How Virgo men break off relationships

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by VirgoVixxxen on Wednesday, October 6, 2010 and has 43 replies.
Really now? Bad Virgo man...bad, bad, bad. A Virgo woman would never behave this way.

All a Virgo man has to do is relentlessly criticize you and pick at your faults until you break down into tears. When you ask if he no longer wants to be with you, he will say, ???Of course I do. You just need to x, y and z, and everything will be fine.?? But when x, y and z are insurmountable tasks ??? when he is asking you to wipe yourself clean of all inadequacies ??? you realize you have been set up.
Or, he will say he??s not good enough for you. He tries to improve himself for your benefit, but he always comes up short. ???You??re probably better off with someone else, someone who measures up.?? You insist that he??s fine just the way he is, that you love him. ???But there must be something wrong with you, if you can love such a loser. Really, I don??t deserve you.??
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Posted by 25thDecan
I cannot. I can imagine two mature people in happiness and contentment.
I follow.
Methinks two virgos would really need to put the fucking hesitant bullshit aside and fuck each other's brains out to unclench though.
^ that actually sounds like a good therapy technique for two Virgos. Could you imagine the release of all that pent up tension? Virgo men often annoy the shit out of me so no thank you.
I criticize people if I'm teaching them something-middle school math or music. And it's constructive and positive. I always make sure I say what they did right as well. I'm weird. Other than that I don't care to critique people. I just don't. None of them matter to me. I see them as legitimate even in the things I find fault in. Completely weird but dah well.
I criticize because I often want people to be their best and I can always see the potential even when they don't. It frustrates me when people don't want to evolve. I swear to goodness I learn something new about myself everyday and try to change for the better.
Fuck fuck motherfuck scorpio women. Lmao....that shit's funny.....


I'm sure you'd love to. LOL.
I'm a pretty cool chick but I don't give dap to anybody. I'm a hug ya or give you a handshake in heels kind o' gal. Is that what you meant? Don't you start that rude shit wit me. LMAO!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Really now? Bad Virgo man...bad, bad, bad. A Virgo woman would never behave this way.


Maybe you would'nt behave that way, but some Virgettes do.
I pretty much flat out told most of my exes it was over, straight out.
At one point of less maturity, I would try to ease the final blow with build ups of mean-ness and criticisms, but that was once.
"Or, he will say he??s not good enough for you. He tries to improve himself for your benefit, but he always comes up short. ???You??re probably better off with someone else, someone who measures up.?? You insist that he??s fine just the way he is, that you love him. ???But there must be something wrong with you, if you can love such a loser. Really, I don??t deserve you.??
to Miss VirgoVixxen :this can apply to men from other sun sign too and it just means that the man is not attracted to the lady in a way that makes him feel better to be with her,rather than being single
Posted by quo vadis?
"Or, he will say he??s not good enough for you. He tries to improve himself for your benefit, but he always comes up short. ???You??re probably better off with someone else, someone who measures up.?? You insist that he??s fine just the way he is, that you love him. ???But there must be something wrong with you, if you can love such a loser. Really, I don??t deserve you.??
to Miss VirgoVixxen :this can apply to men from other sun sign too and it just means that the man is not attracted to the lady in a way that makes him feel better to be with her,rather than being single


Oh I absolutely agree that any man born under any sign will do this. This is not something that is necessarily specific to the Virgo man alone but, these passages are to help a woman understand in more general terms how to recognize when a Virgo man is trying to break up with you.
Posted by 25thDecan
Nail on the head dude...nail on the head.
And yes...virgovixxen that's what I meant....just the way I said it was better. I'm rude...love me. Get me a beer.
Lmao


Gladyly. Right after you finish rubbing my feet. Hahahaha.
two virgos can work my girl friend now and my ex were both virgos we get along great we understand each other. virgo girls are just like the males u can read up on the males the same rules apply. The only difference is that virgo girls are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more emotional than there male counterpart.
Posted by DyTryin

Cajun: I pretty much flat out told most of my exes it was over, straight out.
Yep... that's how a mature Virgo does it.
A clean break - less confusion that way.


I think I'm seeing a trend here. Maturity. The antidote to the behavior listed in those passages.
Posted by virgoking
two virgos can work my girl friend now and my ex were both virgos we get along great we understand each other. virgo girls are just like the males u can read up on the males the same rules apply. The only difference is that virgo girls are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more emotional than there male counterpart.


