How to win back Virgo boyfriend?

Posted by Kk2017
It was my fault and I'm having his child

Posted by Kk2017
He's ignoring me but this is only the third day

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Helppppp

no !

find another one !

Yes! Please do 😷

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Posted by meh
Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

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Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

Never said to "ex him out of [your] life forever". Just said to focus on your child.

Are you going to use the child to bring him back?



Why not begin to plan raising the child as best as you can with or without the Virgo?

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Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

he's ignoring you but hasn't blocked you or anything?

i think both of you have things to apologize for

you more than him

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Posted by meh
Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

he's ignoring you but hasn't blocked you or anything?

i think both of you have things to apologize for

you more than him

Instantly after I posted a snap on my Snapchat and he viewed then deleted me but he hasn't blocked my number....

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

Posted by Kk2017
Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

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We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

only been months and they're having a baby

but then again she's a sag

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

only been months and they're having a baby

but then again she's a sag

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

only been months and they're having a baby

but then again she's a sag

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Are you the father in a dxp member guise

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Posted by Kk2017
Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.

he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

only been months and they're having a baby

but then again she's a sag

Are you the father in a dxp member guise

maury says no 😆

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Posted by LibWman

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Posted by Kk2017
We’ve met months ago at our workplace.



he’s my best friend and right hand so used to talking to him alllll day.

You've known him for two months and he's already your best friend?? Damn thats a harsh blow to your demoted bestie.

only been months and they're having a baby

but then again she's a sag

Are you the father in a dxp member guise

maury says no 😆

Oh that was supposed to be funny sorry for my delayed reaction. Hahahahahaha never knew Maury hid behind a counter screen

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Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

Trust me I know and I have no problem with taking ownership. Like I said I stopped doing that months ago and I confessed. He's even said he doesn't think I've cheated but he thinks I flirt with other people which isn't true. But I can't blame anyone but myself. The thing that really drew the line for him was the incident Friday and I was pleading and kept him up and he kept saying he had to wake up early. That we could finish the conversation the next day and I wouldn't listen.

what's the longest he ignored you after a fight?

you say this is the third day

is this the longest?

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Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

Trust me I know and I have no problem with taking ownership. Like I said I stopped doing that months ago and I confessed. He's even said he doesn't think I've cheated but he thinks I flirt with other people which isn't true. But I can't blame anyone but myself. The thing that really drew the line for him was the incident Friday and I was pleading and kept him up and he kept saying he had to wake up early. That we could finish the conversation the next day and I wouldn't listen.

what's the longest he ignored you after a fight?

you say this is the third day

is this the longest?

Maybe 4 days. After I gave him space and stopped texting. The first two days I texted him several times then I stopped gathering the bit of pride I had left. Two days later I reached out and he responded. He started ignoring me Saturday morning that just passed.

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Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

Trust me I know and I have no problem with taking ownership. Like I said I stopped doing that months ago and I confessed. He's even said he doesn't think I've cheated but he thinks I flirt with other people which isn't true. But I can't blame anyone but myself. The thing that really drew the line for him was the incident Friday and I was pleading and kept him up and he kept saying he had to wake up early. That we could finish the conversation the next day and I wouldn't listen.

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Posted by Kk2017

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Kk2017
Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

Trust me I know and I have no problem with taking ownership. Like I said I stopped doing that months ago and I confessed. He's even said he doesn't think I've cheated but he thinks I flirt with other people which isn't true. But I can't blame anyone but myself. The thing that really drew the line for him was the incident Friday and I was pleading and kept him up and he kept saying he had to wake up early. That we could finish the conversation the next day and I wouldn't listen.

Just cause you owned up doesn't mean its all good. He still has doubt. Anyone would if they knew someone for under a year who played games like they were fucking other people...and then said 'babe I'm preggers and btw I was joking about fucking rando peen".

He's gonna ask you for a paternity test, watch.

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Then soon after I became pregnant by him which I currently still am. Made him jealous so much telling white lies just to see his reaction which was stupid. It became reassurance for me and I used it to my advantage all the while having just as much feelings for him if not more…never cheated or anything physical or even emotional with another person my games led him to that impression.

