How to reject a Virgo?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by littlescorpio on Friday, March 15, 2013 and has 5 replies.
I know what you're thinking. But no, my virgo friend is trying to sell me financial products. And he's very persistent. I'm starting to get irritated. Thing is, I have signed up many with my other friends. But he's my friend, how do I reject him?
if he's your friend he should understand that you're a friend, not a client. i had a virgo guy friend who would stencil his own hoodies, good graphics n ideas, but he would jack up the prices. i don't expect a discount, but they were basically 10 dollars less than in a store. politely tell him you're not interested n then if he still persists, you may need a new friend. to me, at least, he should respect that opinion.
It's not good to mix friendship and money.It can get awkward.Now you are in the client lane instead of the friend status.Pick a relaxing time to tell him thanks,but no thanks.You're a pal and not a paycheck!You might have to fade away from him for awhile,because he seems to be in sell mode only.If the friendship is strong,you'll reconnect again.
Posted by VullcanLazz
It's not good to mix friendship and money.It can get awkward.Now you are in the client lane instead of the friend status.Pick a relaxing time to tell him thanks,but no thanks.You're a pal and not a paycheck!You might have to fade away from him for awhile,because he seems to be in sell mode only.If the friendship is strong,you'll reconnect again.


I completely agree with you. Some business arrangements between friends can work out, but not on a friend-client base. That destroys the friendship cuz the Seller expects to make money off the Friend cuz the "that's what friends do" mentality is in full effect. It ultimately killed the friendship for me, due to a discrepancy with a zip down hooded sweatshirt with a broken zipper which he dicked me around for for 3 months, then got mad when I told him I was sick of waiting and just went to a tailor shop and got it done in less than a day. This was all years ago, he's since moved across the country to do god knows what in Cali.
Ahaha! Just tell him no. Flat out, stern, "I'm dead fucking serious" no. Some people are always trying to make a quick buck and reel people in. People like that in general (not just Virgs) can get so persistent. If he's a real friend-and not just someone trying to prey on you- he'll keep it moving. If he's a good friend I can't see him saying, you know, "never talk to me again if you're not going to get in on this hedge fund." lol Just say "No damnit! I don't have time for this!"

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