Oh I'm sure it can work...I just don't know if it can work for me. Virgo men are nice to look at and that's about as far as it goes. Interacting with one is like looking into a mirror. We are just too much alike and it's just down right annoying. I debated with a Virgo man once and he wouldn't shut up (but then again neither would I). It was like going 'round and 'round in a hamster wheel and that is when I knew that there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license.
Agreed with cajun and dy, A simple, \"It\'s over, goodbye; I hope you find somebody to suite you\" is a great statement, and i make sure to add a smiley face because they love that short of shit.
The whole "I'm not good enough thing" is a valid argument.
We are the premiere analysts in the Zodiac. Of course we're going to know if we suite our mate or not!
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Agreed with cajun and dy, A simple, \"It\'s over, goodbye; I hope you find somebody to suite you\" is a great statement, and i make sure to add a smiley face because they love that short of shit.


LOL.
Abruptly.
You speak from personal experience VB?
I do at that VV.
They're a piece of work those Virgo men. LOL.
LOL Ahhhh gotta love 'em. Orange jumpsuits are so unflattering. Winking
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LOL.


Yeah, a chick i have dated called me an asshole because I told her \"i want to stop seeing each other\" and i was smiling, so she automatically assumed I was being twisted and sarcastic, so she told her friends, which eventually came to me, \"He\'s going to die a lonely bastard\". I guess they don\'t like it when things go smoothly, and you break apart...
No wonder people hate dating pisces and virgos Winking
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Ahhhh gotta love 'em. Orange jumpsuits are so unflattering. Winking


And that is precisely why I stay away from Virgo men...because Orange is not my color. Ha!
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
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LOL.


Yeah, a chick i have dated called me an asshole because I told her \"i want to stop seeing each other\" and i was smiling, so she automatically assumed I was being twisted and sarcastic, so she told her friends, which eventually came to me, \"He\'s going to die a lonely bastard\". I guess they don\'t like it when things go smoothly, and you break apart...
No wonder people hate dating pisces and virgos Winking
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I hear you, Sorti. I think that people are just so used to drama (especially when it comes to break-ups) that when something is done in an un-dramatic fashion, they don't know what the hell to do with themselves. This is where I think Virgos in general infuriate people. To be able to be done with someone or something so quickly and seamlessly sparks anger and resentment. I don't care for 'messy' emotional displays. When I'm done, I just want to go quickly and never look back.
Posted by 25thDecan
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Posted by virgoking
two virgos can work my girl friend now and my ex were both virgos we get along great we understand each other. virgo girls are just like the males u can read up on the males the same rules apply. The only difference is that virgo girls are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more emotional than there male counterpart.


Oh I'm sure it can work...I just don't know if it can work for me. Virgo men are nice to look at and that's about as far as it goes. Interacting with one is like looking into a mirror. We are just too much alike and it's just down right annoying. I debated with a Virgo man once and he wouldn't shut up (but then again neither would I). It was like going 'round and 'round in a hamster wheel and that is when I knew that there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license.



Wrong way to look at it babe. This was mindsex that should've led to mindnumbing psychotic sex. The kind where sweat gets EVERYWHERE BETWEENV EVERYWHERE......mmmmmmmm
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Well needless to say I don't have mindnumbing psychotic sex with married Virgo men (who's wife was also a Virgo btw) whether or not we engage in 'mindsex' LOL. Even if he wasn't married, 'our' argumentative trait can be really fucking annoying and off-putting. I just get turned off by people who I can see my own negative qualities in...regardless of how hot he may be.
Chauvinist.
That's hot.
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Oh I\'m sure it can work...I just don\'t know if it can work for me. Virgo men are nice to look at and that\'s about as far as it goes. Interacting with one is like looking into a mirror. We are just too much alike and it\'s just down right annoying. I debated with a Virgo man once and he wouldn\'t shut up (but then again neither would I). It was like going \'round and \'round in a hamster wheel and that is when I knew that there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license.


Don\'t worry, i won\'t do that with you Winking
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I hear you, Sorti. I think that people are just so used to drama (especially when it comes to break-ups) that when something is done in an un-dramatic fashion, they don\'t know what the hell to do with themselves. This is where I think Virgos in general infuriate people. To be able to be done with someone or something so quickly and seamlessly sparks anger and resentment. I don\'t care for \'messy\' emotional displays. When I\'m done, I just want to go quickly and never look back.


