knows how to have fun. Besides work or having to do something with his son, he is homebody. He is the complete opposite of me. I can say that he is very intellectual and thats what drew me to him to begin with. But now, omg, since we have really been talking..well I do most of the talking cause again, he questions me to no end but is so d*mn guarded/private. I read that it takes A LOT of patience dealing with Virgos.

I dont know bout this whole having a lot of patience in order to deal with a Virgo, cause Im 'bout ready to choke the hell out of him. Disclaimer: I do not condone violence..lol

Posted by DyTryin

Okay... another Libra Woman trying to connect with a Virgo Man.

It's Twilight Time...

Don't let the sun go down on me
Although I search myself, it's always someone else I see
I'd just allow a fragment of your life to wander free
But losing everything is like the sun going down on me

Actually, he's not that hard to figure out. He's just making himself out to be. Im actually getting more convrsation out of him now, by telling his behind this aint no Burger King, so he aint gone have it his way, than I have since we first connected. I aint backing down from him. He can try me with the mind games if he wants to. End up getting his feelings hurt but on the real...He has been communicating with me alot today.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
I\'ve noticed this spica chick has been on here more often and some of the other gals...Interest in a virgo.

You should get a water hoes and spray him down.

No, I'm attached. My guy has a Virgo DSC is all. I'm interested in the Virgonic aspects within myself.
😉

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Indeed, just never listen to the ever-condescending spica and her crystal ball claims 🙂

Erh..

I wish I had a crystal ball and have psychical powers to dispel Shak's negativity! I charge $ 18.00/ per minute

bwahahahahah!

He sounds like a controlling jerk that just wants in your pants. Once he's had what he wants, he'll either step up the control (while probably steppin' out with the rest of his harem) or let you slide right back in the water. The latter will almost certainly happen after you put your foot down a time or two. I can't imagine he wants anything even remotely resembling of a true connection with you.

Posted by 25thDecan
No advice? Some of us work/hustle too....
Anyway, sounds like a dude who's simply eager to hit it with..you...cuz you won't say you're his "girl"...you don't wanna be pushed....remain consistent. Don't wanna have sex without abcondom? I applaud you. Stick to your guns and tell his anxious arse to learn that trojans are wonderful. And be patient. You don't need to "deal" with this man. You need to get to know him. Dealing involves conditions and "guiding" or "teaching" your mate. Quite unnatural and lends to resentment later.

The only way he's going to 'hit' this is in his dreams. I had to ask myself exactly what it was that I was wanting from him. Friendship first cause Im not 'actively' searching for more. Let him tell it, Im already in love with him. I thinks not.

Posted by **StringsAttached**
He sounds like a controlling jerk that just wants in your pants. Once he's had what he wants, he'll either step up the control (while probably steppin' out with the rest of his harem) or let you slide right back in the water. The latter will almost certainly happen after you put your foot down a time or two. I can't imagine he wants anything even remotely resembling of a true connection with you.

My gut feelings tell me he tries to be controlling cause of insecurity. Im jus sayin'. He can let me slide back in the water. I know how to swim, well doggy paddle...lol. Im staying grounded in what I believe and theres nothing he can do or say to change that. I know some think that Libras tend to be gullible. Yeah, in my younger days.

Personally, at this stage in my life, I would say Virgo man- Libra woman are incompatible as rain and snow. But I can't say for very sure though; perhaps it depends on what you both want out of life. There's something about virgo and libra that makes you *think* you're so the same.. but it's that 3% crucial difference that reveals a glaring incompatibility.

Thinking of all the virgo guys I've come across, even that roomie who seemed to have fallen in love with me.. I think the moment its over, he'd get over me pretty quick, and that to me is testimonial its not even meant to be.

whenever Mr Virgo text me its just to ask what Im doing. i respond with what im doing. last night he text me with that same question and i told him i was thinking about him which i was at the time. the text went like this: him: what are you doing? me: thinking about you? him: no youre not. me: yes i am and then it takes awhile for him to respond back. him: you should buy me this video game i want. me: we arent on that level. him: yes we are. me: i wasnt made aware of that sooo and then nothing. I also noticed the nervousness the 2xs we were together. He was constantly biting his fingernails after he would call me over to sit with him. it would take a hot minute cause he was telling me to do so instead of asking and then proceed to say something smart.. ive learned not to let it get to me. he knows im very serious about staying abstinent and he seems ok with it although i know he will probably try again the next time we meet. he is still very quiet and reserved when i ask him questions. whats the best

whenever Mr Virgo text me its just to ask what Im doing. i respond with what im doing. last night he text me with that same question and i told him i was thinking about him which i was at the time. the text went like this: him: what are you doing? me: thinking about you? him: no youre not. me: yes i am and then it takes awhile for him to respond back. him: you should buy me this video game i want. me: we arent on that level. him: yes we are. me: i wasnt made aware of that sooo and then nothing. I also noticed the nervousness the 2xs we were together. He was constantly biting his fingernails after he would call me over to sit with him. it would take a hot minute cause he was telling me to do so instead of asking and then proceed to say something smart.. ive learned not to let it get to me. he knows im very serious about staying abstinent and he seems ok with it although i know he will probably try again the next time we meet. he is still very quiet and reserved when i ask him questions. whats the best

Approach here?

I'm curious Mslovelylibra did you use to be MsLibra69 on this site?

I'm curious Mslovelylibra did you use to be MsLibra69 on this site?