But he broke up with me saying he doesn’t want to be disrespected anymore that I don’t understand the meaning of a relationship was very unsympathetic about it which is understandable.

Why are you playing games and making him believe you may have cheated?? Now he's gonna question if your child is really his. Your fucking things up for you kid, I hope you know that.

Trust me I know and I have no problem with taking ownership. Like I said I stopped doing that months ago and I confessed. He's even said he doesn't think I've cheated but he thinks I flirt with other people which isn't true. But I can't blame anyone but myself. The thing that really drew the line for him was the incident Friday and I was pleading and kept him up and he kept saying he had to wake up early. That we could finish the conversation the next day and I wouldn't listen.

what's the longest he ignored you after a fight?

you say this is the third day

is this the longest?

Maybe 4 days. After I gave him space and stopped texting. The first two days I texted him several times then I stopped gathering the bit of pride I had left. Two days later I reached out and he responded. He started ignoring me Saturday morning that just passed.

maybe he just needs some time to chill and think

then he'll come around

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Posted by meh
Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

Never said to "ex him out of [your] life forever". Just said to focus on your child.

Are you going to use the child to bring him back?



Why not begin to plan raising the child as best as you can with or without the Virgo?

Ive always felt like having a child doesn't mean you have to stay with someone. I have been prepping myself for this child doing things on my own I am very independent. I can get things done and support on my own as well. We've talked about being a family though and having more children. And there's been times we've fought and we've given each other days to think and we always fix it. He might just be fed up and I do want him as my guy I would feel that way with or without a child.

That's good.

Unfortunately some people are just all talk. If he really wants to be a family he'll have to prove that with his actions.

Maybe once he sees that you can support your child on your own without him, it'll encourage him to create the family you envisioned together. His actions will speak louder than his words.

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Posted by meh
Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

Never said to "ex him out of [your] life forever". Just said to focus on your child.

Are you going to use the child to bring him back?



Why not begin to plan raising the child as best as you can with or without the Virgo?

Ive always felt like having a child doesn't mean you have to stay with someone. I have been prepping myself for this child doing things on my own I am very independent. I can get things done and support on my own as well. We've talked about being a family though and having more children. And there's been times we've fought and we've given each other days to think and we always fix it. He might just be fed up and I do want him as my guy I would feel that way with or without a child.

That's good.

Unfortunately some people are just all talk. If he really wants to be a family he'll have to prove that with his actions.

Maybe once he sees that you can support your child on your own without him, it'll encourage him to create the family you envisioned together. His actions will speak louder than his words.

Oh I can. I've just got a new job today actually and I have a lot of money in the bank when he had money problems I've always been the one to help him.... and I'm supposed to be moving into an apartment by the end of the month. As he still lives with his parents....and super past due

I see. As the stable one of the two, show him that you don't need him. Instead you want this to work out for your family. Sounds like he's the one who needs to step it up.

You don't need to win him back because he's not a prize from a game.

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Posted by meh
Instead of worrying about how to bring the Virgo back, you should focus on your child.

It's HIS child that I'm having. And we're supposed to be moving in together I can't just ex him out Of my live forever.

Never said to "ex him out of [your] life forever". Just said to focus on your child.

Are you going to use the child to bring him back?



Why not begin to plan raising the child as best as you can with or without the Virgo?

Ive always felt like having a child doesn't mean you have to stay with someone. I have been prepping myself for this child doing things on my own I am very independent. I can get things done and support on my own as well. We've talked about being a family though and having more children. And there's been times we've fought and we've given each other days to think and we always fix it. He might just be fed up and I do want him as my guy I would feel that way with or without a child.

That's good.

Unfortunately some people are just all talk. If he really wants to be a family he'll have to prove that with his actions.

Maybe once he sees that you can support your child on your own without him, it'll encourage him to create the family you envisioned together. His actions will speak louder than his words.