Like i said, I won\'t do that with you suga. I\'ll just smile, and you\'ll laugh and we\'ll just have some naughty, kinky, dirty, mud-fight sex while 25thdecan watches like the good little voyeur he is. Winking Winking Winking
Unless you are not down!!!!
Posted by 25thDecan
Mindfuck is when virgovixxxen does something typical of virgirls to a man...win the argument THEN fuck him...when in a relationship......lol


Mmmmm....virgoviXXXXXXXEN......I got more x's now.......if this was alphabet soup, the sauces would be BOILING! GIGGIDY! Aquila, I've decided your latin ass could get it too.....id let a scorpiolatina like you hit....once...then run far away....lmao


Some men don't want to do the dirty after their woman has beaten them in an argument. Suckers.
More X's...I like!
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Oh I\'m sure it can work...I just don\'t know if it can work for me. Virgo men are nice to look at and that\'s about as far as it goes. Interacting with one is like looking into a mirror. We are just too much alike and it\'s just down right annoying. I debated with a Virgo man once and he wouldn\'t shut up (but then again neither would I). It was like going \'round and \'round in a hamster wheel and that is when I knew that there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license.


Don\'t worry, i won\'t do that with you Winking
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Bullshit. You're a male Virgo. Of course you will.
Posted by virg_goki
damnn... v-Vixxen can i have your number? Tongue i've only got 1 planet in virgo.. everything else's firey Big Grin
the marketing your getting is overwhelming for me Big GrinTongue


Well let's see now...I have about 3 planets in Virgo...a few in Scorpio...and about three in fire (Leo, Sag & Aries)...and 1 in air (Libra)...alrighty...we might do alright together...800-999-VIXX.
"there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license."
to Miss VirgoViven: well ,there are words of wisdom "never say never" smile ok,i was joking /just recalled on the virgo board the happy story of MrYosarrian.
Posted by quo vadis?
"there could never be a double dosage of Virgo in my household. One of us would be dead before the ink was dry on the marriage license."
to Miss VirgoViven: well ,there are words of wisdom "never say never" smile ok,i was joking /just recalled on the virgo board the happy story of MrYosarrian.


Ha ha ha. You are funny, quo vadis. I know anything is possible. Even two Virgos happily in love. Interestingly enough, they always say it's one of the better pairings in the zodiac.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Some men don't want to do the dirty after their woman has beaten them in an argument. Suckers.


I can safely say, that doesn't apply to me lol
Hi there. I'm an aquarius with cap ascend.Moon Cap, Mars Aries
My guy is Virgo (Sept 16 1959) either a leo or scorpio ascend. Pisces Moon, Venus Virgo, Mars Libra We don't know his time of birth. Does anyone know what this spells for us?

He's a twin, his brother married with 4 kids. They work together in their farm business. He's the passive one. They are both entirely passive aggressive.

It has been 2 years of me chasing, and him holding back. Me leaving, him letting me back. He doesn't seem to know why he does, and doesn't want to, keeps trying...a bit. But the last time I saw him he stood me up and was mean about it. Said i was setting myself up to get let down, because he couldn't get off work in time, but didn't call etc. Decided to drink after work with his staff.
His family doesn't like me for him(but we were friends before I was involved with their brother), and it stresses us out. Its about money. Family farm. They have removed other gf's from his life/bossed him around.
I have tried to reassure him along the way, but I feel unwanted, and think if I stay away he won't feel pressured, and can get back to working and drinking with his friends that tell him what to think.
He's only called me a couple times in 2 years. His friends come first, and never makes plan for us.
I don't want to push him into anything, and am feeling drained.
Aquacap, similar story, I've been with a Virgo almost 2 years and he's broken up with me 3 times over the stupidest things. He can totally walk away and then I chase and he lets me back. He's TOTALLY non communicative, and cold-hearted. He'll do little things for me but can't even say "I miss you." If I tell him I miss him, he'll say something like, "well we just saw each other." What an ass. I mentioned seeing other people and he said, No I'd rather it be just us. I finally broke it off with him a week ago, couldn't take feeling like I was nothing to him. He doesn't even strike me as a real human, just so unfeeling.
This guy you're seeing isn't worth it, it doesn't sound like he gives anything, just selfish. Sounds like you should walk, stop chasing. No guy is worth your self esteem.
Posted by aquacap
Hi there. I'm an aquarius with cap ascend.Moon Cap, Mars Aries
My guy is Virgo (Sept 16 1959) either a leo or scorpio ascend. Pisces Moon, Venus Virgo, Mars Libra We don't know his time of birth. Does anyone know what this spells for us?

He's a twin, his brother married with 4 kids. They work together in their farm business. He's the passive one. They are both entirely passive aggressive.