Oh I can. I've just got a new job today actually and I have a lot of money in the bank when he had money problems I've always been the one to help him.... and I'm supposed to be moving into an apartment by the end of the month. As he still lives with his parents....and super past due

I see. As the stable one of the two, show him that you don't need him. Instead you want this to work out for your family. Sounds like he's the one who needs to step it up.

You don't need to win him back because he's not a prize from a game.

Never looked at it that way you are so right

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Posted by Miaou
Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/

I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/

I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

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Posted by Miaou
Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/

I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

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Posted by Miaou
Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

i wish you'd send him this

so he knows that it's not only you to be blamed

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

i wish you'd send him this

so he knows that it's not only you to be blamed

Oh trust me I sent him a message last night expressing how I was assaulted during our relationship he wasn't there several incidences where I've needed him never there. Now my mother not that it's his problem you could at least ask me how I'm doing and understand I come from. But in his mind he does no wrong and he justifies everything he did with something I did. There's no understanding with him. He says he isn't angry but idk why be so ive towards with me if there wasn't any underlined feelings. I've said all the words possible he just doesn't find fault within himself externally

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

i wish you'd send him this

so he knows that it's not only you to be blamed

Oh trust me I sent him a message last night expressing how I was assaulted during our relationship he wasn't there several incidences where I've needed him never there. Now my mother not that it's his problem you could at least ask me how I'm doing and understand I come from. But in his mind he does no wrong and he justifies everything he did with something I did. There's no understanding with him. He says he isn't angry but idk why be so ive towards with me if there wasn't any underlined feelings. I've said all the words possible he just doesn't find fault within himself externally

I just wonder how we'll be able to move forward as far as our communication we do have a child coming. He ant ignore me forever but Idk I'll give him space hoping he can get over himself. Still don't know the emotions he's feelings.

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

i wish you'd send him this

so he knows that it's not only you to be blamed

Oh trust me I sent him a message last night expressing how I was assaulted during our relationship he wasn't there several incidences where I've needed him never there. Now my mother not that it's his problem you could at least ask me how I'm doing and understand I come from. But in his mind he does no wrong and he justifies everything he did with something I did. There's no understanding with him. He says he isn't angry but idk why be so ive towards with me if there wasn't any underlined feelings. I've said all the words possible he just doesn't find fault within himself externally

I just wonder how we'll be able to move forward as far as our communication we do have a child coming. He ant ignore me forever but Idk I'll give him space hoping he can get over himself. Still don't know the emotions he's feelings.

Then ask. Tell him how he feels about the whole fact that you both are going to have a kid. He might just be scared of the whole concept that he's having a kid and going to be father. Ask and you shall receive.

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Sag and Virgo..what a weird combo :/



I'm sorry you're going through this...especially pregnant...

Learn to tone down the childish games, they are poison for relationships - insecure or not.

Your boyfriend didn't stop loving you overnight.

Apologize ...genuine apology....and let him be.

If there's still love there, you'll hear from him.

If not ..you'll survive.. and hopefully focus on your pregnancy/baby.

He always told me he'll take care of his child regardless of whatever especially growing up without a father. I'm sorry as well but it's really my fault I can't really be angry. My problem is I can't stop texting him I feel so bad but when you're used to talking to someone everyday it's hard to just stop completely. The issue really lies he tried to break up with me took me to dinner and everything. Then when taking me home I started pleading and crying making an ass out of myself and he told me we could talk about it the following day but he had a 16 hour shift to work the next day and was only going to get 4 hours of sleep. I held him up and he blacked out on me. He told my best friend that I caused him to get out of character and I was being selfish. Which I was. And I did sincerely apologize last night and I left it alone. So he forgave me for the lies but

I pushed him out of character

Breathe.

First off..stop texting him.

He already knows how horrible you're feeling, you told him everything you could at this point.

Surely you have someone you can confide in and talk to ..surround yourself of people closest to you.

Whatever you do..stop texting/contacting him.

Let him contact you, let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you.

Not being with you doesn't mean he won't be there for his child..surely you know that babies don't keep people together if there's no more mutual love, respect and understanding.

He clearly needs time to himself, if he tried breaking up with you nicely he might be done...& you'll be okay regardless.

He text me breaking up with me telling me how much of a horrible person I am etc. how he hopes all these negative things happen to me. And doesn't want to hear from me ever again I know I don't deserve him but that was extremely harsh I feel like I'm not worth anything I guess I deserved it. But I got my answer.

Stop saying you don't deserve him.... Nobody's perfect and I'm sure he's got his flaws too.

Yes you have your answer : you shouldn't wanna be with someone who speaks to you like that.

Upset or not.

I know it's just so hard. I feel like I just got hit by a car. He totally made me feel like I'm a horrible person as well. I just I don't know what to say

So I just found out my mother has cancer and is in the hospital my best friend expressed this to him. And he told my bff he had no idea and felt bad. He still feels like he did nothing wrong and I didn't give him a sincere apology which is lies lies and more lies. I'm not giving him that satisfaction whatsoever. I simply told him I don't need him in my life and that I will take care of my future son on my own since he wants to just block me out I won't tolerate if. He has no idea how it feels to carry a child and to be in this alone. Not that I'm expecting sympathy but support being there when I need him most would just be appreciated. Never knew how evil virgos could be. He ignored that and I blocked his number and he adds me back on Snapchat today wtf. But I deleted him off that too..what's his deal

looks like he's reaching back out

but you're not in the mood anymore

you originally set out with the question of how to bring him back

but now you wanna punish him for doing exactly what you wanted

he's a jerk for calling your apologies insincere

but you gotta admit that playing your games may have contributed to that

I can't speak this for all Virgos because I have a lovely Virgo friend but I realize some tendencies in her as well never wanting to Admit when wrong. There's always a justification I sent him a video apology that was 6 minutes long now tell me that wasn't sincere?? I'm never one to play victim I can take ownership for what I do and yes throughout our entire relationship he was very patient I'd be lying if I said he didn't give me several chances. Nonetheless him not expressing his emotions fully to me I never quite knew what was on his mind. We talked everyday all day always made time for me sacrificed etc. by the actual words never came out his mouth. And honestly speaking all the men ever in my life have been liars and manipulators and it made me play games that's what I know best. But with him he was so good too good it made me scared to be 100% vulnerable to him so I never fully gave him me. And he expressed to me that it was never about the sex or money or things I did for him he genuinely just wanted all of me and I never gave that to him. I was wrong for lying but I know he knows deep inside I love him. He heard me crying and upset didn't show any emotion and he's cheated on me once and told me about in full detail he's disappeared on me in the past for a day with no explanation never there when I needed him the most to me that sounds like games as well. The last two months he's been great but I can't honestly just believe he doesn't have anymore tricks up his sleeve. I'm not punishing him either but you can't just leave me alone in the pregnancy that we both contributed to for the rest of the time during because of your personal feelings. We don't have to be together anything but to be there is all I wanted so now I'm done kissing his hind parts. He gets off on watching me suffer

i wish you'd send him this

so he knows that it's not only you to be blamed

Oh trust me I sent him a message last night expressing how I was assaulted during our relationship he wasn't there several incidences where I've needed him never there. Now my mother not that it's his problem you could at least ask me how I'm doing and understand I come from. But in his mind he does no wrong and he justifies everything he did with something I did. There's no understanding with him. He says he isn't angry but idk why be so ive towards with me if there wasn't any underlined feelings. I've said all the words possible he just doesn't find fault within himself externally

I just wonder how we'll be able to move forward as far as our communication we do have a child coming. He ant ignore me forever but Idk I'll give him space hoping he can get over himself. Still don't know the emotions he's feelings.

Then ask. Tell him how he feels about the whole fact that you both are going to have a kid. He might just be scared of the whole concept that he's having a kid and going to be father. Ask and you shall receive.

I've texted him everyday for the past few days been a pest. I think I do need to give him space now

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