It has been 2 years of me chasing, and him holding back. Me leaving, him letting me back. He doesn't seem to know why he does, and doesn't want to, keeps trying...a bit. But the last time I saw him he stood me up and was mean about it. Said i was setting myself up to get let down, because he couldn't get off work in time, but didn't call etc. Decided to drink after work with his staff.
His family doesn't like me for him(but we were friends before I was involved with their brother), and it stresses us out. Its about money. Family farm. They have removed other gf's from his life/bossed him around.
I have tried to reassure him along the way, but I feel unwanted, and think if I stay away he won't feel pressured, and can get back to working and drinking with his friends that tell him what to think.
He's only called me a couple times in 2 years. His friends come first, and never makes plan for us.
I don't want to push him into anything, and am feeling drained.


aquacap,
I'm really sorry to hear your story but I think it's time that you move on. Why do you stay? It seems as all of the signs are there that he doesn't feel the same about you as you do for him. You should kick him to the curb and stop allowing him to string you along like this. Find that bone in your back and move on so that you can find someone who will treat you with love and respect.
Posted by rdiana
Aquacap, similar story, I've been with a Virgo almost 2 years and he's broken up with me 3 times over the stupidest things. He can totally walk away and then I chase and he lets me back. He's TOTALLY non communicative, and cold-hearted. He'll do little things for me but can't even say "I miss you." If I tell him I miss him, he'll say something like, "well we just saw each other." What an ass. I mentioned seeing other people and he said, No I'd rather it be just us.
I finally broke it off with him a week ago, couldn't take feeling like I was nothing to him.
Good for you rdiana!
He doesn't even strike me as a real human, just so unfeeling.
Sadly enough, Virgos can be really cold.
This guy you're seeing isn't worth it, it doesn't sound like he gives anything, just selfish. Sounds like you should walk, stop chasing. No guy is worth your self esteem.
Cosign

Thanks Virgovixen, you're right. seems the virgals are different from the virgals? I can put up with a lot of crap, but then I get cold when I've been hurt enough. the guys, they seem to be cold from the beginning. What sign do you think is the best match for us? I'll RUN next time a guy tells me he's a virgo!!! (been with 2 of em)
Hey rdiana,
Well, we do have our differences but we're very much the same and that is why I have said it time and again: I will never date a Virgo man. Ha!
Try a Cancer. In my opinion, they are really the virgal's best fit. They fill in all the bits and pieces that we don't have vice versa. It's a perfect match. Have you ever dated a Cancer before?
You know what Decan, you have a point. No sense in writing off Virgo men for good based on 2 bad experiences.
Although I have never had a relationship with a Virgo man before, I say I won't date them because they just don't interest me the way that some of the other zodiac men do (Cancers, Scorps, Caps, Tauruses). They just don't do it for me beyond looks...nah mean? I just never have that emotional connection with them the way that I do with the ones I listed above (maybe it's due to all of that coldness on both sides...LOL). It's just the way it is. Who knows, perhaps in the future, something might change.
Posted by 25thDecan
Just run into a guy who isn't "calm" in demeanor who's a virgo.
Those types exist?
Plenty of em here in Texas and Louisiana....not me of course. I'm just consitent. I'm mostly calm till you push the button or push an issue I've told you I don't wanna hear.


No 'button pushing' here. LOL.
I really liked all your points, and advice. Thanks for your time indeed!
Rdiana: yes, it seems that we have travelled the same road. I haven't contacted him now for a month. I have bad days, and then strong days, but I'm going to be okay.
I have to stop thinking that I know what he wants even if he doesn't tell me.
Virgo Vixen, yep, I can feel that backbone resurfacing there! Its getting stronger! For 2 years I thought we were getting somewherre, but it was just my fantasy.
Dearest 25th Decan: I wish it was true that it didn't work out because I am guilty of what you said:
"Don't expect ANY man to jump up and down, throw feces, beat his chest and brachiate through the nearest trees because you walked into a room. If you like emotional outburst from a man as a consistent marker for how he's feeling at any given moment then when you run into such men, don't lament how you've run into a complete NUTJOB the next minute. Be realistic. Calm does not equal UNEMOTIONAL. And the zodiac won't ehlp you find the guy who'll break his back to kiss your ass every two seconds."
I really love the fack he is calm, cool and collected, its something I loved to see in him, learn from him. That's what is so attractive to me.
It's one of the things he offered that no other men can. I'm at a loss! But so is he perhaps...
Thanks all!
Good, good, good aquacap! Don't let him take advantage of you. People only do to you what you let them. Good luck!

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